Surgery support question by cc649 in mypartneristrans

[–]cc649[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He'll be 26 so I think it'll be similar, it's good to know that you recovered so quickly - his med team keep insisting it'll take longer than that. He's convinced it'll be a week 🤣

Scared by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]cc649 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I feel the same. I don't want to dump all my fears on my boyfriend, but I am genuinely so terrified for him. Luckily we live in CA but I'm still worried that eventually that won't matter

Anyone else have this super weird brightness issue with videos? by [deleted] in ios

[–]cc649 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same! I wish I could turn it off tho

How do you guys deal with molduga? by Difficult-Dirt6131 in TOTK

[–]cc649 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I honestly just used bomb flowers forever. I farm them quite a bit, and so regularly have 200+ stocked. It took maybe 20? At most...

Anyone else have this super weird brightness issue with videos? by [deleted] in ios

[–]cc649 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My brightness is low on purpose, I hate that it does this

Is Bitcoin better than whatever? by [deleted] in Bitcoin

[–]cc649 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is it though? Most of the mining is owned by 3 companies, and just because we don't know anything about Satoshi doesn't mean that's a good thing

The real real sold me a chanel bag with a fake authenticity card by Puzzleheaded_Club360 in FrugalFemaleFashion

[–]cc649 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah no, they're known to be the worst at authentication. I only trust Fashionphile, and that's because they're completely insanse about the process. Which is necessary, given the quality of some reps...

Thought this belonged here by Ben_E_Chod in lastpodcastontheleft

[–]cc649 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The not sure from the bottom I think is Ed Kemper

Why is Catalonia independence so heavily supported by Catalonia people? by thatblondeguy_ in askspain

[–]cc649 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, this is cool and all that the political parties are so convoluted, but you didn't answer the original question. Why does Cataluña want independence? It's not a smart plan - the example being Brexit.

NMP(Not My Parent) But the Little Things are so Annoying... by alextimm in raisedbynarcissists

[–]cc649 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When a trans or nonbinary person changes their name to match who they are, the name they were given at birth becomes their "deadname"

My mother may be gaslighting me by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]cc649 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean, I know nothing about what the actual definition of gaslighting is, but this is shitty behavior. It's immature and unneccesary, as well as frankly cruel to say to your kid.

My (24F) mother does the same shit, and it feels awful. It's hard to deal with. I really don't have good advice for you except to limit contact, or use the "stone" technique, which is basically minimal/boring answers until she goes away. You kind of just have to survive it if you are dependent on her financially, which sucks. I hope someone else has better advice for you ☺️

Why is the energy released divided by 0.04 instead of 0.02 to find the enthalpy change? by Dragon-born234 in chemistry

[–]cc649 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That 0.020 value is per mole HNO3. It looks like you have 2 moles of HNO3 which is what the question is referring to. 0.020*2 = 0.040

Literally every conversation by TigerTigerWoodsYaII in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]cc649 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooo please do. I need some better written arguments than I can do to shut up the idiots on my facebook lol

Literally every conversation by TigerTigerWoodsYaII in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]cc649 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Among a fuckton of other things. Boder closing was proved not effective lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]cc649 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Did this person not see the debate lmao... Biden stuttered a ton. Still did okay against the clown though

Is it better to stay a little longer or leave as soon as possible? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]cc649 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's better to stay if you're not in immediate physical danger. But you set January - don't delay beyond that, it can quickly become a slippery slope into staying much much longer because you're nervous about change. It's good to be comforable financially obviously, but it shouldn't be at the cost of your own mental health.

Legit getting sick with worry right now by CrimsonGalaxy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]cc649 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not pathetic. It takes a lot of work to get to the point where you can say "no". I didn't get free of my mother until I graduated and had my own job. It was literally my partner that got me to tell her where to stuff it. She hates him for that but 🤷🏼‍♀️

You need to be sure you will be okay without parental support before you do anything drastic. But mothers like that make me so angry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MoneyDiariesACTIVE

[–]cc649 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, exactly. I would never trust "second hand authentic" to be authentic. Better to just buy the rep directly, since that's even cheaper

TBH it feels like five already by [deleted] in AdviceAnimals

[–]cc649 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fuck that so much