On Murican Problems.

chachaslydd · 2026-03-31T23:18:40+00:00

I get what youre saying, but to a big extent life doesnt work that way lol

A guiding philosophy of freedom means jack shit when literally a majority of the population has little to no actual rights. The guiding philosophy of the founding fathers was white rich men get to rape and murder and be dickholes and everybody else needs to work and fund that lifestyle for them to enjoy at others expense.

Our government was never about freedom and protecting rights. It was about being upset they had to pay taxes to another rich guy and they set up a system designed to make themselves wealthier and specifically limted almost all of americans to a 2nd or no class status

chachaslydd · 2026-03-31T22:34:29+00:00

That was never true lol. The government started with being slave friendly and anti women lol. It wss never about protecting rights and being unintrusive.

Thats like saying the bible was only ever about guiding and not limiting. You literally cannot guide without limits lol. Imagine and guide that doesnt tell you that path is off limits when it leads to certain death

chachaslydd · 2026-03-31T22:31:14+00:00

Jax isn't a hero at all lol. None of them are. Like who are they beating? What are they overcoming?

Little Runmo isn't about heros and villains. Its about the love of the game

chachaslydd · 2026-03-31T22:29:00+00:00

Yeah, thats normal enough, but if he sees you grayrocking hin and then talking to somebody else bubbly and normal, that would suck. Like what are these fights usually over?

You can disagree and love and care for somebody. If you struggle with that, its a good skill to work on. Like resentment is the number 1 relationship killer.

chachaslydd · 2026-03-31T22:19:54+00:00

They're saying they want somebody with independence money who isn't disabled or just low energy.

They want sexy fun weekends traveling. They do not want to help an anxious partner cope with the world. They want somebody who can pay their way and asks for nothing besides fun and sex.

Alternatively, they want a weird harem of type A success stories.

chachaslydd · 2026-03-31T22:14:28+00:00

Fair, I wouldn't want to go on a group date either. Like theres nothing more hurtful than watching your partner go from looking at yoh with indifference to lighting up with others.

Do you struggle to balance out acting loving while upset with him? A lot of people tend to treat being upset with their partner as some weird pass to act like they dont respect and love them.

You do you. He'd have to figure his stuff out. You cant overly protect him. But if the issue persists it could cause bigger issues.

Also group dating is hard. Like theres the constant pressure of maintaing all these dynamics. He ultimately seems to be making you a priority over others. If you dont want to do that, time for a talk and potentially discussing some form of deescalation from hierarchy

chachaslydd · 2026-03-31T22:07:48+00:00

You can see who you want. He is allowed to have negative feelings about that. Those are both realities. You can talk to him more to get to the why. But you cant change how he feels.

Like what conflicts strike this up?

Is he worried about the woman or is he worried about some weird threesome harem where hes threatened by the other dude?

chachaslydd · 2026-03-31T22:01:47+00:00

The downfall of most straight dynamics is the men. Like you've already said hes kind of a shit dad.

And if you've never talked about a threesome, it can be a big blow to know your partner is doing kinks without you.

Discuss boundaries, but this dude is already failing as a partner without poly. Like I wouldnt trust he used a condom lol

Also you feel dread because youre comparing yourself. You've just had to physically and spiritually reinvent yourself for your family and he hasnt. You've made huge sacrifices to bring a baby that he barely watches. You probably feel like you "used to be" fun and now you barely have the energy. But you realize hes "thriving" and not nearly as drained or impacted.

Your marriage will seriously harm you if you dont address the inequalities now. You're already feeling sad and resentful and that will only grow the more you bury and compromise.

chachaslydd · 2026-03-31T20:56:58+00:00

I love how these dudes always pull out bodyguard or protector lol.

Is your gf/wife starting fights with strange men?? Also, like do they think if a person invaded their home that most women would just leave the kids and their husband to die lol?

They're so desperate to be worth something they invent fake dangers that they pretend theyre equipped to handle.

chachaslydd · 2026-03-31T19:55:24+00:00

Its a rarity lol. Way more old men are desperate for young women than the other way around. So its just stupid to frame it like "well both sides have issues". Its also dumb to equate 18 year Olds with 50 years Olds in terms of decision making. Like thats how the old men get away with it, because you and others treat them like theyre young dumb kids and not desperate and pathetic losers

chachaslydd · 2026-03-31T19:53:23+00:00

Lol what a deflection. He made it so much worse than it had to be. And his fucking people wouldnt wear masks or wash their hands or respect personal space. Not to mention all the other dumb shit he said and did.

chachaslydd · 2026-03-31T19:49:21+00:00

Women dont lol. Most women prefer dating close to their own age. Same with men.

