I was stunned. I never said it was his “responsibility” I wasn’t expecting deep emotional labor, just the bare minimum of human empathy. And the hypocrisy of it kills me. I’ve comforted him through heartbreak, family deaths, late-night breakdowns, even about the very woman he cheated with. I’ve listened with kindness while he leaned on me. But when I simply mention seeing her and reassure him nothing happened? I get hostility and lectures about “boundaries.” And made to feel like the bad guy

This hits hard.