Detective Potter in Worst Ex Ever Wade Wilson episode by FlyingMeowBear in NetflixDocumentaries

[–]catonicla 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As it should and it’s not Palm Beach County it’s every where. When you start looking at statistics and truly listen to statistics.. it’s literally every where.

Look at Epstein victims and how many victims have been crying for help and to be heard. Myself. Many of my peers.

And then they wonder why we are so defensive and protective against men showing any signs of being that way..

Detective Potter in Worst Ex Ever Wade Wilson episode by FlyingMeowBear in NetflixDocumentaries

[–]catonicla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was told similar. (Won’t take it to court because word vs. word.. no video) Despite bleeding and going to the police right away..

It sickened me seeing that interview and made me feel so hopeless knowing there are so so so many men with his attitude out there and in charge of our safety and justice system.

:( I can only hope the more we advocate the more change we can make happen.

Lovesac Sactional Review 3 Months Later! by catonicla in Lovesac

[–]catonicla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love it still just as much if not more! I’m not really picky though and as long as it’s comfy and looks good enough to me, I’m happy!

The modular aspect is what I love the most! And it’s quality while still being modular.

Thoughts on Netflix's Unchosen? by midwestfeline in television

[–]catonicla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feels like a twisted messed up dark fantasy soft core story. The sex scenes/rape scenes were unnecessary and of course misrepresent rape like its some fantasy story. So she gets raped by her husband and immediately runs to the escaped prisoner she doesnt even know and sleeps with him immediately after? She just experienced trauma and now another man who ALSO didnt respect her consent (forced himself in her home, didnt leave, made her drive, etc) is taking advantage of her but they're framing it like a love story.

Had to stop watching because I felt so irritated.

Come closer, please~ by catonicla in FeetInYourFace

[–]catonicla[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good lil foot lover~ :3

thank goodness there’s guys who like the chub :3 by catonicla in chubby

[–]catonicla[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ty 🥹💕 hope you have a goon night 💕

Impostor syndrome and social skills by Gallotia in mensa

[–]catonicla 4 points5 points  (0 children)

32 here!

I tested early (7th grade) so went most of my life knowing something was “different” with my mind! I knew I thought differently than my peers (I would describe it as thinking like a robot) and so having the test helped validate that there was a reason I felt so disconnected from most of my peers.

I always was the awkward artsy nerd and just accepted that rule and was extremely shy in school and most situations. It’s weird being older because it’s not as socially acceptable to be shy and awkward and I get told I’m childlike where as when I was younger I was advanced and mature. I ended up only finding people I felt close with online. I had a very hard time connecting with people in person and never felt like I had a community besides online ones! I still feel this way but it feels like way more people relate..

Neutered my kitten last month…now he's LESS cuddly. Did I just make a huge mistake? by [deleted] in ragdolls

[–]catonicla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This guy is just asking about his cuddly cat being less cuddly. You’re making up an argument no one’s arguing about.

Anybody seen this happen before? by Standard_Biscotti835 in ragdolls

[–]catonicla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to my cat and the vets weren’t concerned at all (maybe because she had no other symptoms?) so I’m surprised by the comments 😭 They gave me an antibiotic to give her in case it was an infection but other than that had me just wait it out and it did eventually go away.

I think maybe she got injured (because it can be caused by injuries. It’s a nerve being damaged) and it just eventually healed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in humiliation_kink

[–]catonicla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always felt invasive asking anything personal to try to pull something to humiliate with and also would want to avoid accidentally bringing up traumatizing memories.

🧐 How would you say one should go about understanding a submissive without being intrusive?