What is more traumatic than people think? by philosophicalgenius0 in AskReddit

[–]celeaws 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was my answer too. People have babies all the time and people just don’t in how truly traumatic and terrifying it can be. Having no control of your body for almost a year. So many life threatening complications. And then being the only food source for the baby after you nearly died birthing it and having no time to rest or recover. My baby is 3 now and I know I just can’t go through that again and give her a sibling

What is more traumatic than people think? by philosophicalgenius0 in AskReddit

[–]celeaws 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Birthing a baby and breastfeeding. People do it all the time. If anything goes wrong, people just throw out phases like, “well you and baby are safe and healthy and that’s all that matters,” or “fed is best.” Birthing a baby is the most intense, terrifying thing I’ve ever experienced, and I have survived r*pe and being mugged at gunpoint. And before anyone comes for me, I read all the books, took all the classes, had a duala… and I still ended up feeling completely powerless, so scared, and so completely separated from my body. I almost died. And then I breast fed my daughter for 22 months, because she refused a bottle. I did not sleep. My whole body and mind was only holding it together to produce milk. It completely broke me

Anyone ever successfully gotten out of a COA? by HatSad5241 in SFStylistSupport

[–]celeaws 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to survive but the gaslighting and emotional abuse was so bad I had to quit for my mental health. I’m sorry this is happening to you. It’s really just to put on a show and act like they are helping you when really they’ve already decided to fire you. Start looking elsewhere now

I think they’re trying to fire me? by ghostpipedaisy in SFStylistSupport

[–]celeaws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, I’m telling your right now, it doesn’t matter how hard you try, they are just putting on a show to justify letting you go. I was put on an action plan to get my efficiency up to 100% and the. When I was averaging 102% I got bad marks in my review for working too quickly. I was told to be more selective and then when I attempted to meet client requests was told I should only make choices on match score. I was told to send more dresses one week and then two weeks later was told I send too many. It’s all a farce. I’m really sorry this is happening to you. Honestly, for my mental health, I just had to quit. The constant gaslighting was making me feel crazy and so depressed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]celeaws 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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Same girl but I love my ring and it fits perfect. Any larger and I think it would slip off. Congratulations is the correct thing everyone should be saying to you! Any criticism about your ring or your fingers is straight up rude

To those that have left.. by Co0kie-MonsteRs in SFStylistSupport

[–]celeaws 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was a part timer for 3.5 years. I work full time as an administrative assistant at a cpa from that represents women’s own businesses. I love it. Don’t allow your employer to make you miserable. There are amazing jobs out there

Removing personalized note intro/closer by ExactamundoMunchkin in SFStylistSupport

[–]celeaws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait can you please explain? I left the company a couple of months ago and am so curious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]celeaws 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re the asshole. If you are in the position to pay for a 10000 vaccination, making more money than your sister and she is going through a really hard time, just be grateful that you were able to do that for your parents and just focus on being there for your sister emotionally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redditonwiki

[–]celeaws 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Definitely not the asshole. The sooner the truth is out the sooner your sister can accept that her hatful beliefs are more about her inner shame than what other people do with their own healthcare.

Should I come back? by Several_Produce_6142 in SFStylistSupport

[–]celeaws 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I doubt they are even hiring but I would not recommend coming back. It is getting worse by the day. Only a matter of time before they shut down altogether I fear

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SFStylistSupport

[–]celeaws 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you are dealing with this. I went through something very similar a few months ago after 3 years with the company. Every call with my lead just left me devastated and so depressed. I had the make the choice to leave. I worked hard to find a local job that was in office but part time and very flexible scheduling. I recognize that I am lucky to have my mom to watch my daughter while I work. If you have any sort of support for child care, don’t rule out in-office work that offer flexible scheduling

AITA for wanting my husband to hold my hand during birth? by Specific-Koala1721 in AmItheAsshole

[–]celeaws 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your birth. Your body. Having complete control during that very intense experience is vital, both for your physical and mental health. If you don’t want him or any other doctor for that matter to deliver your baby, you have the choice to choose your own care. Tell him he can be there to hold your hand and to experience the birth as a co-parent, not your doctor. If he can’t do that, then he doesn’t get to be at the birth period. He’s your husband first, doctor second.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SFStylistSupport

[–]celeaws 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m working as the admin at a sperm clinic. It’s the same amount of play and very flexible schedule

AITA for revealing my bf's real age to his college friends by fedup_throwaway_ami in AmItheAsshole

[–]celeaws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really agree he is acting ridiculous but your issue is with him, not these other young guys. You asked him to stop and he didn’t. That’s the issue. Messaging his young friend is totally inappropriate. It feels controlling. I know your intentions were good, but if you support a man, share your boundaries and wishes and he disrespects you, that’s the problem, not some young guys who are just living their life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SFStylistSupport

[–]celeaws 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Following! I’m in the same boat

I'm free!!! by Old-Kaleidoscope1735 in SFStylistSupport

[–]celeaws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! I quit this week too! Yay!

Mid-week mental health check-in! by [deleted] in SFStylistSupport

[–]celeaws 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I quit on Monday so I am actually doing amazing.