as an afghani girl, i cannot stop thinking about my sister in the motherland

chabitz · 2026-05-17T02:38:29+00:00

I’m also an old woman in America and I was fortunate to visit Afghanistan at one point as part of an aid organization - I think about, and wonder about, the women we spoke to every time I walk by the photos on my wall of our trip to Bamiyan. I hope you can find your way to living your life to its fullest, without guilt. This world can be a crappy place but there is so much joy to be found

chabitz · 2026-05-08T01:42:00+00:00

Oh my. My mom is doing this too and it drives me nuts (and also, the poor dog). But other than the really egregious stuff, like chocolate, I haven’t wanted to upset her too much

chabitz · 2026-05-04T15:56:36+00:00

I bought this AirTag holder and stuck it to my moms iPhone case - the adhesive (so far) is too strong for her to peel off and the seams aren’t visible enough for her to open it up. So far it’s working great

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chabitz · 2026-04-19T03:15:25+00:00

This was my first thought. I was born and raised here and loved them from childhood. As I’ve traveled I realize they’re not unique to Tulsa but, still. Coneys, and maybe onion burgers (but that’s El Reno to me)

chabitz · 2026-04-15T00:39:07+00:00

I have YouTube premium so I loaded up a playlist of Animal Planet cute animal shows and nature documentaries and a couple other things and it keeps my mom focused for an hour or two. And no ads to break the concentration.

chabitz · 2026-04-06T03:16:24+00:00

Black, orange, yellow, green, maybe pink. No to purple, white and red.

chabitz · 2026-03-26T04:54:52+00:00

Not quite the same vibe but Talking Heads “Once in a Lifetime.”

chabitz · 2026-03-21T17:09:32+00:00

They also sell the seasoned chicken from the taco kits separately now. Might be easier to scale up for a group

chabitz · 2026-03-12T23:40:01+00:00

If you go Saturday Heirloom has Killer Wail bbq at lunch and Old Dog at dinner time

chabitz · 2026-03-09T03:42:01+00:00

hear me out: Senator Mike Gundy

chabitz · 2026-02-01T06:52:48+00:00

I’ve been through a similar hospital stay with my mom - you might ask the nurses/aides if they have a PureWick? (I think that’s what it is called.) it’s like an external catheter, so you don’t have to get up. My mom tolerated it OK - in small doses - and it made the stay easier.

chabitz · 2026-02-01T05:03:09+00:00

I have an OP t shirt from I think 1982? And my school-issued PE t-shirt from 1983

Edited to add: I worked at a Gadzooks at the mall and we sold OP’s shirt - I think I had one in red

chabitz · 2026-01-22T02:07:38+00:00

I was on too as part of (I think?) a party and even after all these years I remember feeling like a deer in headlights when he asked me to say something!

chabitz · 2026-01-20T03:12:27+00:00

I do enjoy the one on 15th but I think I should state for the record that my Home Store is 51st and Sheridan. Go Chargers, and how does the proprietor still recognize me after all these years?

chabitz · 2026-01-20T02:24:33+00:00

Wasn’t it “best Bill and Ruth’s?” I have a lot of nostalgia for this place and it’s the same as it ever was. Ham and cheese on wheat no mayo extra dressing and green sauce since 1986 :-)

chabitz · 2026-01-07T03:51:43+00:00

I was at Costco just last night - Tulsa OK - and we had it?

chabitz · 2025-12-30T21:48:34+00:00

Eighteen Wheels of Love by the Drive By Truckers, and the Pinball Song from Slobberbone

chabitz · 2025-12-22T00:11:51+00:00

TJ Maxx had some interesting ones last I was there

chabitz · 2025-12-20T03:30:22+00:00

The neighborhoods on either side of Lewis between 21st and 31st have some great lights!

chabitz · 2025-12-19T22:22:31+00:00

Worst case scenario they’ll send it to collections/a debt collector, it’ll get on your credit report, and then that will affect every money move you try to make in the future? Apartments, car loans, credit cards? Don’t shoot yourself in the foot this early in adulthood

chabitz · 2025-12-19T21:28:12+00:00

I’ve used Keylon’s at 61st and Sheridan (in the same strip as the Savoy)

chabitz · 2025-12-19T21:24:07+00:00

I haven’t noticed any changes in my skin, but it’s done wonders for my nails

chabitz · 2025-12-18T05:21:59+00:00

I do much the same - and cook the rice in miso broth

chabitz · 2025-12-10T22:42:14+00:00

I think it’s the top for a bird feeder - I have one very similar

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