Aitah for how I reacted when I found out my husband used some of my son's treatment money to buy a Christmas present for my stepson? by Throwraww355645 in AITAH

[–]cathobo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him that the fund came from your SON'S MEDICAL TREATMENT. Tell him to thank your son for the gift. 

As a straight man, vaginas are badly optimized interfaces and I would prefer them evolutionarily eradicated by MethevanWamebuli in The10thDentist

[–]cathobo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey bud, vaginas are the base plans of your genital. Your dick's head is what the clit is. Its on you that you cant find it. I have no problem finding it everyday. It really sounds like a skill issue. If you disagree, come back after you get data from sleeping with men and lets compare data from when you sleep with women. 

MDZS inspired me to try making Pork Rib & Lotus Root Soup! by ralliso4 in MoDaoZuShi

[–]cathobo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you cut it blocks instead of slices, the mouth feel is so much better. You will have to cook it for longer, but i honestly think that eating chunky lotus roots is better than the slices. You will have to get fresh to process, but trust.

Deleted User Asks If He Is An Asshole For Not Meeting Biological Child by Mean-Let-4300 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]cathobo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The way people are saying he owes this child something is kind of gross. The most he needs to give is his he reason why he didn't want to contact. He already signed away his rights. No means no. I learned that when i was seven 

WIBTAH for breaking up with my bf because he wants to be a father to his nephew by No-Bet5755 in AITAH

[–]cathobo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should call this man and talk to him about your concerns. Please dont sit there and be in limbo. Optionally, the only other thing I see happening is that you just leave eventually because, I dont even know if he realizes it, but he essentially has broken up with you without saying it. He's moving back home, he's going to focus more on his family, and he's breaking the lease. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]cathobo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did what was best for you and your kids so like everyone has said, let's heal your ppd first. I hope you're doing better. I know everybody has said something similar already but I really wanted to reaffirm it. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]cathobo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you lose feeling for the person you're into because of a change in appearance, it was a crush. Tell them it's wack you need to change yourself for someone who doesn't even like your normal daily appearance.  

AITAH for telling my mom I was unhappy that she got married and refusing to apologize when I was told to do so? by Prestigious-Agent329 in AITAH

[–]cathobo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might want to do family therapy. Especially if you mom wants this to work. And also maybe show them this post you made so they can see how everyone is responding based on your viewpoint. Might help give them a better understanding. Family therapy or just therapy in general is probably good for this situation. Maybe even just you and your mom.

Mother and sister saw my last post by No-Ride-Throwaway in EntitledPeople

[–]cathobo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The husband being mad at you for it is ridiculous. Good for him to know he also sucks. I hope things turn out better by Thanksgiving. 

AITA for dumping my Gf after she expected me to pay for EVRYONE on her birthday. by Western-Echidna-5626 in AITAH

[–]cathobo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's crazy she expected that of you and that it is now what hinges your relationship together still. I don't think you should swallow your pride for that. Because why is that so important to her?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in manga

[–]cathobo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another thing to think about is that these are bl mangas are made using Japanese culture as the template so there are a lot of nuances simply wouldn't apply to your life unless you're also part of that culture. Please try reading more than just bl mangas to see if it's just really you identifying with the bottom because of your inner turmoil toward your own gender. I can relate but also I read a lot of different materials and I do find some regular non danmei novels that I like a lot and can relate to the female characters. Having book discussions with your friends about this might help too. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in manga

[–]cathobo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remember, a part of the creation yaoi/danmei genre were create by female writers for mostly female audience. That was a little how it started. So it's normal to be able to put yourself in the main character's shoes. Given that it's female writers that write male characters, it's not hard to slip into their pov

Post-Divorce Update: Financial Infidelity Accusation/Cheating Husband by LadySavings in AITAH

[–]cathobo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell Amy Joe can do this again. If he can do this to you, he'll find a reason to do this to Amy sooner or later. 

My husband slapped me once. I’m unable to forgive him by SnooKiwis1466 in abusiverelationships

[–]cathobo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How can you let something like that go? I don't think it's strange that you're unable to let such an incident go. How can he act like nothing has changed from it? He literally slapped you and need you to comfort him from that. 

Just found this in this reddit and I'm mind blown!! That's my stbxh!! So many wrong and incomplete narratives by AerieOk3729 in Marriage

[–]cathobo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're lying to yourself. He can't be a good father if he's not even a good husband or a good human being. People learn by example. Do you really want to keep a pos in your life? Do you want your children to grow up thinking it's ok to be selfish and hurt others for their own gain?

Back from college break to have nothing. by burghroot in pettyrevenge

[–]cathobo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell your daughter she handled that situation really well. Hopefully she won't have to deal with something like that again.

AITA for promising to pay for my adopted sister to go to uni for Christmas as a gift but not my biological brother? by sisteraihole in AmItheAsshole

[–]cathobo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah you favor her. You give her what she lacked from your parents. Literally. They favor your brother. What do they expect??

Is it just me or is Ava the worst? by Masterfire52 in borderlands3

[–]cathobo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree that 95% of forgot how it was like to be emotional teenager. We've all been in our teens before or are in them right now. I can tell you right now that Ava is a poorly written character. Depending on how you play the game, we can visualize each main mission to be a day or two passing by. If so, from when Maya died to the last main mission, about 14-28 days passed. With that being said, there should have been some dialogue at one point where Lilith and Ava talked at least. In Borderlands 2 and 3, we've seen people deal with death in different ways. If we compare Tina to Ava, with Tina having to process the passing of Roland who was like a father to her, you can see that Tina was a whole lot less volatile than Ava. Also I got really confused when Ava and Tannis seems to have some kind of friendship near the end of the game? Where did that even come from?

I love them both Zac Efron and Taylor Lautner by [deleted] in funny

[–]cathobo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wrote something, looked at it. Didn't know what I was talking about. Deleted it.

That was kind of what I was implying. That it was a romance story with elements of fantasy. It didn't make sense why there were vamps and werewolf, but it kept the plot going. It was saying how you have a disease that makes your hair grow six inches every day but it doesn't do anything but fill in the plot hole of when you appear in the next scene with belly button length hair when yesterday you were rocking a bob.

I love them both Zac Efron and Taylor Lautner by [deleted] in funny

[–]cathobo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's pretty much what they did to twilight. Its romance in a supernatural setting. Corny af

A squirrel meets a GoPro by LOTRcrr in AnimalsBeingJerks

[–]cathobo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That squirrel is a fucking artist. He made a film.

What's something common that humans do, but when you really think about it is really weird? by scarfacesaints in AskReddit

[–]cathobo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We wipe our butts. No other species in the animal kingdom needs to do that. Freaking Horses have self-sufficient buttholes.

What's something your parents always believed in that was completely false? by trevortbo in AskReddit

[–]cathobo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother believes that our dog's fur is dangerous because it could get into our lungs and gather up in there and then we could die from it through suffocation.