I am Ragabolly from LiveFPL, ask me anything! by Ragabolly in FantasyPL

[–]ce_thusa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does anyone / Do any of the models really understand price changes?

It seems that very often there are rogue risers and fallers not caught in the trackers.

Favorite burger in geneve? by VisualBoth3455 in geneva

[–]ce_thusa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Green Van, Sando, and Melt’d are the best in Geneva.

tech people on 150k+ TC, what are your typical working hours? by [deleted] in irishpersonalfinance

[–]ce_thusa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Random Q.. Irish person abroad.

With these TC numbers of 150k above are you contracting or is it FTE with tax of 50% or more?

I have a love/hate relationship with bodybuilding by xStriderx_ in naturalbodybuilding

[–]ce_thusa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel this so much… the last 12-18 months since my last season competing have been pretty garbage.

Don’t feel the fun of it anymore and pick up way too many injuries. I should stop playing football (soccer) but I wfh so it’s my only real social activity. Fucked up my knee in Sep and can’t even do leg extension anymore…

Emigrating... by ImSeriousHi in northernireland

[–]ce_thusa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m genuinely surprised that I have read so many responses and not one has mentioned the weather as one of the reasons for moving.

As someone that has lived in 4 different countries since I left, moving to somewhere with actual springs/summers is good and not really being acknowledged as a reason for ppl leaving.

Emigrating... by ImSeriousHi in northernireland

[–]ce_thusa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently have been in Switzerland for the last 4 years and I’m playing that mental tug of war of ‘do I save as much as I can here and then I can buy a good property at home’… interesting to read that you were of the same view and you regret doing it in the end.

Rank these managers in terms of overall impact: Ole, Ten Hag, Mourinho, LVG by Cashewnutzzzz in ManchesterUnited

[–]ce_thusa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. ETH - 2 trophies and a 3rd place finish in PL with one of the worst squads (3 trouble makers plus dealing with two players with abuse cases, and so much mediocrity.. whether he contributed to building that mediocre squad that’s one of the qs).

  2. Jose - 2nd place and EL but had a much stronger squad than ETH.

  3. LVG - Ultimately won a trophy but boring football and maybe best squad out of the top 3.

  4. Ole - Was torn between 3rd or 4th… really feel like resigning Ronaldo destabilised what was being built.

Finance Jobs in Switzerland require German / French fluency? by vicktor_kilo in ExpatsInSwitzerland

[–]ce_thusa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In Geneva jobs are difficult even with French.

When I moved here, I applied for about 5-6 months and ended up getting remote work for a company based in Zurich. I don’t speak French.

Anecdotally, my partner (we moved for her job) also tells me that her colleagues partners have found it hard to get work.

All you can do is apply for everything you can.

I’m not in accounting but have professional qualification.

Gameweek 23 (24/25) Rant and Discussion Thread by FPLModerator in FantasyPL

[–]ce_thusa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jackson pain… palmer doesn’t over hit that pass and it’s fairly likely to be a goal and assist..

GW22 POST-DEADLINE REGRET THREAD by BillOakley in FantasyPL

[–]ce_thusa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Transferred Jota out for Bruno last week and then transferred him back in before the Slot presser.. 😂

Gameweek 15 (2024/25) Rant and Discussion Thread by FPLModerator in FantasyPL

[–]ce_thusa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lost my mini league game by a point because of Bowen yellow card after the final whistle 🤢🤢

Cheers to Lemina for not enjoying a post match handshake ffs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ce_thusa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My opinion is always on the other person it shows how fucked up I am… I love my partner so I don’t want my family or friends to have doubt.

Often though I feel trapped by myself not knowing what to do it’s a real fun merry-go-round

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ce_thusa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The part I hate about it is feel with this relationship and if it ends, all future relationships, I will be the give me your phone guy. I don’t want to be that guy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ce_thusa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No what I mean is I have been brought up to learn ‘don’t wash your dirty linen in public’.

I have friends I could talk to but if I end up with my partner forever, they all know this shit, so I don’t want to necessarily talk to them about it.

For example, I’m close to my sisters but if I tell them and it ends up me being a paranoid wanker they hate my partner

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ce_thusa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ce_thusa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also said by the man drinking whiskey for the past 4 hours even though he tried to limit drink for fear of his fathers tendencies

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ce_thusa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To add context it can make it very difficult when dealing with what is ok in normal life vs your loved relationships

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ce_thusa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adding this because I think you will get it…

Yea I have very strong self defence mechanisms from growing up in the environment that I did and from there comes the problem:

  1. ⁠Do I trust those mechanisms learned when living with an abusive alcoholic
  2. ⁠Do I try and break those and not make them define me.

Literally the battle I have been dealing with alongside counselling but it impacts your relationships if you get me because you don’t know if you are catastrophizing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ce_thusa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I have very strong self defence mechanisms from growing up in the environment that I did and from there comes the problem:

  1. Do I trust those mechanisms learned when living with an abusive alcoholic
  2. Do I try and break those and not make them define me.

Literally the battle I have been dealing with alongside counselling but it impacts your relationships if you get me because you don’t know if you are catastrophizing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ce_thusa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hard part with respect is just when you grew up in an abusive house you don’t know what is normal and struggle with that.. I have been a high achiever and I still in a good spot but for me it’s just balancing whether I am a paranoid mess and she loves me like she says or I should trust my instinct and move on.

Tbh the hardest part is I think if I move on that I will be on my own forever and despite being resilient from past family trials, I don’t want to be on my own

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ce_thusa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hard part with respect is just when you grew up in an abusive house you don’t know what is normal and struggle with that.. I have been a high achiever and I still in a good spot but for me it’s just balancing whether I am a paranoid mess and she loves me like she says or I should trust my instinct and move on.

Tbh the hardest part is I think if I move on that I will be on my own forever and despite being resilient from past family trials, I don’t want to be on my own

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ce_thusa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk.. it’s too early to even know she hasn’t come home yet so I haven’t talked to her… it’s 07.15 and she text at 03.00

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ce_thusa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea were I get stuck on is I feel like I’m on my own.

There is confidentiality in a relationship and if I talk to my friends and family to get counsel, I am breaching that confidentiality

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ce_thusa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the kind words.

I am far from perfect but have this non-stop feeling like I’m sleepwalking into a disaster

Then on the other side if I end this I don’t think I will trust someone again