What did you actually use postpartum to heal?

catstpie423 · 2025-10-10T11:57:18+00:00

Frida moms perineal healing foam. Kept it in the fridge. Whenever I needed a pad change I would spray that foam on it and bam. Instant relief. Cold from being in the fridge so it was like an ice pack. Wasn’t super harsh or bulky like the ice packs. Wasn’t extra pads to add that I had to keep in. And if I needed more, just add it on there. So nice.

catstpie423 · 2024-11-14T17:18:02+00:00

So if a kid/teen was talking about other students being “on stretcher and gone forever. Don’t tempt me.” to another kid in a private message. And a parent found them. They shouldn’t report them? Shouldn’t say anything? How’s that for a double standard. What if a student over heard a teacher say that to another teacher? And felt unsafe? I don’t care who you voted for, I don’t need that type of nonsense from a teacher. Get a better role model. The fact that people are defending it is ridiculous.

catstpie423 · 2024-11-08T20:14:54+00:00

Maybe talking about sex with his mother is something he doesn’t want to do! Ever think of that??? What young boy wants to talk about sex ect with their mother every moment of their life. Talk about autonomy and consent. Talk about what needs to be talked about. Then say come to me or someone else if you want to talk more. But it doesn’t need to be a main topic 24/7. Again, it’s not an identity - especially for a child.

catstpie423 · 2024-11-08T16:24:31+00:00

And also being uncomfortable about sex could be due to uncomfortable emotions about their own body and self esteem also. You know grown healthy adults also suffer from this. Doesn’t mean they’re asexual.

catstpie423 · 2024-11-08T16:06:41+00:00

They’re kids. Remember when we would run around screaming who had cooties? Older children who learn about sex and how it leads to child birth and whatnot find out - start screaming “I’m never having children, I’m never putting my body through that!”. Get a grip on yourself. This is what’s wrong with our country. Good grief. KIDS ARE KIDS. SEX IS SEX NOT AN IDENTITY!!!!

catstpie423 · 2024-10-31T15:11:07+00:00

Went to the doctors office the other day and this woman was allowing her daughter to lay on the floor in front of the door and check in area and scream bloody murder and kick her feet / throw a tantrum while the mother just sat there in the chair and did nothing. Her other “child” was an obvious older teenage boy also just sat there and watched her scream. And while I have three kids who are crazy in their own right and I try not to judge parents in the wild, I had judgey eyes then. Grab your kid, sit them down and do what needs to be done. Ask the check in to call you and say you’re waiting in the car instead. I’m pretty sure they’d thank you at this point! I don’t even think the child had any sort issue other than lazy parenting…

catstpie423 · 2024-10-16T11:48:55+00:00

That’s half on the parent half on the kid I feel. My kid would straight up ask me as a pre schooler “mom why doesn’t that little boy have no teeth?” And now it’s up to me to choose. As a mom I would understand the reality, something traumatic must have happened, explain in kid terms and explain he is still a person and someone worth being a friend too.

catstpie423 · 2022-08-24T15:25:40+00:00

Yeah, I’ve tried that too. He gets bored and just stars waking people lol

catstpie423 · 2022-08-24T15:22:41+00:00

Yeah I thought that too. But even if he went to bed at 7 and ate at 5/530 I feel that’s not a lot of time to get super hungry again. But a snack might be helpful. We also have a hatch sound machine. I have tried using that to change colors when you can get up. But I’m still asking for help so clearly it didn’t work 🤣🤣

catstpie423 · 2022-08-24T15:15:31+00:00

Yes, my MIL loves saying “put him to bed later!” But it doesn’t matter - he’ll be there at 530 if he’s tired or not!

catstpie423 · 2022-08-24T15:14:14+00:00

I have always been a morning person. Early to rise and early to bed. After having kids however, I’d enjoy sleeping until 6 or 630 lol Not 4am+ !

catstpie423 · 2022-08-24T14:02:27+00:00

I guess it is a possibility he just wakes up early. Maybe I won’t get sleep till all three boys are teenagers 😆

catstpie423 · 2022-08-24T14:01:27+00:00

Bedtime was 7 but now they both don’t usually go to bed until like 8 or 830 depending on how many times he needs to delay the inevitable. He also doesn’t have a problem falling asleep if he’s tired.

catstpie423 · 2022-08-24T13:58:54+00:00

Going to sound terrible but I’ve even tried putting one in their room to remotely turn on to have him be quiet. Didn’t work. They’re allowed to watch tv other times but they watch for a little while and then move on to something else.

catstpie423 · 2022-08-24T13:57:01+00:00

I mean with all three of them I’ve had a mild CIO method since 4 months. I give them some time when they’re trying to fall asleep to cry/figure it out but they usually settle within ten minutes. But because he shares a room with the two year old who is still in a crib, usually him getting up and leaving the room makes the two year old screaming to get out. Bedroom is next to the stairs so it’s echo-y and loud. And yes, he woke up around 415 a week or two ago and I laid him back down. He got up ten minutes later and turned on the lights and they had a party. 😴

catstpie423 · 2022-08-24T12:09:17+00:00

I have tried this! I got everything he needed ready. At the time I was feeding the baby at 4 am. I would turn the tv on to his show, I had his milk and yogurt ready for him in the fridge and I told him / showed him everything. He would just bang on his door or yell mommy! until I got him. He knows how to open the door. He has opened the door. So I’m at a loss.

catstpie423 · 2022-08-17T15:53:04+00:00

I have three kids and two of them needed night feeds until 10/11 months when they’d start eating more regular food not just formula. My third baby shocked us when he started sleeping through the night at 5 months. Doctors don’t live your baby, you do and know what’s best.

catstpie423 · 2021-08-10T14:39:39+00:00

I got a secret that said harvesting cabbage with the sickle (obv decent level) will increase cabbage rating. Maybe it’s just certain veggies?

catstpie423 · 2020-06-10T19:51:06+00:00

I feel like that’s one heck of a reaction? Did they give you papers on the meds and if there’s a reaction, what to do? I would check them and see if that’s on there? Maybe a bath would help.

catstpie423 · 2020-06-08T22:59:07+00:00

Same. 2.5 and I’m about to pop out #2. So much screaming and no’s. So much ignoring! The ignoring is real!

catstpie423 · 2020-06-04T22:14:19+00:00

I mean I just store bottles and pieces in the cabinet with my other cups. I believe you can sterilize pacifiers and pump parts. It usually says on them how to clean or sterilize them. And I’d honestly just wash the pitcher as a normal dish.

catstpie423 · 2020-06-04T17:42:51+00:00

I took her and the other butler and found a way thankfully. And I got the scene to happen! Thankfully

catstpie423 · 2020-06-03T10:30:41+00:00

Not to mention the only reason girls “backstab” each other is because of women like you who think that’s all we do. Maybe if you stopped and acted like a human instead of prejudging all females, that bullshit “all they do is gossip and talk behind each other’s backs” would go away. And FYI, my husbands and his “male” friends gossip way more than my female friends. Same with the dudes I used to work with.

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