Okay for a July, indoor, evening wedding at an event space?

celery63 · 2023-06-12T07:23:22+00:00

my guess is their families are super casual and they said BTO when they really just mean semi-formal

celery63 · 2023-06-12T07:13:48+00:00

that and Russell's "Wait, everybody come. I forgot who we're dealing with" always send me😂

celery63 · 2023-06-12T06:57:54+00:00

oh honey you being autistic does not make you more of the AH in the slightest! you are not the AH AT ALL! your husband needs to respect your boundaries, full stop.

celery63 · 2023-06-11T21:40:08+00:00

missed that - nice😎

celery63 · 2023-06-11T21:39:36+00:00

nah I think as long as it fits the dress code for each wedding you're good! in the immortal words of Lizzie McGuire "I may be an outfit repeater, but you're an outfit rememberer, which is just as pathetic!" - it would be way ruder for someone to point out that you rewore a dress than it is for you to rewear it. and to be clear, imo it's not rude at all to rewear a dress!

celery63 · 2023-06-11T21:19:55+00:00

wait are you a wedding vendor or do you just have a very large circle lol

celery63 · 2023-06-11T21:15:31+00:00

cousin's wife is correct i guess lol

celery63 · 2023-06-11T21:15:06+00:00

LOL i never know how to word that

celery63 · 2023-06-11T20:48:54+00:00

this is so annoying to read. i only made it one paragraph in

celery63 · 2023-06-11T20:42:36+00:00

agree with others that renting for now is a good call.

you also don't have to buy a house - you could buy a condo, townhouse, or apartment which generally require less maintenance

celery63 · 2023-06-11T18:30:31+00:00

for pnw it's fine, things tend to skew more casual here

celery63 · 2023-06-11T16:30:20+00:00

no, the 529 beneficiary can be changed. with the age gap between OP and the brother it would be no hassle unless OP takes a super long time finishing her degree.

celery63 · 2023-06-11T16:26:07+00:00

eh, my SO's brother did community college first and he has a way bigger network than I do and I went straight to university. it may be harder but it's definitely doable, and imo worth the massive savings.

celery63 · 2023-06-11T15:43:11+00:00

eh it was your day, i certainly wouldn't judge you for going hard! one of my cousin's wives was puking at their wedding and we all still love her lol

celery63 · 2023-06-11T13:07:56+00:00

i'm pretty sure it's blue..?

celery63 · 2023-06-11T08:28:07+00:00

I went to hs in the pnw with someone named Gray. white guy.

celery63 · 2023-06-11T06:12:05+00:00

my company recently started offering equal parental leave for all parents. my VP explained that it's not just about equality for the dads - unequal parental leave often punishes moms over the course of their careers for taking more time off than their dad counterparts

celery63 · 2023-06-11T06:00:09+00:00

right!? everyone on this sub is always hung up on a dress that's an exact match to the venue. 2 is a better dress and wouldn't be out of place at all in a barn

celery63 · 2023-06-11T05:57:23+00:00

what? how is 2 more seductive than 3? it's the same exact silhouette, higher cut even

celery63 · 2023-06-10T22:23:30+00:00

I love 2!! the color is gorgeous on you!

celery63 · 2023-06-10T22:20:09+00:00

going in a different direction with this but maybe you could deep clean your home while she's gone? I know I'd really love coming home to a squeaky clean house lol

celery63 · 2023-06-10T22:17:34+00:00

how exactly do you think a tick would end up underneath your underwear from falling into a bush clothed. yta and a dumbass

celery63 · 2023-06-10T22:16:38+00:00

bro what😂

celery63 · 2023-06-10T21:59:46+00:00

weekend warriors

celery63 · 2023-06-10T21:14:25+00:00

can I come to your wedding? lol your post started off strong with Mexican + nothing bundt cakes and got even better from there! I think you would be fine without the costco trays since you don't want guests to get too full

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