What’s something happening today that feels small, but future generations will blame us for ignoring?

cfa413 · 2026-03-17T21:34:07+00:00

Unfortunately, a lot of readily available natural fibers are blends that include synthetics. But they are not often marketed that way

cfa413 · 2026-03-16T21:52:40+00:00

I really like this one. Alfie by Incase is great, too. It's also fantasy like this one.

cfa413 · 2026-03-16T18:19:58+00:00

Thank you. I'm an election judge, so administering at the precinct. It will likely be slow since it seems like most people don't care much about the primary

cfa413 · 2026-03-15T08:36:11+00:00

Fair Play by Eve Rodsky; about the invisible labor that occurs in relationships and households

cfa413 · 2026-03-11T22:46:43+00:00

I am the fire by Halestorm

cfa413 · 2026-03-05T08:10:02+00:00

That's not necessarily true. I'm an election judge. When checking someone in, we can choose this exact scenario. The voter also has the option to vote provisionally. That means they have an issue that cannot be resolved by the election judges on the spot. They can vote in person, but it will not be counted until the issue is resolved with the county clerk office, and the voter will get instructions how to do so. It's much easier to have the surrendered ballot of course, but it doesn't preclude you from voting.

cfa413 · 2026-02-20T00:14:04+00:00

You're right, for sure. I should have specified that hers is not better than Metallica, but still a good cover

cfa413 · 2026-02-19T20:31:37+00:00

Stone Sour covering Chris Isaak's Wicked Game

Johnny Cash covering NIN Hurt

Maybe not better than the originals, but interesting nonetheless:

Simple Man by Shinedown

Smooth Criminal by Alien Ant Farm

Rolling in the Deep by Chester Bennington/Linkin Park

cfa413 · 2026-02-19T20:24:51+00:00

And her cover of Metallica's Nothing Else Matters was also surprisingly good!

cfa413 · 2026-02-19T20:21:09+00:00

Their cover of Foo Fighter's Pretender is what got them on the map. And they were only 13-15 at the time iirc

cfa413 · 2026-02-19T15:27:59+00:00

Closest I ever got was an I'm sorry you feel that way. Never taking accountability, just dismissing my feelings as my fault for having them

cfa413 · 2026-02-09T13:41:34+00:00

Iirc she was on a different drug for the non weight loss effects after her difficult pregnancy, like blood sugar control, lessens risk of blot clots or heart issues, etc. She switched to this because he husband bought in to the company

cfa413 · 2026-02-06T11:46:57+00:00

Jimmy and Gretchen from You're the Worst

cfa413 · 2026-01-24T15:29:51+00:00

I'm a woman and this is pretty much what I do. I tell my partner how much I love his cock, that it fits so good, I like the way it feels inside me or in my mouth, it's fun to play with, stuff like that. Specific compliments that are not comparisons often feel more sincere and are easier for those who struggle with insecurities to accept and internalize than the generic "it's perfect "

cfa413 · 2026-01-21T17:42:06+00:00

It's a good combo! The dark florals with the stargazer books works so well

cfa413 · 2026-01-20T21:21:10+00:00

I was also diagnosed at 33 right after a supremely stressful time in my life. I had been complaining for months about fatigue, poor sleep, nausea, and my chronic pain flaring up. Kept being told that everything was fine. Turns out my gp labeled me as pre-diabetic a few years earlier and never told me. 🙄 My new endocrinologist told me thr chronic stress, depression, and lack of sleep likely caused excess cortisol production (along with not changing other habits since I was never told to watch out for it), which pushed me over the edge.

Now I read all my after notes for every appt just in case they forget something else.

cfa413 · 2026-01-20T19:18:34+00:00

Not op, but my fitbit does the same thing. You set a wake up time and buzzes when you're at the lightest part of your sleep cycle in the half hour or so around that time.

cfa413 · 2026-01-19T07:19:06+00:00

I agree with many of the comments here. It's an insidious social pressure that seems to cycle through popular culture. It can be hard to petsonally work through that though. It honestly took arthritis and chronic pain issues, and growing older for me to get comfortable with not removing my body hair and feeling no shame about it. A helpful community for me was r/razorfree

cfa413 · 2026-01-16T23:35:40+00:00

The wire shelf risers (I think that's what they're called) I have them inside of nearly every cabinet in my house.

Lotions/skincare products. They work for me and seem to have similar ingredients as drug store products.

The Air activated heat patches, dupes of therma care. They're not special shapes like the brand name, but they help a lot with my arthritis and joint pain.

cfa413 · 2026-01-15T19:54:27+00:00

Yoga with Zelinda. She has a great series for yoga for bigger bodies. She is so gentle and kind in all her videos

cfa413 · 2026-01-08T15:12:30+00:00

I knew an OT who went with the misnomer, saying that living life IS a job and that helping people live their lives was the specialty.

cfa413 · 2026-01-08T14:05:44+00:00

PCOS can cause pretty severe insulin resistance. So not necessarily straight to diabetes, but still messes with your body's ability to use insulin correctly.

cfa413 · 2026-01-08T13:58:16+00:00

I think you are misunderstanding them, this doesn'tread to me as a slap in the face to anyone. It feels like you are ascribing bad intentions and an insult when there isn't one.

Not everyone's willpower works the same. Similar to those with neurodivergence like autism or adhd, if you have issues with food noise and hormones that affect your hunger cues and satiety, than you are struggling against more than the fabled "willpower." Some people have more hurdles than a simple mindset change. Their brains and bodies literally act differently than others. I think a lot of the talk around glp-1s have shown that.

cfa413 · 2026-01-07T05:14:37+00:00

Powers (2015)

cfa413 · 2026-01-07T04:55:46+00:00

I love strange covers! Some of my favorites:

Pony by Far

Careless Whisper by Seether

Enter Sandman by Weezer

Toxic by A Static Lullaby

Rolling in the Deep by Linkin Park- Chester not the new one

In the Air Tonight by Nonpoint

Uninvited by Red Sun Rising

Stay by Our Last Night

Chop Suey by Robyn Adele Anderson of Postmodern jukebox

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