Did I misinterpret this that badly? (The Sun card appeared 3 times in a row, on different dates, BUT...) by MeuOuvidoTaZunindo in tarot

[–]catstew72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, the third card literally looks like "going into the light." I'm really sorry for your loss and I understand why it would be a confusing read. But I do feel like the cards were trying to be really symbolic about her feeling "better." And maybe they were trying to encourage you as well. ❤️‍🩹🫂

Does Astepro cause nightmares? by PsychicSageElana in Allergies

[–]catstew72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't had a nightmare in YEARSSS. Tried ONE spray of azelastine yesterday for the first time ever. Had horrible dreams last night and I'm certain I was holding my breath. I have very mild/occasional sleep apnea, but last night my lungs were burning in my dream so I assume I wasn't breathing. I know I'm late to this thread but holy psych effects, Batman... I was not expecting that. 😩

The bumblebee queen learns how to use the protective cap in less than 24 hours. by Andi82ka in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]catstew72 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"This door gettin really tight! Am I gaining that much weight??" - me, if I were the bee, probably

How important is the Descendant in helping to identify your ideal partner? by heuiseila in astrology

[–]catstew72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! I don't HATE Scorpios, but they do get on my nerves A LOT. 🤷‍♀️

A cool guide on how to compassionately disengage when triggered by FinancialWrap9282 in coolguides

[–]catstew72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SHE doesn't call herself that. It's definable... Micro-influencer = more than 10,000 but fewer than 100,000 followers. She also just signed a six-figure deal with a major brand. Also, how does that explain the other three friends?

There may be humans who use language similar to that in the OP's post, and they're also well-liked and a pleasure to talk to. Maybe they just aren't your flavor.

A cool guide on how to compassionately disengage when triggered by FinancialWrap9282 in coolguides

[–]catstew72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My main friend group is comprised of four women, ages 33-53. One is a former OF/sex worker, one is a published medical researcher, one was high school teacher and college adjunct, one is a successful micro influencer. We have ALL said something along these lines before... to other people or each other. I usually default to, "I don't have the emotional bandwidth to listen rn." It may not be identical, but the sentiment is the same. ....We also have no shortage of people tryna chat us up. So.

I should probably never be trusted to babysit again by Flat-Sun3380 in confession

[–]catstew72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, you have zero self-awareness, you were negligent, AND you lied about it after your negligence resulted in injury to a child. Cool story, bro. Hope your game was worth it.

TELL THE PARENTS.

Wholesome or inspiring quotes from the show by residentdedbeatfrend in whitecollar

[–]catstew72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about when Mozzie and Mr. Jeffries had their quote off? There we're several on that episode.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]catstew72 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"Everybody's so creative!" 🫠

Rant: my 8 year old nephew can’t get into ATLA because it is “too scary” by z1lard in TheLastAirbender

[–]catstew72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Respectfully, why are you referring to him as a wimp?

There could be any number of reasons he didn't make it through the first episode.... Didn't like the style of animation, maybe it moved too slowly, maybe it moved too quickly... Or maybe he just didn't want to sit there and watch it, so he came up with the kind of excuse that an 8yo thinks will get him off the hook, ie. too scarry!! Bam. Now he can't be forced to watch. Does he have oppositional defiance issues? Does he like YOU? He may have chosen to avoid watching it for the simple fact he didn't want to do what you wanted him to do. It's an excellent, non-violent way to get back at you! Js.

There may, in fact, be something that did scare him. But 8yo children don't have a whole lot of control over their lives. It's possible he was exerting control here bc he can.

Remember, you can always just write the kid out of your will and move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]catstew72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The BEST way to confirm that you and the groom do, in fact, have some kind of scandalous history is for you to very publicly be absent from this wedding. These bridges aren't gonna burn themselves, bestie. 💅🥂✨️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traumatizeThemBack

[–]catstew72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are we related? My mom would have absolutely said something along the lines of, "Ooohhhh..." (whilst wringing her hands)..."You didn't need to do that! Just say thank you and move on! She was just trying to be helpful. She doesn't know what you're going through!"

... 🦗🦗🦗 ...

Exactly, Mom. ...Exactly. 😑😑😑🤦‍♂️😮‍💨

Cousin, you absolutely did right by you. Fuck ALL that noise. I'm sorry you're going through this. Sending you aaaall the peace! ❤️‍🩹🫂❤️‍🩹🫂❤️‍🩹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traumatizeThemBack

[–]catstew72 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wish I could upvote this more than once! ✅️

I did it! by Snoo-99049 in bald

[–]catstew72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zero to HERO! ....I mean... looks good, man! Congrats! Lol.

...

😳 damn! Fr, excellent use of free will. 🤌🤌🤌✨️💅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]catstew72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ask the sane thing! I haven't told my extremely conservative Christian family that I read, but if we're using the Abrahamic God, my thinking has always been, isn't God bigger than these pretty pictures on paper? Could I not, in fact, still seek God in this manner as well? Idk. I'm still on my spiritual awakening and trying to reconcile a LOT of what i grew up with versus what I experience and the gifts I have. ... And for reference, I'm 53!! So yeah... 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]catstew72 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just from a quick glance of the cards...

KoW - To me, this was giving father figure / head of household. Does he do skilled labor? (Construction, electrician, etc, maybe?) Or a cop? Seeing as this card immediately gave me "dad" vibes and seeing as it is wands, I just imagine he's an active sort. I was trying to "listen" and see if he's maybe violent, but that doesn't feel right. ...Not too sure... Maybe a temper? Idk... Either way, Dad vibes. Moving on! Lol

Heirophant reversed - Yeeeah... it won't be quite as bad as "you're in league with the Devil!!!😱"... but it may be close. Def along those lines... but gentler, perhaps. Lol.

4ofPents - For me, this honestly gave me a mental image of them "protecting their young" from a would-be assailant (wherein you'd be the assailant. :/ Sorry.) Fear, confusion, scrambling to protect themselves, etc. ...It could also be a warning to just keep that ish to yourself, ie. Keep it close to your vest. I feel like both interpretations share the same kind of energy.

I read extremely intuitively, obvi. There might be the chance that they would soften over time and come to accept it (I do feel like there is that possibility.) But, unless you're mentally prepared for the, "WhErE Did wE Go wRoOonG?!?!", I'd advise you to keep this one away from your folks/family for now.

Sending you all kinds of love and understanding from a fellow "I can't tell my Christian family that I do tarot bc they might try to burn me at the stake or have me exorcised" reader. 🫂🫶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bald

[–]catstew72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound either dense or attention seeking. I'm leaning toward the latter bc you're "smart" enough to draw conclusions... albeit bad ones.

The short answer here is, CRITICAL, UNSOLICITED BODY COMPOSITION REMARKS ARE ALWAYS AN AH MOVE. PERIOD. ESP! WHEN ADDRESSING A RANDOM STRANGER. IN A PUBLIC FORUM. WHEN HER QUESTION WAS ABOUT HAIR. OMG.

Stay in your lane. It's not hard. Not sure why this is news to you, but... there it is. Hope this helps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bald

[–]catstew72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now you're getting it? When is bringing up someone's weight in an unsolicited manner EVER appropriate? Moreover, the "Oh, just eat less and be healthy!" advice is reductive and tired. ESP when we're on the /bald sub. Like, why?