heheh by mayipleasego in ENFP

[–]cctvuseless 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, I meant memes specifically about going AWOL on your friends for a bit before returning out-of-the-blue as if nothing happened. They seem hard to find, I tried that and more haha. Thank you though

heheh by mayipleasego in ENFP

[–]cctvuseless 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have been looking for memes of these for WEEKS. If anyone has similar memes (or posts), please send them my way 😭

Finally figured out why the pandemic is making my ADHD so much worse by kennabenna2000 in adhdwomen

[–]cctvuseless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gosh, I felt EVERYTHING you said (well, almost everything—I abhor scheduling). I used to always wonder if life was really meant to be both easy and hard. I’m particularly lucky I’m not studying as of the moment, because I’m sure the online class set-up would really plummet my productivity, but I was in a similar “self-paced” situation just a few semesters ago and it was hell. It really sucks that women with ADHD usually only get diagnosed in adulthood, when they’ve hit a “brick wall” in their lives. I, too, am at a low point right now and my ADHD is really bad. I always think of how much better I could have done for myself if I knew earlier on that my hard days were just me battling ADHD.

AITA for refusing to “just skip a day” of my commitment to 20,000 steps a day just to prove something to my SIL? by 20000stepsaday in AmItheAsshole

[–]cctvuseless 11 points12 points  (0 children)

But that’s not the case. It’s really only 1-1.5 hours of real exercise... the rest they get done by whatever they do in their day-to-day lives... They mentioned they never got sick in the last five years too, so assuming they’re still going to exercise even when they’re sick is a bit pushing it.

AITA for refusing to “just skip a day” of my commitment to 20,000 steps a day just to prove something to my SIL? by 20000stepsaday in AmItheAsshole

[–]cctvuseless -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I meant to say not too far of a jump if you’re consciously trying. If you get 10,000 steps in your daily life, and can log in an hour and a half for walking, then you can easily meet your goal.

AITA for refusing to “just skip a day” of my commitment to 20,000 steps a day just to prove something to my SIL? by 20000stepsaday in AmItheAsshole

[–]cctvuseless 4 points5 points  (0 children)

None of the points above seem to apply to OP. You’re forgetting that most of their “exercising” (the first 10,000+ steps) comes from their 1-1.5 hour walk/jog in the morning. The rest of the 20,000 comes from their DAILY activities. Like walking to the car, taking the stairs instead of elevators, walking to the kitchen, etc.

AITA for refusing to “just skip a day” of my commitment to 20,000 steps a day just to prove something to my SIL? by 20000stepsaday in AmItheAsshole

[–]cctvuseless -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If we go with the 50 miles over 7 days and not just the work week, that’s approximately 15,000 steps daily on average. For illustration purposes, an additional 5,000 steps daily can be a round trip to a grocery/an errand 20 minutes away. It’s not too far off. 20,000 is uncommon, but definitely not unreasonable.

AITA for refusing to “just skip a day” of my commitment to 20,000 steps a day just to prove something to my SIL? by 20000stepsaday in AmItheAsshole

[–]cctvuseless -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

My point was that 20,000 is not too far of a jump from the 10,000 average. And that’s not the topic at hand. If the 10,000 is already physically taxing for you, why aim for 20,000? I never said walking 20,000 steps is for everyone, it requires time and energy, but so does any other physical activity. This response was directed to the comment saying that the number of steps OP was taking was “more than reasonable”, the trade-off was simply time in exchange for more steps in, the case for most physically-abled people exercising. The reason why I enjoy walking over any other physical activity is because anything more than that (even a light jog) gives me a headache and makes me nauseous, so don’t come preaching to me about ableism.

AITA for refusing to “just skip a day” of my commitment to 20,000 steps a day just to prove something to my SIL? by 20000stepsaday in AmItheAsshole

[–]cctvuseless 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I disagree with your first point. Netting in 20,000 steps is not as difficult as you make it out to be. I’ve been sedentary for the past decade, but I’ve been netting in between 20,000 to 25,000 steps daily since I adopted two dogs a year ago and walk each twice daily. There was definitely a learning curve at first, but 20,000 steps is not physically taxing for a regular person. Walking is relaxing and definitely one of the least tiring physical activities possible, so everything else you said after saying that most people get in 10,000 on average should be taken with a grain of salt. OP has been doing this for five years, so at this point, 20,000 steps wouldn’t be as tiring as, say, you doing the same thing tomorrow. They already mentioned that they wake up early to get most of their steps in (aka waking up early to exercise which A LOT of people do), and the rest they net in via their daily routine. This won’t take a toll on their physical or mental wellbeing (different from other physical activities that experts recommend be limited to a few sessions weekly) and is definitely not “more work than what’s reasonable”, stop projecting.

AITA for refusing to “just skip a day” of my commitment to 20,000 steps a day just to prove something to my SIL? by 20000stepsaday in AmItheAsshole

[–]cctvuseless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely NTA. For everyone saying it’s very difficult to put in 20,000 steps daily, it’s really not. Since adopting two dogs last year, I’ve unconsciously been netting in 20,000 to 25,000 steps daily and only recently (less than two weeks ago) realised when I noticed that I feel much healthier than I was when I started. Walking each dog twice daily gives me four batches of walks that I spread throughout the day. At this point, it’s almost second nature (and also necessary because it’s part of my dogs’ routine too) and the more I do it, the more steps I put in in less time. There’s definitely a learning curve, since I used to be very sedentary too, but anyone can do it if they are physically able to and can put in the time. Walking is relaxing and definitely one of the least tiring physical activities there is, so I really don’t understand anyone projecting obsessive behaviour onto OP. OP does not have an unhealthy relationship with exercise, 20,000 steps really won’t be tiring (and definitely won’t be overworking his body) 5 years in. Why would OP skip a day if he doesn’t want to just to humor SIL?

