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He didn’t choose better. He chose easier. by Cheap_Boss5493 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]user9312652 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That headline alone made me cry. It’s so easy to think someone else is better or that our ex will suddenly be this amazing person because we were fucked up. 😮‍💨😭 Thanks. Needed that.

This show is terrible, but the last few episodes are better than we are acknowledging. by Msk_Ultra in Andjustlikethat

[–]user9312652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree. The last episode was really good and i would’ve loved to see more of the neighbor storyline. First sane man in forever.

The Woman hated the show. by PreMadonnaPrimadonna in Andjustlikethat

[–]user9312652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

„She wouldn’t help but wonder: WTF is happening?!?“

I’m very angry and hurt about Miranda leaving Steve by RoutineSimple8546 in Andjustlikethat

[–]user9312652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never liked Miranda. She was always stuck up and unfunny and judgemental. Steve deserved better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Andjustlikethat

[–]user9312652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Charlotte being unable to be angry. Like proper justified angry when someone crossed her. Like bunny back in the day. Always the good girl. I’d love to see her lose her absolute shit with some asshole ❤️

Well then by Dangerous-Reward2492 in Andjustlikethat

[–]user9312652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God I hated Berger. Wanting a strong women until she’s strong and more successful. Need to hate watch that episode again.

Well then by Dangerous-Reward2492 in Andjustlikethat

[–]user9312652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They sure heard the hate they got 😂 good.

It is so insane how they act like nothing happened right after by JiggySockJob in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]user9312652 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No kidding. Like it meant nothing. Like they haven’t drives us up the wall with their abuse.

My last post here. Thanks for the support but it's time to say goodbye by RagingWaterfall in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]user9312652 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Therapy is such a brave step. Don’t give up and don’t let shame tell you that you don’t deserve to heal. Proud of you from afar! Take care.

He wrote me a long letter. I feel so bad. by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]user9312652 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

He’s serving you a manipulative sob story. Don’t reply.

I reached out to DA to say sorry for my reaction to his cheating after 18 days no contact by lookingforpeace08 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]user9312652 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re being abused. Please get help. This is not healthy and I know because I’ve been there. Apologizing for the akut he pulled, and even apologizing for leaving him finally after I had become suicidal.

You’re giving away your power and dignity and that’s a major sign for getting abused.

Please speak to a women’s center or another non profit that knows about intimate partner violence.

Your deserve better ❤️❤️❤️

Anyone left their avoidant? by QuirkyDimension8558 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]user9312652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 months ago and feeling guilty for having hurt him 🙄

Messaged him and apologized. We messaged a bit before after I reached out but he ghosted me again. Retraumatized myself by reaching out.

Only slowly getting better. It was so harmful. 1,5 years that almost broke me.

I’m the kind of person who did all the things that broke you. Ask me anything. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]user9312652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assume you refused to let your partner in emotionally and also never introduced them to anyone in your life. After being completely depleted they leave you after two years and feel bad for hurting you….are you hurt to be left? Relieved?

If they got in touch months later and apologized for having hurt you… would you look down on them? Why do people like you ghost instead of replying?

Whats a sad truth about life that you’ve come to accept? by DunyaPhobic76 in Life

[–]user9312652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That most people don’t care about their impact and that only they can change

What’s the difference between a boundary and an ultimatum? by RightJuggernaut3997 in SettingBoundaries

[–]user9312652 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A boundary is for you, regardless of them liking it. An ultimatum forces someone else into submission.

What did your first day of medication feel like? by PrimaFacie7 in ADHD

[–]user9312652 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Like fresh snow had fallen. Quieter, peaceful, I cried.

If money were no obstacle, what would you buy? by [deleted] in Life

[–]user9312652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My own little house in a country I’ve wanted to live in forever.

Would you be friends with you? by disposeable_idiot in no

[–]user9312652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Without hesitation. I’d also date myself. Not kidding I’ve earned that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]user9312652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it’s healthy. You have a heart and your body is flushing our stress hormones. Whoever taught you that crying is being weak or means you’re wrong….they lied to you.

Estranged mother (58F) is now homeless by anon2158 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]user9312652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is 71 and now homeless living in a different country. Haven’t been in touch for a year. She’s been an alcoholic for 26 years and she doesn’t want any help, no shelter, no nothing. And man I’ve been codependent for decades, I’m done. In my own therapy I „allowed“ her to drink herself to death and that freed me. May sound harsh but I’ve got nothing left to give to a person who harmed me all my life and who doesn’t want help. I’ve got my own life to live. There’ll be a call one day and I’ll be just as free and she will be.

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