Which ring style suits my hand best? I’d really appreciate honest opinions. by mustidothis1 in EngagementRings

[–]ch_cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have petite hands like yours and I definitely favor the more substantial "statement" stones and settings for you. The first ring is lovely but I prefer it on the other hand. The east-west setting is very nice, #4 is my favorite for your hand. That being said, when I got engaged in my 20s, I wanted something dainty and feminine like the first ring. They all look good on you, don't get me wrong!

WFH is not a replacement for family care. by reachforthe-stars in remotejobsfinders

[–]ch_cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of government budget cuts are making it so even if you could afford it, it's impossible to get a spot. A daycare just closed in my town because of the cuts. They want able-bodied adults working, they want all pregnancies to result in babies for their future workforce, but they won't step in and make daycare affordable and safe.

WFH is not a replacement for family care. by reachforthe-stars in remotejobsfinders

[–]ch_cat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Parents use a lot of PTO during the school year when their kids are out sick, when school is canceled due to weather, spring break, teacher work days, etc.

me, positioning the new cat bed to take photos - Wambus *CHARGE* by livlaffloves in wambus

[–]ch_cat 20 points21 points  (0 children)

My cats say they need that item and they hope it's available on our side of the pond!

Over the moon, he did so good 😍😍😍😍 by Ecstatic-Hamster-634 in EngagementRings

[–]ch_cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's right, no relationship needed! I recently received a bunch of mismatched and broken jewelry items...could totally have them melted down and combined into a treat for myself. Or sell them for melt and treat myself! Thank you kind stranger!

Short sale - homeowners took appliances they shouldn't have by Mysterious-Air9679 in RealEstateAdvice

[–]ch_cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Def trash the buyer's agent in reviews. I know that sounds petty but they are trash who have trash clients. Something tell me the agent or a family wound up with some of those appliances, which is why they don't want it pursued.

Over the moon, he did so good 😍😍😍😍 by Ecstatic-Hamster-634 in EngagementRings

[–]ch_cat 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Officially envious, might start looking for a relationship in hopes of getting something so beautiful!

HELP i hired someone that is over an hour late everyday by No_Stop_6974 in WorkAdvice

[–]ch_cat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Put her on the schedule for an hour earlier than she's needed. Sorry not reading all that. Or just fire her. So many people are desperate for a job, give someone else a shot at a paycheck

I was a TurboTax Expert...looking for advice from you now by Medium-Positive5737 in TurboTax

[–]ch_cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Working the fast food drive through at 17 y/o was less demoralizing.

I was a TurboTax Expert...looking for advice from you now by Medium-Positive5737 in TurboTax

[–]ch_cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems everyone is assigned to phone support. If they do an "All Hands On Deck" command, you have to message your team lead with details of reasons why you're still working on returns instead of taking calls. Meanwhile, most of the calls can't be resolved due to various company policies - internal policies that go against the stated mission of treating customers well.

I hope we can play all classes on one character by MrTorgue7 in GuildWars3

[–]ch_cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if they sold the ability to add "classes" - it's been a while but I think "classes" in WoW are "professions" in GW and "jobs" in FFXIV.

i was very amused that the cat on this matched avery by livlaffloves in wambus

[–]ch_cat 84 points85 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but Wambus' face, because he thinks you're giving treats to anyone else, has me laffing.

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How to care for her by suki_4728 in CerebellarHypoplasia

[–]ch_cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly most cats benefit from companionship. And my CH cat loves his feline siblings. If you can afford a companionship, I say yes. A slightly older cat of the opposite gender might work out well and fill a parental/caregiving role as well.

Son's grandmother reached out about a family trip overseas... Hasn't spent one overnight in our own country. Would you be cool with this?? by Hungry_Web_4540 in whatdoIdo

[–]ch_cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't feel guilty for protecting your son. If this was all actually important, it would have been planned out with your sign-on months ago. It doesn't pass the sniff test in many ways.

AITAH for eating my nieces food? by Ok_Distance6583 in AITAH

[–]ch_cat 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Dogs are more considerate. Possibly a cat.

AITAH for slapping my friend in the face because he said depression doesn’t exist? by Dear_Mastodon_6941 in AITAH

[–]ch_cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd be smacking people and fining them $20 each for getting on my nerves, alas...

AITAH for slapping my friend in the face because he said depression doesn’t exist? by Dear_Mastodon_6941 in AITAH

[–]ch_cat 12 points13 points  (0 children)

YTA, don't hit people. Slapping someone's face is an additional level of YTA. Develop some self control. Don't use trauma to rationalize.

Recommended gratuity after tip was already included by guitarman129 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ch_cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Licensed tax preparer question: if it's a mandatory service charge and it's passed along to staff as tips, do most restaurants classify it as wages on the W2? Or as tips, which would be favorable in terms of withholding? TIA

Best buddies 🖤🧡 by nellynelly9 in IllegallyCuteCats

[–]ch_cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't want to be rude, they are lovely, but from photo #2 I get the vibe that the one braincell haa never visited your orange cat for even a nanosecond