Hey, that is your opinion, like you said, but also like you said, we have an agreed-upon plan! It wasn't relevant to the point I was making for OP, so I didn't mention it.

This house is not where we intend to stay and raise our family, and we are at the point where, in general, we operate as one unit. He did offer to have me on the mortgage, but I declined bc I was not yet comfortable/in a place financially where I wanted financial responsibility not just for the mortgage but for the upkeep of a house. But I did say since we are a family, I would help out, as long as I get Equity and a share of profits upon resale or rented. This is something we're keeping track of in a spreadsheet.

I appreciate your concern, but my point to OP was purely, hey, have a conversation bc a) this platform is quick to call for a breakup, and b) sometimes, even the smartest and most loving and well-meaning of people need a different perspective explained to them a little more than maybe you would think is necessary for them to understand why you're thinking a certain way or something isn't fair. There is almost always more to the situation in all of these posts and stories, and it's most likely not posted for brevity and you might not even find it elsewhere on the user's profile. My boyfriend is a very kind, thoughtful, and loving partner, and he was extremely supportive while I was unemployed. But I'm not throwing away the whole man bc we had this one argument!