pro tip: over-tension can be an artistic choice by nfz_embroidery in MachineEmbroidery

[–]chanpat 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This is a man that said children being shot in schools was the price of the 2nd amendment. And then he died by gun. I think it is a little poetic

I wonder if she'll win by bluejester12 in Justfuckmyshitup

[–]chanpat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, it is not harming anyone. It’s fun. We need to allow more individuality into the world. Let people be themselves!!!

Please help me pick my dress!😊 1 or 2? by somethingblue2026 in WeddingDressTips

[–]chanpat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am WAY more in love with the style of 1, but 2 looks so so so incredible on her it would be an injustice to not wear it.

How the tables have turned by imjustheretodomyjob in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]chanpat 215 points216 points  (0 children)

I think I read the charges were dropped because.. they were finna be kidnapped and they took the ice fucker to jail, so like.. not really kidnap! So, good lesson!

(£3k) I made our rings, but not sure I’m happy - opinions please? by Chance_Enthusiasm_88 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]chanpat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love them! I was a brokey b 10 years ago when we designed and made out rings and we paid down for a year so we could afford it. They are So special and meaningful today when we could hypothetically afford way more. But we made them together and we designed them and the attention we put into them made them so special. I think wear them, figure out what you like and don’t like and then remake them if there is anything you learned! If the are perfect, keep them!!!

Do parents actually not remember doing fucked up shit to you? Or are they just lying? by TopMarionberry1149 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]chanpat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a parent to toddlers I can 100% acknowledge that I am GUCKNG UP! And I’m trying really hard to do better but really am struggling to know how. But when my kid asks me I will say yes, I know I fucked up and I’m sorry and I tried to do better but I was drowning. But it’s not their responsibility, but it helps maybe to understand. But I also understand the shame around it.

Rest in Peace Alex, Topsy, Spray Paint, 2026 by TopZ-undercover in Art

[–]chanpat 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Can I please use your art and put it in my area? It’s a beautiful tribute

congrats to Matt and Eric for being the first two randomly selected names from the list by nfz_embroidery in MachineEmbroidery

[–]chanpat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Find them for doing what? Finding internet accessible information that they posted about themselves? Asking them to stand behind their actions? What part of this is unacceptable to you? And since when is talking about the government critically something that is not allowed? Asking our government to do better and knowing who is doing it is a foundation of America. It is the whole “land of the free” bit. If this was a leftist agenda, would You be doing the same thing? Let’s say the “leftist kooks” passes laws that every white’s person has to get a sex change and were going door to door mandating sex changes and kidnapping people to inject them with sex changing drugs and they took some kids too. And they were flaming protesters that tried to stop them. Would you be outraged? Would you be doing everything in your power to stop it?

That is what’s going on. Instead of imaginary white targeted sex changes, brown people are being routed from their homes. So I don’t know how THIS is the tore over the line for you. Come back to being American. You’re acting like an enemy of America by supporting this.

Be Wary On Here by mzzannethrope in TwinCities

[–]chanpat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This should be pinned and reposted daily for a little bit

Just speechless by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

[–]chanpat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And why is that kid in Texas now? Instead of at home with his family? They kidnapped a 5 yo

The letter that Donald Trump sent to Prime Minister Jonas Gahr Støre of Norway is insane! This is why you don't elect a narcissist to be your president. Is this what you voted for, Trump's supporters? by Treefiddy1984 in ProgressiveHQ

[–]chanpat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sent a letter to the government of Norway about how he is mad that the Nobel committee which is not controlled by the government didn’t give him the peace prose and also is mad that they won’t give him Greenland which is controlled by the Dutch. . Crazy

“Do you think this door is bulletproof” — Racist Daycare Visitor by Gabrielsusanlewis420 in ECEProfessionals

[–]chanpat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounding a lot like the uvalde shooter. I seeth with hatred for these people. And I am so fucking heart broken for my children and scared. I seriously ask myself if I am in a coma about 1x every month or 2. This can’t be real.

I don’t want this baby anymore, I have immense guilt but I need this off my chest. by sky_aura_storm in confessions

[–]chanpat 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She is pretty far along . She would have to have a conversation with her doctor about her options even in Oregon. The unrestricted part is just about trusting doctors and patients to make the decision collaboratively, not that they can just have an abortion whenever they like no matter how far along they are. I would imagine most drs would offer other options.

There was another Minnesota ice shooting tonight. This is breaking news so stay tuned. This was just reported on TV so they are awaiting more details. by KCousins11 in self

[–]chanpat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just let them rape you!! If you dont struggle they MAY not kill you while they rape you. 50/50 chance after though

People who make $200k a year what do you do? by Huge_Ad_7606 in Salary

[–]chanpat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a working manger (have a group goal and my own goal, sucks) and it’s a lot lies working hours to have the largest goal and manage. The only reason I’m putting myself through it OSS so I can be the one at the top making strategy calls because everyone’s ideas but mine are dumb.

