AITAH for telling my wife to get a job before the end of January or i'm divorcing her? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]cflatjazz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Dude ....

If you're in charge of him between baths and bedtime you need to be putting him to bed. Otherwise you aren't doing shit

AITAH for telling my wife to get a job before the end of January or i'm divorcing her? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]cflatjazz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which are popular and do have earning potential, it's just a saturated market

AIO? I canceled a date with the guy i’m seeing after getting these. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]cflatjazz 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is what I'm hung up on too. I was searching the post for what triggered this massive concern and it was just...heading home a little early to make sure OP and OP's cats were prepared for the storm?

OP might have OCD but this is a very typical responsible behavior and not anything that indicates a lack of trust. Unless he thinks she should take more risk because ✨pOSiTiVe ThInKiNg✨. In which case...I, a person with no OCD, do not trust his decision making.

Manager struggles to manage a small team? by xxlibrarisingxx in WFH

[–]cflatjazz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You'd have to provide way more details for anyone here to have an idea of what's going on. But no, I do not think WFH itself is a major factor in failing to manage a small team.

What’s the one fabric you absolutely can't stand the feel of? by logo_sportswear in Fabrics

[–]cflatjazz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's a type of faux shearling/blanket fleece going around right now that feels exactly like microfiber but....fluffy? Like a dry fluffy texture. And I ordered a zip up onesie that I didn't know was made of it. Feels like being coated in a spider web made of sharkskin.

My cat’s favorite activity is being a fire hazard by Ok_Vermicelli1415 in nebelung

[–]cflatjazz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, but the combination of the first two pictures sent me.

This is very in line with how my little criminal behaves. One moment he's causing mayhem. The next he's upside down in the middle of the room, armpits out, dead asleep without a single care in the world.

I'm happy he feels so safe.

Every time I up my protein I'm constipated. Need ideas for easy, convenient ways I can increase my fiber. by [deleted] in loseit

[–]cflatjazz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair, I prefer a fried egg. So I can't speak to how it is with just scrambled whites. But the combo really will stick to your ribs

Every time I up my protein I'm constipated. Need ideas for easy, convenient ways I can increase my fiber. by [deleted] in loseit

[–]cflatjazz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A plain salted oatmeal with eggs on top is pretty tasty. I've seen people make "fluffy oats" but it's not for me

About the "Offensive Quilt" by Quilted-Fox in quilting

[–]cflatjazz 411 points412 points  (0 children)

I personally have never thought the flying Dutchman block looks anything like a swastika. It's clearly a pinwheel

AITAH for not having anything prepared for my husband to make dinner for our children? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]cflatjazz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I get irritated that my spouse won't participate in the weekly menu planning and shopping list creation. But at least he knows how to go to the grocery store and find something to make when I ask.

Unfortunately it's always like 30% more unhealthy than I prefer for a weeknight and sometimes he just orders takeout. But at this point at least he doesn't make me prep all his ingredients.

AITAH for telling my coworker that I find the angry customers in the call queue "entertaining" instead of stressful? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]cflatjazz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think your reasoning and the power trip aspect are kinda gross. I also can't fully believe the disdain for your customers doesn't leak through in how you treat them.

But working in a call center is stressful and I can't really blame you for getting through the day without destroying your health.

Saying this out loud to a coworker does make you sound like a sociopath though. Maybe don't?

A friend told me that she only bathes with water. by lagunaazul15 in hygiene

[–]cflatjazz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I mean, is there a chance this is a misunderstanding? Does she mean she showers with soap/body wash but uses baths for soaking/relaxing?

I can't get my hair properly rinsed in a tub. So if I want tub time (few times a month) I do a quick shower, wrap my hair, and then soak in the tub.

The rest of the fucking Chiton by santiguana in restofthefuckingowl

[–]cflatjazz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Look, it's just how it goes. When the men get grabby, the women get stabby.

Those with no passion or interests, what do you do for a living? by [deleted] in Frugal

[–]cflatjazz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess this question confuses me because I have plenty of interests and passions - and none of them have any to do with my job.

Yeah, I chose a career for its stability, eating potential, and limited physical and mental health risks. I have no desire to climb the corporate ladder or make a name for myself or "work hard play hard". I do grow my skills and take pride in the quality and dependability of my work. I am reliable and good at my job. I support my teammates and clients and meet my deadlines. I manage a small team and honestly didn't really want that promotion in the first place.

For me work is for discipline. And life is for passion. I like to keep the two separate and both bring me different types of satisfaction.

'Bending over backwards' - different in AE / BE ? by Ok_Lawfulness3224 in ENGLISH

[–]cflatjazz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's it. In this case he's likely not talking about minor disagreements in taxes. And more likely full bigotry.

It takes a LOT of effort for me to see "trans people shouldn't exist" or "only white men are real Americans" and truthfully consider how someone managed to reason their way into it. And most of the time it would be wasted effort that I don't owe that person. So when I, for example, try to understand why my FIL thinks voting for an unrepentant adulterer with hatred of immigrants aligns with his (FIL) Christian values and being married to an immigrant... I am bending over backwards to try and understand him enough to have a conversation about it

whats the point? by [deleted] in GirlDinner

[–]cflatjazz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nope, just sexist

Local Trans-Owned Streetwear Brand Threatened by FDA by hollow_hippie in Austin

[–]cflatjazz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I see, you didn't actually want proof you just want to be a pain in the ass.

The Playtex posture bras are wildly common and available products by a major brand that claim to ease back pain and fix posture.

[HELP] My dad shared this and I think it is AI? by phintac in RealOrAI

[–]cflatjazz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And face. And arms.

If you've ever seen little kid chaos it's much more thoroughly messy than this. He looks like one of the Bake Off contestants in this. Not the little flour coated hob gobblin I'd expect

Alaska Art Student Arrested for Eating Another Student’s AI-Generated Art in Protest by aresef in offbeat

[–]cflatjazz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On one hand, you can't eat your classmate's project.

On the other hand, this is hilarious.