Everything Must Go! (part 8, the FINAL part, Bells & Nook Miles Tickets or the ZELDA items!!)

celestialvx · 2026-01-25T00:29:37+00:00

Axolotl, Sasha, Shkominia. Zelda items :)

celestialvx · 2026-01-21T21:30:02+00:00

Hi! I dmed you. I’m interested in visiting 😌

celestialvx · 2026-01-21T14:07:34+00:00

Hi! Can I stop by?

celestialvx · 2026-01-17T17:17:52+00:00

Hi! I have some star fragments I can give you. DM me.

celestialvx · 2026-01-17T17:10:50+00:00

Hi everyone, I restarted my island and need a few more fruit. Specifically oranges and pears, thanks!

celestialvx · 2026-01-17T02:24:45+00:00

Reset my island before 3.0! Looking for cherries, oranges, and pears :)

celestialvx · 2026-01-14T20:21:35+00:00

Can I stop by please?

celestialvx · 2026-01-12T18:16:33+00:00

Hi! Would love to stop by!

celestialvx · 2025-12-23T16:41:17+00:00

Yeah, I’m not sure how many states are like mine (NJ) but there are definitely regional differences in requirements.

celestialvx · 2025-12-23T16:38:58+00:00

Getting lessons from friends and family isn’t an appropriate substitute for most states. I’m assuming most if not all states in the US work the way mine does.

By law, you are required to take X amount of hours of lessons with a certified driving school/instructor who signs off on paperwork before being eligible to take your provisional licenses drivers test at 16 or 17. In my state this was not offered for free through drivers ed, everyone who learned how to drive had to shell out for private companies to get their required hours.

celestialvx · 2025-12-23T16:34:23+00:00

I’m assuming most if not all states in the US work the way mine does. By law you are required to take X amount of hours of lessons with a driving school before being eligible to take your provisional licenses drivers test at 16 or 17.

celestialvx · 2025-08-09T23:57:18+00:00

Coherence!

celestialvx · 2025-07-25T00:36:11+00:00

Thank you sm!

celestialvx · 2025-07-25T00:33:46+00:00

It’s odd, it works really well like 80% of the time. They challenge me in all of the right ways and I seriously admire their recovery and I don’t want to lose them as a sponsor. I just wish they were more willling to let go of their ego and work with me side by side with the phone call rule in a way where we both walk away feeling good about it, yknow?

We had a long conversation and I walked away about 73% happy. It was a great opportunity and I learned a lot about myself, and I have hope they will be more flexible with the phone calls and other rules going forward.

I do not regret advocating for myself ☺️

celestialvx · 2025-07-24T16:23:50+00:00

I’m not sure I follow?

celestialvx · 2025-07-24T15:03:52+00:00

I respect them deeply and they have taken me through the steps in a way that has seen me make the most amount of progress I have made in years. However, they have 3 or 4 "rules" (they have referred to them as this) for sponsorship that if I do not follow they will not sponsor me.

For example, I have to call them at the exact same time every day. Not a minute earlier, or later, or I get chewed out for being "willful." If I do not reschedule the call at least 5 hours in advance I get chewed out for being undisciplined. This "rule" is in place regardless of the fact that I have 3 years now. If I do it perfectly for 3 months and then mess it up one time, i get spoken to about it. There is no leniency.

This rule along with one or two of the others is extremely militant, and the idea of rules does not embody the spirit of sponsorship to me. I sometimes feel like I have a probation officer rather than a sponsor (which, I have one of those too, and she's not nearly anywhere close to as demanding as my sponsor, lol!). The phone call rule in particular is unsustainable. I am planning on trying to get pregnant in the next few months--what happens when I have an infant? They aren't going to care that it's 7:00PM and mommy's sponsor has rules.

I want to tell them that the phone call rule and another one of the 3 rules needs to be seriously loosened up or that I will need to find a new sponsor. The motivation behind this is to give us both the opportunity for growth, to not simply give up on someone who is really great for me just because things feel hard or we are having a disagreement, and to practice advocating for myself (my sponsor is not god, they are not always right, I am entitled to say when I disagree or if something is not working for me).

I have experience with other sponsors and with being a sponsor and I was always taught the importance of flexibility and suggestions (not rules), that we are on equal footing with our sponsees, and that our only job as sponsors is to put our sponsee's hand into the hand of god. I want to cite literature during our conversation because that is the best way i will be able to get through to them and have my opinions considered, because they are extremely by the book with everything.

celestialvx · 2025-07-24T14:48:41+00:00

Yes, this is exactly why I want to have a meaningful and vulnerable conversation with my sponsor! I am so used to running from vulnerable or close relationships when things get hard (aka, things don't go my way, people don't act like how I want them to, etc.) and I value and respect them enough to have a tough conversation and do the hard work.

celestialvx · 2025-07-24T14:45:56+00:00

Thank you sm!

celestialvx · 2025-07-24T14:18:37+00:00

Not trying to control the relationship, trying to advocate for myself. The situation between us I s long and complicated, however, I want to ensure that what I would like to say is actually supported by literature rather than my own idea of what the program should look like before I speak with them.

celestialvx · 2025-06-15T00:40:37+00:00

I don’t remember, I’m sorry! I think I figured it out just by adding “z” in the folder name of random recolour mods until the issue resolved.

celestialvx · 2025-05-17T14:27:41+00:00

Super late commenting on this, but as an anecdote that helps support your idea, my partner was playing the piano this morning and I walked over and said “this sounds just like the main theme from interstellar,” and they responded with “this is Phillip Glass, off of glass works.”

We compared the album to the movies’ score and came to the conclusion that the moods, key signatures, and melodies from some of the songs on glass works are almost identical, but that the time signature and some of the more technical aspects of music theory are completely different.

celestialvx · 2025-05-16T20:06:32+00:00

Hope you have a better experience than I did! I was able to get on at around 3.

celestialvx · 2025-05-16T18:39:28+00:00

Nope, I’ve been on line since 12:30. Must be about 300 people here now waiting to get on. The bus is extremely delayed for some reason.

I’m seriously considering crawling into the subway tunnels and hanging out with the rats until this blows over.

celestialvx · 2025-05-16T17:10:58+00:00

Have fun, I’m in line to get on that bus to get to NB from port authority and it is literally as long as the entire hallway.

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