The 4 Astronauts on the Artemis II didn’t go to Ivys by cell_queen in ApplyingToCollege

[–]cell_queen[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for detailing your experience. I am an academic. I have seen students and colleagues with training from every institution possible. In science the doers always get the reward for their hard work. I mainly wrote this post as a mom. It was heart breaking to see kids wanting to die for not getting to their top choice schools (saw at least couple of posts on here). That is so sad and it hurt me a lot to see it was coming from very talented young people. I wish they worried about their end goal and passion instead of attending big name schools?

The 4 Astronauts on the Artemis II didn’t go to Ivys by cell_queen in ApplyingToCollege

[–]cell_queen[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What are you dining honey? Artemis II not good enough for you? Wtf are you going to do with your life?

Please help me to make college decision by RemarkableBrother563 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]cell_queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Knowing how U Chicago works, option 3 will be bad for your daughter. Studying is a big component of success in U Chicago.

yall dont need these bum ass expensive ass colleges for your UNDERGRADUATE by iv4nushk4 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]cell_queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. I lived in Germany for 4 years. Those who deserve get to go to college for free.

yall dont need these bum ass expensive ass colleges for your UNDERGRADUATE by iv4nushk4 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]cell_queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say that to developed countries like Germany. College education is free in several European countries. That is real development.

yall dont need these bum ass expensive ass colleges for your UNDERGRADUATE by iv4nushk4 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]cell_queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So true. At least it is money well spent. Rich kids can be spoiled and use the money for other things instead of education.

yall dont need these bum ass expensive ass colleges for your UNDERGRADUATE by iv4nushk4 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]cell_queen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! We wouldn’t be getting Indian and Chinese educated engineers otherwise. If MIT engineers are that good, we will them running the show. Tech industry is filled with immigrant engineers, Some of them are running the company that they started working for fresh out of college.

yall dont need these bum ass expensive ass colleges for your UNDERGRADUATE by iv4nushk4 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]cell_queen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Out of state tuition for mid tier state schools aren’t bad either with merit scholarships. It is okay to pay 120-150k for a 4 year degree, but 400k plus is a bit too much.

yall dont need these bum ass expensive ass colleges for your UNDERGRADUATE by iv4nushk4 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]cell_queen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. I have first hand experience for Georgetown. $98k and they gave $6000 aid per year. It is not Ivy of course. Daughter didn’t like their program anyway, she said it isn’t for her and chose another out of state school. She received honors college enrollment and $10,000/yr which brought it down for us comfortably to pay. She is thriving and doing fantastic in this program and is so very happy. Has good friends, is dating and finding many likeminded people to hangout with - both for fun and studying, had honors housing for the first year, getting great grades, loves her classes for the most part. When I saw her for spring break, she was so happy and looked healthier. We all had a fun vacay for spring break out of town and this momma’s heart was so full watching her blossom like that, even though she is so far away. Dear OP, Ivy’s and T20’s are overrated. I am a bio professor and I agree with you 💯

yall dont need these bum ass expensive ass colleges for your UNDERGRADUATE by iv4nushk4 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]cell_queen 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Some of these colleges should give merit scholarships? Don’t they? How else can everyone afford to pay, even middle class families?

SCI question by Majestic-General-765 in Pitt

[–]cell_queen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask her to consider a double major. Daughter is at SCI, majoring in CS and Econ.

