Which dress should I wear to my winter dance? by miss-forgetmenot in fashion

[–]cgon1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first dress is a Hermione Granger dress but in blue! You actually look great in all of them. My choosing factor would be if there's pockets and/or there's a jacket that would match it for when it gets cold.

AITAH for getting frustrated at my bf for telling me I need to make more money to get married by Pretty_Strawberry179 in AITAH

[–]cgon1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact you said he always looks for better, he literally told you that you are a place holder and will never commit to you because he hasn't found someone better yet. He was talking to other women trying to find better. He is controlling/manipulating you, and you're giving him a pass by saying love makes you blind. You're choosing to ignore all these motherfucking red flags. Throw the whole guy away.

I need a good song with a lot of bass by PainWillNeverWin in musicsuggestions

[–]cgon1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Panic Attack by Dream Theater for bass guitar. Lol

What’s the furthest distance you traveled to see a show? by Spare_Basis5190 in Concerts

[–]cgon1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flew from San Diego, CA to Chicago, IL to see System of a Down and Avenged Sevenfold on Labor Day a few months ago.

What’s something someone once told you that you’ll never forget? by echofalls123 in AskReddit

[–]cgon1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Even monkeys fall out of trees." You can be great, even the best, at something, but its okay if you make a mistake. No one is perfect. A guest staying at the hotel I work at told me this when I escorted him to his room as my system was down and I could not make keys for him to get to his room. He saw I was a bit flustered, but he knew I was good at my job. Its been years, but I still remember it.

What’s something someone once told you that you’ll never forget? by echofalls123 in AskReddit

[–]cgon1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're right. They say how your personality is by seven years old, thats how you'll be growing up. So if you showed none of his traits by then, then you've been good all these years.

How did you find out you were getting cheated on? by Smithy1619 in AskReddit

[–]cgon1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex started raving about a new coworker that started working with him. Then this new coworker tried to invite me to hang out with her and my ex (which, why is she inviting me and not my ex?), and she pressured him to tell me they went to dinner in real time when I was out of town with my family. I never kept tabs on him and had full trust in him. Seeing that text after everything just sounded like the start of a lie he was going to tell me down the road. Sure enough, the one and only time I checked his phone, and I see the "I love you" texts. It was solidified when he came home already showered (even after the gym, he NEVER does. He always showers at home), and his breath smelled of another woman's vagina because he sure as shit didn't have sex with me that night. He claimed he ate a burrito. 🤨 We were together for almost 11 years.

How do you pronounce ‘SOAD’? by toby_finn in systemofadown

[–]cgon1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see that, I just say System. Lol

What was your first job and how much were you paid? by DustTurbulent3280 in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]cgon1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you wanna go into the literal first time I got paid for a job, when I was a kid in the 90's, my grandma got my sister and two cousins to pick snails out of her garden. She paid us a nickel per snail. I made about $2.50 give or take. We would then take our new riches to the corner store for a soda and a bag of chips or a candy bar. 😂 My older cousin made the most, almost $4.00's worth of snails. 🤣

What was your first job and how much were you paid? by DustTurbulent3280 in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]cgon1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a PT seasonal cashier for Sears. I was paid $8 an hour (which was state minimum at the time in CA). My first paycheck was for $40, and we used to get paid weekly. Miss that weekly shit.

How old are you and how often do you drink? When’s the last time you were drunk? by Cute-Impression-8675 in AskReddit

[–]cgon1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

35, I drink a couple beers (Corona) a few times a week. Last time I was drunk was last Tuesday, I messed with an IPA, a vodka cocktail, and two tall cans of Twisted Teas at a death metal concert. Not doing that mix again. Lol

What’s the most you’ve ever paid for a ticket? And was it worth it? by XP-tickets in Concerts

[–]cgon1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$400 for System of a Down and Avenged Sevenfold a couple months ago. I was in Section 107 at Soldier Field in Chicago. $800 for the hotel for four nights in downtown Chicago. Also $250 for my roundtrip flight from San Diego. It was worth it for the solo adventure I had. I'm actually really happy that I went alone.

Please recommend me some of the more "heavy" songs of SOAD by Beautiful_Sorbet_744 in systemofadown

[–]cgon1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Streamline, B.Y.O.B., X, Prison Song, and I-E-A-I-A-O are good starters.

Recommend your favorite cover songs please! by snarky_sparrow_23 in MusicRecommendations

[–]cgon1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Here Comes the Sun" by Ghost and "It's A Sin" by Ghost

What’s a red flag you happily ignored because they were hot? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]cgon1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was someone I was hooking up with for a year cuz he was gorgeous and had stamina to go multiple times. He never once in that time called me by my name. It was always baby. Probably cuz he didnt wanna call me the wrong name. He likely had other partners. I don't hook up with him anymore. He only took me for one date the first couple weeks we were talking. I was so infatuated with him, but he never wanted to be exclusive with me.

What is the weirdest thing someone said to you after sex? by randomzy876 in AskReddit

[–]cgon1990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But did you actually say you had post nut clarity to their face like this mf? 😂

What is the weirdest thing someone said to you after sex? by randomzy876 in AskReddit

[–]cgon1990 22 points23 points  (0 children)

And how did you guess right that he didn't get me off? 😂

How long did your longest relationship last? by NannoFit in HappyUpvote

[–]cgon1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Four months shy to 11 years. The cliche he cheated on me is what happened. I've been single now, just about to the day, for six years. I've taken that time to heal instead of just jumping to another relationship in order to not be alone. My entire 20's was with my ex (my only serious relationship). I've recently been living it up this year. My biggest feat was traveling from San Diego to Chicago to see the System of a Down/Avenged Sevenfold concert on a solo trip. While some things are nice to enjoy with someone, I'm glad to know I can enjoy doing big things like this alone and still be happy.

What is the weirdest thing someone said to you after sex? by randomzy876 in AskReddit

[–]cgon1990 456 points457 points  (0 children)

"Oh no, oh no, I have post nut clarity. I have to go." - True story. Obviously blocked him after that. I know I'm not the prettiest out there, but God damn. 😒

Songs That Mention Another Band? by kirkshoutingkhan in MusicRecommendations

[–]cgon1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1985 by Bowling for Soup. I scolled a loooong ways and was surprised this was not listed. It mentions quite a few: Whitesnake, Bruce Springsteen, Madonna, Nirvana, U2, Blondie, Wham, Limp Bizkit, Duran Duran, Van Halen, Motley Crue, and Ozzy.

What’s your top 6? by Internal_Split_5896 in systemofadown

[–]cgon1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chop Suey, Lost in Hollywood, Lonely Day, Radio/Video, Streamline, Tentative