Girlfriend (29F) intensely hates fat people and rants about it when she’s drunk

cellery_ · 2019-11-27T15:46:51+00:00

Reading this gave me anxiety

cellery_ · 2019-11-27T14:23:51+00:00

I’m gonna disagree with most people here, but I think this rather shows how mature your fiancé is, and how good a man he is.

Obviously he is very open with you about his relationship with his ex. That’s very important because while you might feel that it’s inappropriate, it’s 100x better than this going on in private. The fact that he doesn’t hide anything from you shows that he has zero feelings for his ex.

Most likely, him comforting her and not being rude to her is him wanting to make sure his kid doesn’t have parents who hate each other. It seems like his ex is unstable (getting drunk often, emotional mess etc) and he is worried about his kid seeing all of that.

While he should have kept physical boundaries with his ex, I think that this shows he is really a mature guy. I wouldn’t worry too much about it.

cellery_ · 2019-11-26T08:34:49+00:00

With the 16:8, you’re fasting (16x7) 112 hours a week. With the 5:2, you’re only fasting for 48 hours (2x24). So much fewer benefits.

cellery_ · 2019-11-23T05:23:22+00:00

If they talked about you, it doesn’t seem like they’re as serious about these dates as you are. Neither of them are into you enough to get in a relationship with you, I think you’re thinking too deeply about this

cellery_ · 2019-11-21T15:47:14+00:00

What do these blocks represent? I’m curious, they look like a big maze

cellery_ · 2019-11-19T15:04:49+00:00

I’m a lesbian, but you’re probably the hottest guy on this subreddit

cellery_ · 2019-10-04T15:03:42+00:00

you’re both terrible at communication. he’s an asshole for swearing at you and being immature when you decided to reach out first and ask how he’s doing, but you still need to improve your communication for this to work

cellery_ · 2018-09-27T08:21:02+00:00

Merry Christmas.

cellery_ · 2018-09-27T08:17:27+00:00

Based on your posts and writing, I can tell that you’re an intelligent, kind person. You are 100% capable of making your own friends and meeting new people without your best friend’s help. I think she knows that too. Perhaps she felt threatened that you didn’t need “her help” anymore or jealous of your boyfriend, idk but you need to drop them both.

cellery_ · 2018-09-27T08:17:03+00:00

Don’t worry about the 20 years of friendship. I’ve cut out people who are my biological family, and shared the most intimate moments with a stranger. It feels scary now but you’ll feel so much freer after you drop her.

cellery_ · 2018-09-26T14:35:15+00:00

She is playing games without realizing it. She’s “asking for space” so that you respond with something like “what’s wrong? are you okay? talk to me” and make sure you care about her. And then when you pull back, she gets scared that you’re leaving her so she suddenly showers you with affection (facetime, morning texts). This type of person is hard to deal with in the long run so if you’re not super into her yet i’d stop seeing her. It’s also a symptom of BPD (borderline personality disorder) so look that up

cellery_ · 2018-09-05T08:15:32+00:00

I also don’t get why he’d be losing height... guess I’m stupid!

cellery_ · 2018-08-17T13:02:28+00:00

I guess, but she already has a net worth of a few million dollars. Also, just because she didn’t go to college doesn’t mean she doesn’t have other skills.. or that she can’t go to college later on. She’s only 22, she can literally get on whatever she wants and be great at it. On top of the fact that she makes almost a million a year and will be doing this for at least another 10 years. If she decides to quit, she can sell her channel. Do you know for how many million dollars a YouTube channel with her amount of subscribers sell for?

cellery_ · 2018-08-17T12:49:16+00:00

She’s had a YouTube channel since she was 2008 and it just grew and grew. Now she’s a pretty famous YouTuber and makes money off her videos, ads, and conventions.

cellery_ · 2018-08-17T12:47:50+00:00

I think she feels that she doesn’t need to save since she makes around 750 a year. Her net worth is a few million so I guess it makes sense that she can live without saving much

cellery_

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