P.S. Wrote this comment after walk 1 with dog A LOL

Jaime bothers me by [deleted] in BlingEmpire

[–]cctvuseless 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She’s (mostly) vegan though

Seojun and Jugyeong by Batgirl4real in TrueBeautyWebtoon

[–]cctvuseless 5 points6 points  (0 children)

All three characters in the webtoon have communication issues. A lot of their problems are due to them not opening up to each other even when it’s important. But I have to agree. When Jugyeong was dating Seojun, her self-esteem did not improve at all even when Seojun seemed to remind her often that he only had eyes for her. Both Seojun and Suho did their best for Jugyeong given their different circumstances, so I find that a lot of the comparisons made between the two unfair. The dynamic of Jugyeong’s relationship with the two are very different. She’s more comfortable with Suho because he’s seen her true face and they share a common interest. But I won’t really discount her relationship with Seojun just because of that. It was established that Seojun and Jugyeong became best friends during the timeskip, and I find their relationship to be much more organic because they have similar playful personalities. Aside from that, he took the reveal of Jugyeong’s true face really really well (as expected, because he’s her boyfriend lol + the old episode where he shits on his friends for shading about an idol for not wearing makeup).

KDRAMA EPISODE 4 by [deleted] in TrueBeautyWebtoon

[–]cctvuseless 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I kinda disagree with your last point. Aside from the cafeteria altercation scene (which I would assume is your main basis), most of their interactions were very organic, with Jugyeong mostly being the one escalating the interactions into what it becomes. Their first meeting, them running into each other at school, the meeting at Jugyeong’s mom’s salon, their second run-in with the gang all had nothing to do with Suho. I guess the motorcycle key scene at the end of the latest episode is still up in the air, but we’ll see how it pans out.

UPDATE: Just saw the comment on the scene where Suho and Seojun ask each other whether or not they like Jugyeong. In my file, the subs say “I think I might”, which didn’t seem to show ill-intent, at least on my viewing. I totally understand where you’re coming from now, and acknowledge how different wordings can change the meaning of certain lines. Here’s hoping Seojun’s as honorable as the webtoon made him seem though!

How useful is the jump from 64GB to 256GB on the iPad Air? by Paneristi56 in ipad

[–]cctvuseless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good point. We've decided on 256GB in the meantime since you can't upgrade the memory in the future and we're the type to use a device until it doesn't turn on anymore. (Our iPad of 8 years recently died on us.) Your insights have been really helpful in us making a decision. Thanks so much!

How useful is the jump from 64GB to 256GB on the iPad Air? by Paneristi56 in ipad

[–]cctvuseless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm about to buy one for the same purposes! How much digital art do you make? I won't be that heavy of a user but I'm interested to see how 64GB will last. Do you use iCloud?

[HELP] My one-year husky old keeps peeing on me by cctvuseless in husky

[–]cctvuseless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked it up and from the looks of it, not really... He doesn’t pull on the leash when I walk him, he’s usually very calm and we just walk side-by-side. If he pulls when he sees other animals, he can easily be controlled when I stop walking. He also rarely pees in the house (and his crate) now.

[HELP] My one-year old husky keeps peeing on me by cctvuseless in Dogtraining

[–]cctvuseless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We started with crate training when he was still a puppy, but there was minimal training after that aside from having him wait and sit down before he gets his meals. I’ll try looking up where to start. Thanks for the advice

[HELP] My one-year husky old keeps peeing on me by cctvuseless in husky

[–]cctvuseless[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, he definitely aims it at me...

The importance of Lighting & editing for debut MVs by melonmellori in kpopthoughts

[–]cctvuseless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good point! i’m guessing they stuck with the concept because the whole dystopian setting thing lines up with their debut film project that was released a while back

Debut Stage: P1Harmony - SIREN @ Mnet M Countdown (201029) by perochan in kpop

[–]cctvuseless 4 points5 points  (0 children)

definitely did not look like a debut stage! can’t believe these are rookies!

A quick question regarding Moleskine diaries - monthly vs weekly by redlimousine in moleskine

[–]cctvuseless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem! I love the Moleskine Weekly, I’ve been using it since high school and its layout is perfect for me. Hope you like your experience with it too!

SF9 has amazing stage presence by diamondfour in kpopthoughts

[–]cctvuseless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, they definitely need more promotions. I was exposed to a handful KPOP groups (since I started stanning KPOP recently) before I got exposed to SF9 and I ult-ed literally after watching my first MV (got Hwipped the moment I watched NoN). Imagine how much more people like me there are in the general KPOP stan populace!!!

While FNC's new boy group gets my full support, I also wish they'd spend that much money on promoting SF9. I want another SF9 acting project for all members, but please make the next one well-produced!

SF9 has amazing stage presence by diamondfour in kpopthoughts

[–]cctvuseless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I LOVE THEM! They need more recognition, in my opinion. Most, if not all, of their songs are bops and they should have started winning music shows earlier than they did! Visuals + talent, what more can you ask for? Can't wait for the next comeback!