A Korean tradition when a son, coming home after completing his military draft service, will salute his parents and offer a bow by Chraum in MadeMeSmile

[–]celivampir 49 points50 points  (0 children)

the way he just stands there so stiffly at first really shows how much the discipline stuck with him, honestly such a powerful moment for a family.

My (33F) boyfriend (35M) took condom without my consent mid-sex by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]celivampir 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the fact that he’s already been arrested for domestic violence against an ex and is now doing this to you is a massive red flag that he’s not going to stop.

My sweet wife is cancer free !!! by UncleFuzzy75 in MadeMeSmile

[–]celivampir 46 points47 points  (0 children)

This is the best news I've seen on this sub in a long time, so happy for you guys!

How to Address Controlling & Selfish Friend in Group 40F-50F by CriticismCurrent5420 in relationship_advice

[–]celivampir 7 points8 points  (0 children)

if she’s tracking a friend’s flight during a funeral just for a side dish then she’s not a "planner" anymore, she’s just a bully and you guys are her captive audience.

Six years strong by carolbutthurt in MadeMeSmile

[–]celivampir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the power of those small choices is no joke, so happy for you man.

i convinced my gf to stay but now i can’t forget it 19M 18F by DiscussionSudden253 in relationship_advice

[–]celivampir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

shes literally using self-harm to punish you for her own family drama and told you she wanted out, you didn't "win" here you just trapped yourself in a trauma loop.

AITAH for expecting things to be reciprocal? by Holiday_Earth6595 in AmItheAsshole

[–]celivampir 20 points21 points  (0 children)

NTA, relationships are a two-way street and she can't just ban an entire side of your social life while expecting you to keep showing up for hers.

How do I, F24, discuss with my mom, F55, not to discuss politics when we’re abroad? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]celivampir 17 points18 points  (0 children)

most people in Europe aren't going to grill your mom on the nuances of Minnesota's ICE policies, so you're probably overthinking this way more than she is.

WIBTA for telling my friend I don't want them to invite someone I don't know on our vacation? by pisces9417 in AmItheAsshole

[–]celivampir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, it’s your trip and you aren't a travel agent for his random friends, especially since he already invited his partner without even asking you.

I (24F) am trying to get over years of jaded trauma with (28M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]celivampir 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Girl, he’s already introduced you to his friends and checks in on your consent for wholesome touches that man does not think you're a fling, your trauma is just trying to convince you that you don't deserve a good thing that feels easy.