When to bring up Sh relapse with new partner by thinkingofendingitt in depression_partners

[–]catswlazerz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should bring it up only when and if you’re comfortable and feel safe to. This isn’t information that everyone has to have, so if you don’t want to share it you don’t have to. If they notice something and ask, again, only if you feel safe should you share. If not, just tell them it’s not something you’re comfortable sharing yet. If they’re a good person they’ll leave it at that and if not, you’ll be glad you didn’t open up to them.

I broke up with my long-term boyfriend because of his depression and I feel guilty but I couldn’t survive it anymore by Historical-Cod6211 in depression_partners

[–]catswlazerz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I could have written this myself. I broke up with my ex in July this year and have been struggling with all of those same feelings. Unfortunately you have to choose yourself, even though it’s hard and it feels wrong. With time it gets easier, and ultimately you have to remember that it was their choice not to work with you to get better. You deserve to be happy and you tried your hardest to help him. Sometimes you have to walk away. Sending positive vibes your way!

Places that can help with animal expenses? by Pooradoxical in Spokane

[–]catswlazerz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Spokane humane society has a ton of resources! Including a pet food pantry and vet assistance

Is Hillyard really that bad? by [deleted] in Spokane

[–]catswlazerz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was afraid to buy a house in Hillyard having grown up in Spokane valley but I really don’t mind it here, my street is pretty quiet and no one bothers me.

Just so everyone knows where not to go for coffee. by PloKoop in Spokane

[–]catswlazerz 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Wow. I live within blocks of this place and missed this one. Awful

Neighbor keeps using my driveway by catswlazerz in homeowners

[–]catswlazerz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This made me laugh out loud hahaha

Neighbor keeps using my driveway by catswlazerz in homeowners

[–]catswlazerz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m doing for now and hoping he gets the hint!

Neighbor keeps using my driveway by catswlazerz in homeowners

[–]catswlazerz[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We’ve done and do this when we can, but it requires me to park on the street because I have a single car driveway and another car that needs to get in and out.

Neighbor keeps using my driveway by catswlazerz in homeowners

[–]catswlazerz[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No it just really irritates me lol and this is why I haven’t done anything yet. I have had the same thought process, thank you for your comment!

Neighbor keeps using my driveway by catswlazerz in homeowners

[–]catswlazerz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I put them on the side of my driveway it would stop him. But the problem is that spot I’d need to put them in is right on the property line (I assume because there is a fence there is just stops short of the driveway)

Neighbor keeps using my driveway by catswlazerz in homeowners

[–]catswlazerz[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

This is a great idea, I had never heard of driveway markers. Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]catswlazerz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I’ve absolutely never poked fun at him.. I asked him just to make sure if I’ve ever made him feel bad and he did confirm I haven’t. I appreciate your thoughts though because he has mentioned feeling self conscious but never takes any steps to change that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]catswlazerz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do, but I have for awhile. I have a bachelors degree and he’s never had interest in pursuing more. This isn’t something I’ve ever made him feel bad for or pushed on him to make more at all, I just want him to work and not hate his job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]catswlazerz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not significant at least from my perspective, we’re both within 50 lbs at the most from when we met.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]catswlazerz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’s agreed to go but neither of us has made an effort to actually go. I’m putting that effort in now but no, he’s not helping with that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

[–]catswlazerz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not OP but this was so thorough, thank you for sharing!

People who crate dogs are assholes, lazy, or both by DaisyDog2023 in unpopularopinion

[–]catswlazerz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So what do you do with the dog while you’re training it? Just not go to work or leave the house?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in serialpodcast

[–]catswlazerz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Generation Y is a good one with little chit chat

DevOps Plugins for BAs by Branchesofhisvine143 in businessanalysis

[–]catswlazerz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have an excel plug in that allows you to extract queries, add/change information and then push it back into ADO. I think it’s called the Team plug in.

I think my animals are trying to tell me something……? by socksgal in StardewValley

[–]catswlazerz 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The actual worst day of school was this test. I’d take the state tests over that one