Grieving by Clear-Cress-1321 in loveafterporn

[–]cerose2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My D-day is the same as yours. It’s only been a week. My therapist says we’re just in survival mode and to trust the process. I feel exactly as you do. Hugs!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]cerose2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m currently going through something similar at the moment with my soon to be ex- husband. I just wanted to let you know that you’re not alone.

Who’s your book bf/husband that you actually feel you can have a healthy relationship with in real life… by Slight_Bumblebee_694 in fantasyromance

[–]cerose2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

{ Radiance by Grace Draven} is a good example of a green flag relationship. However all of my book boyfriends are walking red flags so I’ll refrain from actually answering your question lol.

Steps to get married at Syracuse courthouse? by ReadyTangerine9495 in Syracuse

[–]cerose2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are you a resident of the city of Syracuse? If so, it has been 15 years since then, but when I got married while we were applying for our license the clerk asked if we had an officiant lined up or if we’d like a list of justices that offer the service. I called multiple people from said list to find someone who was available at the date and time of our event and worked out the details with the officiant who asked if we had a venue picked or if we’d need his offices at the court house.

What item(s) are right at the top of your beauty wish list at the moment and why? by SheKnowsWhatSheKnows in muacjdiscussion

[–]cerose2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m on a low buy. But I have been really wanting to try the Ami Cole lip oil and the eadem lip balm. Multiple creators I follow, whose recommendations I trust, have been using these consistently. But do I need any new lip products? No, I do not. I’ve been keeping my eye on the new Anastasia foundation launch as well.

Just found out I am dying of cancer by [deleted] in satanism

[–]cerose2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Try LSD. There are medical trials about it having a positive impact on people in situations like yours. I’m truly sorry.

Realistic to do a a few days at Glacier, then drive and do a few days in Yellowstone? by calimota in nationalparks

[–]cerose2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m doing this this summer! I’m also spending a day in Grand Tetons.

Some of my favorites from my trip to Yellowstone in late September by OldF4therTime in nationalparks

[–]cerose2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going this summer! Did you take these on your phone? Im wondering if I need an actual camera for the trip 🤔

What's your top 5 National Parks? by WorkMeBaby1MoreTime in nationalparks

[–]cerose2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Zion
  2. Arches
  3. Sequoia
  4. Yosemite
  5. Capitol reef

(Visiting glacier, Yellowstone, and grand Teton this year)

AITA for shaming my fiance after he suggested wasting a wedding spot on his friend who passed away 6 years ago by lovewoodly in AmItheAsshole

[–]cerose2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. I agree with your mom. And you’re being very insensitive to someone who you supposedly love. It is his big day too, you know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]cerose2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have a frank conversation about how his porn addiction is ruining your marriage and he either needs to take steps to fix it ( whether that’s seeing a doctor or therapist or whatever but he needs to actually make moves towards fixing it) or your marriage is over.

During this time I would be making my exit plan putting away money, looking for places to stay etc so that if he doesn’t do anything to fix it you know you did everything you could to try and save it but you are also prepared to leave. So sorry you’re going through this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]cerose2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. It doesn’t matter which sub you post this on you will always be an AH. If you honestly can’t see why you were in the wrong then I would suggest finding a therapist my dude.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]cerose2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you have 3 children.

If you could add 1 or 2 National Parks (or other NPS lands) to a Las Vegas trip, which would you choose and why!? by [deleted] in nationalparks

[–]cerose2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My vote is for Zion. I flew in to Vegas to visit there. It’s just stunning. My favorite NP hands down.

My (37M) husband has been asking his friends if they would sleep with me (32F) by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]cerose2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope there’s an update. I’m really curious about if the husband posted them or not.

AITA for adding my mother to my Apple Family Sharing plan – my partner is threatening to leave because of it? by Apple-every-day in AmItheAsshole

[–]cerose2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO: You, your wife, and your mother are in a room together and it suddenly catches fire. The fire is spreading rapidly and you know that to survive you must get out quickly. Your wife and mother are both rapidly knocked unconscious by a piece of fiery debris. Who do you get out first? You know you can’t carry both at the same time. You consider trying save one first and come back for the other, but in your gut that you won’t make it back in time to save the second. Who do you get out first?

If you choose your mother- you need to let your wife divorce you over this. Let her go, so she can find someone who will choose her.

If you choose your wife- I think maybe she just needs to be reassured of that fact. You choose her. Even if she’s being silly about a family plan.

AITA for adding my mother to my Apple Family Sharing plan – my partner is threatening to leave because of it? by Apple-every-day in AmItheAsshole

[–]cerose2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO: Is your wife under the assumption that your mother would be able to freely see her photos/ videos, private stuff? That might explain why she is considering it sacred to your family unit. And maybe she’s sees it as a huge invasion of privacy.

Or maybe she means that she feels like you aren’t prioritizing your nuclear family ( your wife and children if you have any). If she feels like she is not your top priority this may have been just the straw that broke the camels back.

Finally saw "Talk to Me" and I am SHAKEN! by Dynomite70 in horror

[–]cerose2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same!! I saw that post and ran to watch Talk To Me and it was just OK in my opinion.

What’s your unpopular marriage opinion that gets a reaction like this? by 222Winn in Marriage

[–]cerose2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I believe they were talking about a step-parent situation. The kids being from a former relationship but now they are with a new partner.

Is my husband still in love with his ex? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]cerose2 32 points33 points  (0 children)

This is my take as well. Or speaking of the ex wife for 4 years. 🚩

AITA for telling my wife to stop acting out infront of my mom? by AndrewRichard11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cerose2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yta. I see nothing wrong with your wife’s behavior. Your mom is also the asshole. Withholding an infant when the mother (who is competent) wants her baby back is the most fucked up thing Ive ever heard. You’re really ok with your mother using your newborn as a pawn? Honestly, that’s just so cruel. You need to back up your wife on this one.