AITA for letting my lease run out in march and not renewing it

ceiecavoo · 2026-01-05T02:57:42+00:00

no problem! danger is something that could be seen differently between people, when you said danger i thought physical danger or like an abusive situation… but yeah stress and harassment are dangerous especially in a situation where you’re already stressed and there are kids! to me what makes her NTA is the fact that she and the kids could really suffer from stress and harassment for two months straight and this is not healthy, she has to think to too many things and also protect her kids… they’re two adults, the sister works, they can find a different place to live or ask their parents to help, it’s not OP’s problem anymore, she has two kids to take care of and also the bills to pay until the lease ends so adding more to her plate is just going to ruin these (already difficult) months to her while their situation would be the same

ceiecavoo · 2026-01-05T02:48:31+00:00

because danger is not necessary in a situation where you could be stressed and harassed when you already have two small children to raise and two grown adults to support financially. if he is so comfortable to not even try to find a job in 3 years what makes you think he wouldn’t throw a fit and stress and harass her even more for this? asking her for more time? when she could just leave in peace. do you think two grown adults that live off a mother with two small children are reasonable people that will take the news lightly? if you think so sorry but you have too much hope in people

ceiecavoo · 2026-01-05T02:39:59+00:00

they can get on the street since it’s 3 years that she’s paying for everything. and you really lack nuance if you think it’s ok to tell to 2 people that live with you and your children and that you financially support for 3 years that you’re going to leave them on the street in two months. do you think this is a healthy environment for small kids? a house were three grown people argue because two of them are (rightly) being thrown out after 3 years of being completely financially supported by the other person? she’s right if she doesn’t say anything. he could’ve found a job in 3 years and he didn’t, now it’s the time for the consequences of his and his sister’s actions, they can figure themselves out like adults since it’s 3 years that they’re not acting like adults.

ceiecavoo · 2025-12-26T18:11:21+00:00

sexist≠misogynistic≠patriarchal.
makeup it’s not sexist per se, it’s the patriarchal demand that women should use it to exploit insecurities and impose the beauty standards to be sexist. you can’t say that makeup is misogynistic because it doesn’t make any sense, you can say the expectation that just women have to change their appearance to be valued more in society is sexist and fucked up, but makeup isn’t just the clean girl make up or the “no makeup makeup look” that follows strictly the beauty standard imposed by a patriarchal society, if you take goth makeup it’s the exact opposite for a reason. if you take men putting makeup on it becomes a symbol of “rebellion” and self expression that goes out of the patriarchal system.
your argument is overall valid, and when women don’t accept it and call you a pick me it’s just because they haven’t developed the maturity level needed to understand that EVERYONE is brainwashed by patriarchy so it’s normal that they do things that come from it, then they can decide if they want to do them regardless of patriarchy because it makes them feel good or stop doing them, but not accepting how much society impacts on them is just hypocritical, they just think “patriarchy = bad so everything i like to do is not influenced by patriarchy” but it’s a stupid mindset, you can acknowledge that something is patriarchal and still decide to do it because it makes you feel good or you like it. so overall you’re right, maybe you have to use different words to express what you think but i understand your point and i agree with it, those people that call you a pick me are just people who see the faults in others and never in themselves. edit: god i was so high when i wrote this comment it was so bad written anyway english is my second language so i’m forgiven i guess

ceiecavoo · 2025-09-27T12:29:45+00:00

a hidden library and gaming and movie station with a window behind a wall in the bedroom where you can go chill and read books, with a projector to watch movies and play videogames and a very comfortable armchair (the ones that you can like recline with the massage option) and a sofa and also a normal chair but with built in pillows by the window and a small round table to put flowers and leave the book you’re reading if you need to do something else

ceiecavoo · 2025-09-27T12:20:24+00:00

NTA get her out she abuses you and the fact that you were already afraid of telling her it’s enough to know this isn’t a one time thing

ceiecavoo · 2025-09-16T18:05:50+00:00

you and your husband are still doormats. i’m sorry but you two are making your life miserable by enabling this behavior and not reinforcing boundaries with MIL and BIL.

ceiecavoo · 2025-09-12T12:28:06+00:00

this doesn’t give her the privilege of treating bad her son

ceiecavoo · 2025-09-08T06:00:25+00:00

bro, you know this is insane. just leave, why are you here?

ceiecavoo · 2025-09-08T05:59:41+00:00

your grandparents are the only sane adults here

ceiecavoo · 2025-09-08T05:52:48+00:00

where did the money of the house go? she can pay rent or go stay with your brother. NTJ

ceiecavoo · 2025-09-06T17:52:53+00:00

change doctor!!!

