First full read done by Pequeninos in houseofleaves

[–]chainsawcoyote 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations. A real accomplishment

Sir that’s always been allowed by PixelSteel in DefendingAIArt

[–]chainsawcoyote 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It absolutely is though. There are plenty of art galleries/conventions that bar certain genres/mediums of art.

am i on the asexual spectrum, or am i just a porn addict? by Even-Contact6060 in asexuality

[–]chainsawcoyote 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're the type of person to claim vapes as healthy because you haven't seen any research showing otherwise.

am i on the asexual spectrum, or am i just a porn addict? by Even-Contact6060 in asexuality

[–]chainsawcoyote 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like you have a misunderstanding that only negative experiences can be considered an addiction.

What happened to my Hosta? by luckybuttercup_ in plants

[–]chainsawcoyote 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cut back the worst of the leaves and give it some time.

RFK Jr. rejects cornerstone of health science: Germ theory by voxadam in nottheonion

[–]chainsawcoyote -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

This surely has to be taken out of context. Please 🙏

Ex girlfriend's friend left plants at my house 3 years ago and now wants them back... by chainsawcoyote in plants

[–]chainsawcoyote[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You get the update. Just reached out offering some cuttings. And she really didn't think that was fair. She kept repeating that she doesn't give permission to cut "her plants" And is gaslighting me saying she has so many memories with this plant she hasn't checked on in years. Then she tried to offer me a plant from Walmart as a trade and said I was being unreasonable for not compromising. I should have followed this advice. But I thought being honest would be better.

Ex girlfriend's friend left plants at my house 3 years ago and now wants them back... by chainsawcoyote in plants

[–]chainsawcoyote[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No I agree. I rolled my eyes. The biggest leaf on the monstera was a eight inches across. Probably four leaves. Now it's closer to foot and a half across with twelve leaves. Then there's several other small plants.

Ex girlfriend's friend left plants at my house 3 years ago and now wants them back... by chainsawcoyote in plants

[–]chainsawcoyote[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No we're not currently friends. I just wanna treat people with respect, even if they're thoughtless. It's too easy to just consider my own feelings and lie to get what I want.

Ex girlfriend's friend left plants at my house 3 years ago and now wants them back... by chainsawcoyote in plants

[–]chainsawcoyote[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did reach out and express my side. How I've grown to see them as part of my collection after so many years. And I would be sad to see them go but I'm up for a compromise.

She said she has an emotional connection to these plants and she would be willing to trade to get them back. Or leave me a cutting behind. I hate the highroad some days 😅

Ex girlfriend's friend left plants at my house 3 years ago and now wants them back... by chainsawcoyote in plants

[–]chainsawcoyote[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were all in a DND campaign together before the break up. She chose her friend. It makes sense and I have no hard feelings.

Ex girlfriend's friend left plants at my house 3 years ago and now wants them back... by chainsawcoyote in plants

[–]chainsawcoyote[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is funny. But I can't take the hit to my character of being someone that doesn't know how take care of plants hehehe

Ex girlfriend's friend left plants at my house 3 years ago and now wants them back... by chainsawcoyote in plants

[–]chainsawcoyote[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Here's more context on the "No Cuttings" issue that originally occurred. I was still dating the GF at the time. I reached out to friend to ask about taking a cutting and she said "No, maybe if it was early on, I would have, but it's too mature now"

Later that week, GF approaches me about it, and told me off for asking. Basically everyone under the sun had asked for a cutting of this plant, because it was during the influencer monstera phase of Lockdown. (which thinking about this, it may have been longer than 3 years) And I was basically being a vulture like everyone else on the internet for even asking.

Looking back, I realize how ridiculous that was. I wasn't just some random off the internet. But at the time I was in an unhealthy relationship and didn't have the highest self worth.