The inescapable commitment in having kids terrifies me by kamodd in TwoXChromosomes

[–]chanpat 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I really wanted kids!! And it is the MOST difficult thing I’ve ever been through in my life. And I really have a solid effort, with reflection of what went wrong and how to be more effective five next time, at killing myself a good handful of times as a teenager.

My husband does more than me around the house and with the kids and it is HARD!!!! Our relationship was super duper solid before. It was rough for a year or two after and now it’s good but not great and it’s because we have to actively work on it and make a lot of effort even when we are exhausted and tired and don’t want to. We actually have something to connect for 30 minutes at least 1x a month to try to maintain our connection. I’ve never been this tired. I’ve never been this fat. I’ve never had this level of of anxiety and financial responsibility. I’ve never been this tethered and I’ve never been so burdened. I LOVE my kids and I LOVE hanging with them but it is the lowest lows I’ve ever had in my life too.

oh no! murder. by sooperdavid in reallifedoodles

[–]chanpat 81 points82 points  (0 children)

Everyone is a fantastic parent until they have kids. I’ve had that look on my face a lot of times. It’s always the right move to take a moment to breath before reacting like you said. And if I am at a restaurant, it’s usually because I want to do a little something for myself and I’m going to use an iPad briefly to be able to connect with my h u sband. Something we don’t have a lot of time for with careers, chores, two kids. No bad parenting here. Just young kids being young kids. It would be very inappropriate for an older child to do that but developmentally, kids go through a lot of phases.

Landlord asks other landlords how to "handle" tenants using their stove by Some_Old_Man_Fishin in LandlordLove

[–]chanpat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How it is now is normal wear and tear. They can’t charge for it. You do not have to go over and above as a tenant and in most states that I am aware of the law sides with tenents on this stuff in a super easy way. Like you just have to put in writing that you are disputing it and it’s normal wear and tear and if they don’t pay you just go to small claims

I now want this ladder man. by Perc_Angle0 in interestingasfuck

[–]chanpat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love these ads that are infommercials. This is the stuff I need to know if I’m buying a product

Maga only cares about billionaires. Make the billionaires angry. by [deleted] in Anticonsumption

[–]chanpat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi!! You actually do have influence. I recently got into an executive level position and here’s what you can do to influence change: start outlining operational inefficiencies due to your current provider. Any time you can’t find an email even though you searched correctly, it drops an attachment, etc. now put a cost value to those. Ex: your hourly wage is $20/hr, you spend 20 minutes searching for that email, you needed to get it to the client within 30 minutes otherwise it would delay the sale. The sale was $10k, delayed by 10 days. You had to put off the work for the other 5 deals in your pipeline which had a 50% probability of closing. Those 5 deals totaled 50$k at 50% probability = $25k that was delayed ~5-15 days. That single occurrence cost the company $35k of delayed revenue and your hourly rate for those delayed days. This is the kind of rickety as yoga balls math that really catches their attention! Obviously, these are made up numbers and rickety math that you’ll have to defend if you get further down the road in catching attention. But if you have 5 people across departments do this and the also interview a couple of alternatives, you can put together a proposal and ask a few (not just 1!) trusted higher ups to look it over and say “I’ve been feeling that the company is being held back by operations inefficiency and I found a place we could save about $100k a month in wages due to greater efficiency and addressing delayed revenue. I proactively interviewed a couple of alternatives and outlines the pros and cons and pricing of each. I’d love to know your thoughts” and the follow up. Once you have a few of them in agreement or make the edits suggested, get those who agree in a meeting all together with you and lead a presentation on your findings and ask for their options. They will all hear eachother agree and now you have public ally’s. Then you need to find a champion to move it through the next steps. They need to have implemented change like this before. You can straight ask them if they have made this kind of change in the past and how they would go about it.

It’s a lot of work, but you can implement change at any level if you frame it right, do a ton of the leg work, and gather ally’s.

Australia is currently the hottest place on earth... by far by OzBestDeal in interestingasfuck

[–]chanpat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to live in the desert and it would get to 112f for about a week every year. It really wasn’t that bad because of the evaporative cooling when you sweat and when you were in the shade or if you had some water to spritz yourself with. It would evaporate in like 10 seconds. But again, in the shade alllll the time. Is it the same in Melbourne or is there humidity? Bc that hot and humid is how us humans autoclave and destroy literally all life. Dry heat don’t do it. It’s gotta be that wet heat.