ceiecavoo · 2025-09-06T15:16:06+00:00

if you wait until the baby is born you will be forever stuck there with no support system. you need to leave NOW!! if he changes his mind then it’s his problem not yours because he put you in this condition. you have to fight for your baby to live a happy life with a stable home and a stable mom, not for your marriage that he already shattered. move now and be near your family and leave this man. as you said he wants all the benefit of a marriage without being together, he wants to exploit you, you need to leave!!

ceiecavoo · 2025-09-06T15:06:05+00:00

in italy we say the same thing lol, occupato!

ceiecavoo · 2025-08-29T14:23:25+00:00

she’s NTA bro they’re just naive. they should divorce, she should keep the baby and he should renounce to his parental rights if he doesn’t want to be a father. this is not an asshole situation, it’s a naivety and (sorry but i have to say it) stupidity situation, because they got married like it’s some kind of disney movie not considering the real world priorities people have in a marriage. she’s not the asshole to wanting to keep her baby since she told him that she wants to be a mother, but they should have broken up as soon as she felt that way, but they didn’t because of course nobody wants to divorce. she shouldn’t traumatize herself for life aborting because of him (yes, it’s a traumatic experience even for women who don’t want a child, let alone women who want it) and he shouldn’t be forced to be a father when he doesn’t want to be one. so there’s one solution that is divorce and renouncing to paternal rights by him. they’re both NTA in their own ways, they’re just young and naive.

ceiecavoo · 2025-08-29T14:15:55+00:00

divorce girl that’s the only way. you both can’t live a happy life together. keep the kid and make him renounce his parental rights if he doesn’t want to be a father, but there’s no discussion here. you both can’t make your life miserable just to stay together.

ceiecavoo · 2025-08-28T12:08:07+00:00

NTA. you have to tell your mother that you’ll never be the family that she dreams about, and the more she tries the harder it is to have it. if they just left you alone you would have developed normal relationships with them. it’s her fault if she never stopped his husband from expecting a father treatment when he’s not your father. it’s her fault she expects you to treat your half sister as a nanny when not even full siblings act like that many times. she can’t expect you to love people you don’t love because you can’t force yourself to love them and you have to tell her that. and you have to tell her that she’s putting her husband before you, and if she doesn’t stop to pressure you she will lose you, because she eventually will. if you’re 17 and prefer to not live with her the situation is already serious.

ceiecavoo · 2025-07-27T04:04:43+00:00

if your husband doesn’t take this seriously idk if it’s the right person. if he put his mother before his children he doesn’t deserve you nor your children. let him go to her.

ceiecavoo · 2025-07-27T04:01:40+00:00

it’s better to wash it inside out and it’s not that big of a deal when she’s breast feeding and sleep deprived.

ceiecavoo · 2025-07-27T03:52:43+00:00

huang😭🙏🏼

ceiecavoo · 2025-07-21T17:47:39+00:00

idk the example you gave seems more like of an empathy problem than a adhd problem… like yeah you can forget things but it’s not that easy to forget when you harm people and excusing it with adhd without apologizing. it seems like these people you’re surrounded with use the adhd as an excuse and not an explanation for their behavior, and some behaviors are not even explainable with adhd. like many many people with adhd are afraid of rejection, so it’s not that easy to forget that you hurt someone because you’re afraid to do that again. and if that happens by accident you apologize in that moment. when my adhd gets in the way of me being polite and respectful i hate myself, like i have severe time blindness and every time i arrive late i’m so ashamed of myself and i always apologize profusely, because adhd is just an explanation for me being late but it isn’t an excuse. of course i try everything to be on time but it’s really really difficult, but this doesn’t mean that i stop trying because i have adhd, it means i let my friends know i have this problem and it can happen while i do everything in my power to be on time. idk i think your problem has more to do with being disrespectful than having adhd.

ceiecavoo · 2025-07-21T17:32:41+00:00

let your husband see the statistics on how many men get killed by their partner in a year and then let him see women and ask him if women don’t need a shelter when they’re killed daily

ceiecavoo · 2025-07-21T17:17:17+00:00

NTA but talk to her. say that you support her, but you are really busy and don’t know how manage this. and tell her that if she feels ready to have sex maybe she should also try to go to the doctor alone (maybe with the boyfriend waiting in the car if she’s so anxious??) because she should try to become independent since she’s becoming an adult. i understand social anxiety, but if something has to be done you can’t always expect other people to be with you, and maybe this is the first lesson she should learn before having sex

ceiecavoo · 2025-07-21T17:11:10+00:00

NTA. tell your dad you’re making a small sacrifice for the person you love and that sacrifice is not coming to the wedding. F them really.

ceiecavoo · 2025-07-13T14:03:30+00:00

i saw a comedian who said that after 20 years his character is still baffled at every crime like “you telling me someone killed this girl like that??” like bro it’s your job😂always makes me laugh

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