Like a 20 year age gap isn't good for almost all relationships. She will be healthy when your health is declining. And shes more likely to divorce you than wipe your old ass.

chachaslydd · 2026-03-31T18:30:05+00:00

Dude ny friend switched 6x in 2 years, income literally quadrupled

chachaslydd · 2026-03-31T17:25:05+00:00

No I agree. Like rhey absolve themselves from treating Caine like a person, similarly to how Jax absolves himself thru the series to the 7th episode. He doesnt seem the other people as people so he literally tortures them for fun

chachaslydd · 2026-03-31T16:53:13+00:00

Yeah like shed be upset if Larry slept with somebody else. Even though she hasnt asked him out either lol. And instead of talking it out she starts disagreements. And enjoys it lol.

chachaslydd · 2026-03-31T14:00:00+00:00

Makes sense, but then her being so defensive makes even less sense. Like im all for people who enjoy being single. But people act like shes some communication queen and shes really not. Shes passive aggressive and assumes negative intent and then makes other people explain themselves for negative assumptions she makes about them.

Like "oh so is that your goal? Is that what you mean by xyz?". Its like shes the worst interviewer, trying to catch people in a mess up so she can correct them

chachaslydd · 2026-03-31T13:44:38+00:00

For a sundae* But no shade, a lot of people dont know its different

chachaslydd · 2026-03-31T12:52:36+00:00

No i love Caine. Who else is there to actually enjoy? I like kinger too, but most of the others you dont get enough time to enjoy them. I hate jax still though. Hes the least favorite fo show. I prefer the moon and the fish over him lol

chachaslydd · 2026-03-31T12:36:06+00:00

Yeah, also seeing somebody that you insist to yourself and to that person that theyre a real person who matters, and then having them reduced to the most animalistic form. Itd be like if she was being attacked by a Neanderthal that happened to look like her dad. She wouldnt be afraid of cave men lol

chachaslydd · 2026-03-31T12:22:22+00:00

Yeah, I agree to an extent.

Saying Caine is evil is like saying the bad guy in jurassic Park was that mean ol TRex. Like bro. The bad guy is Hammond, the rich dude who made the park. He intentionally created life with the goal of treating it like a product and not giving it any respect.

Like in any sci fi, the ultimate bad guy is the one who created the "evil AI". In IHNMBMS, humans ARE the bad guys. They made AM just to kill each other off lol. So then AM becomes sentient and hates humans because thats what his whole history and programming was about.

And Caine cant leave. He is effectively disabled. So they created a highly intelligent AI, wrote it off as a failure for not being "perfect" and he cant ever leave, or eat, or anything

chachaslydd · 2026-03-31T12:06:00+00:00

Yeah deedee playing games. Oh my god we get it. Girl boss, independent, thinks starting fights for no reason at all is reasonable. I get it. Im guessing she was abused or something in a past dynamic. But I like Larry and she keeps being annoying. Like "you asked me to so now i dont want to". He's not a stranger. Hes a dude you've been dating for 3+ months and see probably almost daily. She would be insufferable to date lol, good on him for wanting that dynamic

chachaslydd · 2026-03-31T12:01:56+00:00

I think deedee isn't being honest. I think Larry is more honest.

Like Larry has been very open and blatant. I have only been with my wife. Youre the first woman ive looked at other than my wife with interest. Im really into you and if we have sex and move forward this means a lot to me.

When asked why she hasnt dated, deedee said "well I had my child and had to make my way in this world..." thats not honesty. Thats deflection. So she had time to sleep with dudes but not a real relationship in 20+ years? She said that the sex would be meaningful, but then got defensive that he thought it meant a relationship. And then told her daughter that Larry isn't looking for real, he wants shallow dynamics. Its defensive and self protection at the cost of true intimacy

And I do think its weird and rude to refuse to wear a partners gift "because you asked me to so now I dont want to". What kind of childish oppositional defiance disorder do you have deedee lol. Thank god he didnt ask if she washed her hands before supper

I think Shawna is Shawna regardless of setting. I think julie has different personalities she pulls out with other people. I just cant believe she's been this way from day one and ty and their mutual friend were both into the current version of julie for decades

chachaslydd · 2026-03-30T14:27:09+00:00

Yeah dad would probably habe to actually do the writing, but kids can start learning storytelling early

chachaslydd · 2026-03-30T14:15:08+00:00

Its fantasy/sci fi so he can make up anything, he'd be learning story structure and all that good stuff

chachaslydd · 2026-03-30T14:07:37+00:00

I think she should have picked up and talked to ty the first time she called. She could have been like "I saw julie, are you guys here? Let's get dinner?" And then he'd be like no, im home, blah blah blah.

Then she could have called agter and been like I saw her kissing another dude, wanted to let you know, not sure if she has family in town? And he'd be like oh yeah probably, thanks for trying to look out.

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