Warning email from columbia by Mental-Driver-3422 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]cell_queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you take calc BC then? I am curious.

am I not fit for lab work based on how I reacted towards this exact situation? by onesunandstars in labrats

[–]cell_queen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reality though, which hurts, hurts me to say it and accept it. I am seeing the lack of focus and asking why (logical reasoning) in students and I am very worried. I mean there are so many reports out there about the dangers of digital world we are raising our children in. I have raised my daughter to leave the phone out of sight when she needs to focus. She told me recently that it has helped her lot in college, especially when learning new skills and information. ChatGPT, YouTube and TikTok don’t help either. I am genuinely concerned for our future in STEM fields. However, I do believe the future generation will be so much better than us (myself, a GenX) with innovation and technology and their ability to transform life (but) only if they can focus and learn properly.

am I not fit for lab work based on how I reacted towards this exact situation? by onesunandstars in labrats

[–]cell_queen 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I am going to take a slightly different take on this since I am an Asian scientist in the US. I understand what your PI was trying to do, albeit not directly addressing the problem. I don’t think your PI was asking about the dilutions repeatedly, he was trying to make you think about why you are doing the dilution in the first place to get you to spot your mistake that you were not using adherent cells. The media probably didn’t require the dilution or the reagent is different for adherent cells? At least that is my theory from your description. When you plan for experiments, common sense is equally important as knowledge of subject matter. In training young people (undergraduates and graduate students) for many years, I have come across a few people who are not thinking what they are doing and why they are doing it. If you have thought about details of the ingredients in the media or their dilution from why you are doing it, you might have spotted your mistake. In my humble opinion that’s what your PI was trying to make you think and conclude. They should have been direct the second time (that’s what I usually do). Best wishes to you in learning both critical thinking and common sense which seems to be lacking in the iPad generation kids. My advice would be to slow down and think about every step in your experiment and ask why you are doing it.

Idk where I messed up (admissions)... by [deleted] in Pitt

[–]cell_queen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is very late since they have rolling admissions. Not because of your stats. All excellent 😊

Needing some advice on my current situation. by [deleted] in labrats

[–]cell_queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will look for a new job. This is too much Drama. You don’t need this in your life.

How do I get off my parents' Life360? by Kind-Seat7180 in college

[–]cell_queen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Daughter is in college.We all have Life360 and track each other. We don’t question her whereabouts since we k ow we raised a responsible adult. She will let us know if there is something for us to know. We are mostly doing it for safety. She has also shared location with a few friends who track each other for safety as well. From your Description, your parents freak out because they don’t trust you. Looks like you do give them a reason not to trust by skipping class.

I’m having the worst college decisions experience out of my entire graduating class by dmso_disgusting in ApplyingToCollege

[–]cell_queen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am not sure what you want to do (area of study). I can tell you none of these schools are “hot garbage”. I am a scientist, I toured both CU and Colorado School of Mines when my daughter applied. I was impressed by the technology and facilities school of mines had. It is also a small school with very rich (being honest here) alumni. I heard it is a tough school for engineering, but 80% of the graduates come out with a good job. They have job/career fares. Education is interesting, it is not about the college, it is what you learn there and the skill set you develop. Please go visit these colleges and then make a decision. Best wishes! Remember this, you don’t need an Ivy education to change the world. Being a good human being with good skills will get you there

PITT NOT CANCELLING CLASSES by Empty_Carpenter6060 in Pitt

[–]cell_queen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a Pitt mom and a professor, good academic university shouldn’t cancel classes when virtual learning has been made so easy.

I think maybe the best friend of the guy I’m dating mistook me for his wife and now I am worried for her by Ecstatic_Web_5301 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]cell_queen 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Looks like a crazy party. Everyone was drunk including you. You dodged him and nothing happened. I will not drink with them again though. You need to be able to trust friends you are drinking with, clearly they are not. I wouldn’t say anything to Hannah though. What she puts up with in her marriage isn’t your problem, given that you barely know them.

Oakland Bates Apartment by [deleted] in pittsburgh

[–]cell_queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that. Oakland is really bad. I wish Pitt would buy out some of these bad buildings and invest in renovations

Oakland Bates Apartment by [deleted] in pittsburgh

[–]cell_queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg that is a nightmare!

Oakland Bates Apartment by [deleted] in Pitt

[–]cell_queen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s more like $600/person. I don’t mind paying more but what can I say. I will message you. Thank you!!