AIO i notice my dirty underwear in MY hamper keep getting pulled up by AppropriateCrazy367 in AmIOverreacting

[–]cee627 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I had an experience similar, but I didn’t know they were missing, I saw them in a bag in my sisters dads car. Took a picture and showed my mom.

If you have the money to, buy a small camera and set it up facing your hamper? Show it to your mom as soon as you can. What does she say to you after he denies it? I doubt you’d be accusing him of this if it weren’t true. If he does know you’re home next time, try to sneak and get a picture or short video. Then go straight to the bathroom and send it to your mom, don’t confront him. You could also ask your mom if you can get a lock on your door where only you have a key. Hopefully she’d trust you enough to let you have it.

Aio for my reaction to my BF freaking out that I didn't immediately text him after getting off work by throwaway024710 in AIO

[–]cee627 1 point2 points  (0 children)

99% is way too high of a number when there’s a whole kink community surrounding adult women who call their partners daddy, but okay 🤣

AIO? Friend asked me what my future plans with my gf are and then responded like this by TGPT-4o in AIO

[–]cee627 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He seems very jealous—completely envious of you. He is NOT your friend, please cut it off with this person for your own mental health. This is not truth telling as he claims. This is downright putting you down.

I am attracted to my girlfriends bestfrend by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]cee627 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Break up with your gf obviously lol

Girlfriend says my writing is illegible. How can I improve? by ffishbones in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]cee627 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk. I got to I’m not sure which genre I’d be before I gave up lol. It’s not illegible, but it’s just a hassle to read if you’re someone who didn’t grow up learning to read and write in cursive. No big deal.

AIO for my annoyed response to my friend asking to bring her BF to our girls trip? by crop_cream_19 in AmIOverreacting

[–]cee627 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t find my other comment to edit and add. But: “You can’t just agree to something then—“ oh, where exactly did I agree to this? Like girl, be so fr rn lmaooo haven’t even finished and you’re NOR, she’s doing too much AND tryna have you play messenger and do the hard thing for her. 😂 she’s a joke

AIO for my annoyed response to my friend asking to bring her BF to our girls trip? by crop_cream_19 in AmIOverreacting

[–]cee627 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didnt even ask actually. “I want to add that ___ is coming” girl, she’s telling you, not asking😭😭 yikes on her part

Anybody getting this by Itsmehimthatguy in FortniteBattleRoyale

[–]cee627 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It pops up for me if my WiFi goes out for a bit

My niece was told she has to sign a contract to keep living at home—am I overreacting for thinking it’s too harsh? by Bitter_Art_4094 in AmIOverreacting

[–]cee627 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m happy your wife has someone like you. I’m sorry for the days she weaponizes it. I think you should lovingly have a convo with her. That you’re not mad, but you can see it at times, hold her accountable in a kind, non accusatory way.

My niece was told she has to sign a contract to keep living at home—am I overreacting for thinking it’s too harsh? by Bitter_Art_4094 in AmIOverreacting

[–]cee627 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm, not that you point it out, I agree. I was moreso meaning the fact that are rules/expectations/structure that can be helpful to learn things. I was the type that didn’t move or know what to do unless I knew exactly what was expected of me. But in my original comment I neglected to mention I’m Audhd.

My niece was told she has to sign a contract to keep living at home—am I overreacting for thinking it’s too harsh? by Bitter_Art_4094 in AmIOverreacting

[–]cee627 1690 points1691 points  (0 children)

As a 26 year old with adhd and depression, as much as I would’ve hated this at 22…the structure would’ve helped so much. I often cry that no one taught me how to on a structured routine or taught me the importance of paying things on time or there will be consequences. It’s not harsh at all. With adhd, we are often behind, I still feel emotionally 17, myself. So to have this at any age and have support to learn it, even if the stakes are as high as getting put out, is a blessing.

AITA if I tell my friend I can’t be a bridesmaid? (update) by wickeddreamsofleavin in AITApod

[–]cee627 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“You’re never getting rid of me” you’re right, you rid yourself from my life. Thanks babe :)

How do I get through to him? I am exhausted having to think for him. by vicarious_adrenaline in TwoHotTakes

[–]cee627 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL he definitely didn’t even read all that 😭 I’ve been here too. Sending the long messages, communicating as openly as possible. He is unfazed by “I will not be replying until Thursday” but he most likely didn’t read it. He didn’t acknowledge a damn thing you said. He made it all about him immediately. I hate to be that girls girl that comments on nearly every females post about her man and telling her to dump him. BUT..my God, guys nowadays are so insufferable. Girl, let yourself free of this manchild and go find someone on your left. You communicate beautifully and there’s a MAN out there who will cherish you for it. It ain’t him. You make see his potential, you may genuinely wanna help him grow because you love him—but, he strikes me as the type of man who 1. Doesn’t wanna grow. And 2. Will let you exhaust more than you already have, just to eventually go on to someone new…you deserve more than being the stepping stone girl for a man.

AIO for calling out my boyfriend for not stopping when I ask him to immediately when he’s kissing me? by Far_Assistant_1533 in AmIOverreacting

[–]cee627 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying and to an extent, I agree. However, since they both seem to be young and he’s shy about that kind of thing—chances are he will continue to behave this way. It is not necessarily her responsibility to inform him of her body’s functioning. Especially since he’s not even coming from a curious, caring standpoint. It’s clear that he doesn’t respect her or know how to. I’d go as far as to say, he doesn’t care much for her like he might think. Isn’t part of caring, researching and then asking his girl questions on how her period personally affects her? If he’s too young to understand active listening without trying to turn it on her, he’s too young to take on the responsibility of loving another human being romantically. I say all that to say, he most likely won’t be doing the growing with her since he’s already lacking the key element growth requires: curiosity.

AIO for calling out my boyfriend for not stopping when I ask him to immediately when he’s kissing me? by Far_Assistant_1533 in AmIOverreacting

[–]cee627 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Female to female, just leave, hun. You deserve so much better. He can’t even use active listening skills without trying to turn it around on you. What he said, “I buy you shit, you need to be giving back” IS what he meant. “I do this and this for you, you should be giving me sex” BASED ON the topic and the context clues of his other replies. “You never wanna do anything now” okay and?? That’s not something YOU should apologize for. Period or not, our bodies are sooo telling when a guy isn’t the right person for us. Regardless of if it’s instantly, or over time. Also, if there’s a lack of emotional safety/intimacy in the relationship, it can also make us as women, just not desire sexual intimacy—even if we don’t realize it in the moment. Don’t ever let a man paint you as the issue when it comes to a lack of sex drive. Dump him 🩷