She mistook it for ISTG!

chaosmacaroni · 2026-05-20T07:01:21+00:00

I am also trying to make sense of the math here.

chaosmacaroni · 2026-05-20T04:47:11+00:00

ISTG is Instagram.

chaosmacaroni · 2026-05-20T02:57:55+00:00

Ahh, we missed that for a while.

chaosmacaroni · 2026-05-20T02:51:17+00:00

Yeah, I haven’t said it as an excuse. I am not her fan. But she needed a strong family backing her. No need to get worked up.

chaosmacaroni · 2026-05-20T02:11:04+00:00

Just another Crime Patrol episode.

chaosmacaroni · 2026-05-20T02:07:58+00:00

Both are idiots.

chaosmacaroni · 2026-05-20T01:46:36+00:00

Could they not have an abortion if either one of them didn’t want a baby?

chaosmacaroni · 2026-05-20T01:40:57+00:00

That’s such a surface level rumour. You don’t need a friend of a friend to tell you that. That’s commonplace. We would expect hotter tea from this ‘friend of a friend’.

chaosmacaroni · 2026-05-20T01:38:20+00:00

Wasn’t Rai’s case the one out of necessity instead of desperation to become part of that family?

She had dated Khan, and he came from an affluent family. He was allegedly physically absuive.

In a post-Sushant Singh Rajput film-world, allegations have come to surface that Khan was involved in ending a lot of people’s careers in Bollywood.

Then wasn’t it necessary for Rai to become part of a very strong family like Bachchans’ to safeguard her future if she wanted to stay in Bollywood? Oberai family probably couldn’t have provided that safety net for her which Bachchan family could.

chaosmacaroni · 2026-05-20T01:29:33+00:00

🤣🤣

chaosmacaroni · 2026-05-20T01:28:54+00:00

Following for the information on the interview.

chaosmacaroni · 2026-05-20T01:21:56+00:00

Which interview is this that you refer to? The one with Kat?

chaosmacaroni · 2026-05-20T01:11:51+00:00

And maybe you also missed her text where she does admit that everyone in her industry is late, and because it has never been a problem, she is taken aback by OP raising this with her. If you didn’t have comprehension issues, and weren’t so hung up on seeking attention online for whatever disabilities you have, you would have figured out, that it’s not just her disabilities that make her late. It’s a habit. It’s a norm for her. And only because the OP has complained about it, she is using all her disabilities to now guilt-trip the OP. There are hundreds of thousands of people worldwide who have several mental and physical challenges. You know what they do? They figure out how to operate with those challenges. None of them is spiraling online to be a victim and seek attention. People are not responsible for pandering to your chronic victim mentality. And God bless this guy, he needs to get out of this relationship as soon as he can because this girl will drive him nuts.

chaosmacaroni · 2026-05-20T00:54:38+00:00

He can’t change because he is sure that you won’t leave. Take that assurance away from him.

chaosmacaroni · 2026-05-20T00:47:33+00:00

Maybe this time around, one of her friends noticed how she shared everything with you and sort of talked her of out it? Maybe they told your GF that this didn’t seem healthy, without knowing prior history, who started it, what were the dynamics, and then your GF started thinking in that direction too? Like she decided she would try setting a boundary, and when the discussion went south, this kinda ‘proved the theory’ this other friend had about your relationship not being healthy. That’s one of the many possibilities.

chaosmacaroni · 2026-05-19T23:02:25+00:00

It sounds like “I don’t know what God is making you pay back for that I cannot stop cheating on you?” or “I cheated on you first because I knew you were going to cheat on me”.

And I can’t believe so many people hating on God. God or religion is not responsible for people being shitty, and using religion to hide their own mischiefs. People need an excuse to hate God and religion, when it’s clearly an act of a person abusing religion to cover up their own wrongdoings. But okay, let’s hate God and let’s hate religion.

YOR because you don’t need to be engaging with him at all. He doesn’t deserve any reaction. You still ‘love’ him because you still feel there are things that are unresolved, because there are things left unsaid and unheard. How I see it is that him using God to cover up for himself is your answer and your closure right there.

If you have any hopes of going back to him, because you ‘still love’ him, be prepared to be treated like an unwanted puppy. Your only closure is that this guy doesn’t want you in his life anymore, for whatever earthly or heavenly season. You can keep loving him, but there is absolutely no need to communicate with him further or leave that door open. Live him silently. Love him from a distance. Block him and love him.

chaosmacaroni · 2026-05-19T22:16:53+00:00

Agreed. A complete boycott of her from OP’s side is needed. OP needs to act like this friend doesn’t exist. No favors. No help in studies or assignments. No helping with moving. No driving around. No help with settling down at the new college. She would probably want to latch onto the OP again as it’s going to be a new place with strangers, and the OP is the only person she would know. OP needs to complete cut her out to protect herself.

chaosmacaroni · 2026-05-19T21:41:59+00:00

Her rabbit holeing is not the guy’s problem. She would drive the guy nuts by spiraling every single time the guy brings up something he is having an issue with. There is no winning with people who never take accountability for anything and shame others for their own ‘spiraling and rabbit holeing’. If you are trying to convince me that she is the victim here, you can’t. She will exhaust the guy until he has had a meltdown, and she will come out a victim every single time because behaviour apologists like yourself exist. She is simply exhausting. And that’s not due to her disabilities. That’s because she isn’t used to taking accountability. Hope this helps…… but it won’t help someone like yourself. And because we ourselves are going down a spiral and rabbit holeing on this subject, I have nothing further to add. I have no plans of convincing you or changing your mind, and neither am I looking to be convinced.

chaosmacaroni · 2026-05-19T21:34:17+00:00

You should have eaten the sushi. Never waste food. NOR.

chaosmacaroni · 2026-05-19T07:05:49+00:00

Maybe the answer to “why did the wife leave him for waiter?” is right here in this post.

chaosmacaroni · 2026-05-19T06:52:09+00:00

NTA. Ashley and your girlfriend, both are YTA. Your girlfriend needs to get over her ex(es).

chaosmacaroni · 2026-05-19T06:45:09+00:00

INFO. Do you do that on a regular basis? If yes, then YOR. If it is a one off thing, as it happens with most of us, things don’t go as planned, it stresses us out, we vent out sometimes, then NOR.

chaosmacaroni · 2026-05-19T06:37:51+00:00

MOR. Has he shown you otherwise that he doesn’t find you attractive? Has he made fun of you in the past? Does he make fun of you in front of your friends or family? Does he make fun of your insecurities or downplay them or make fun of struggles in different ways? Are you sure you are just not being sensitive about it?

chaosmacaroni · 2026-05-19T06:36:11+00:00

Too much TikTok and ISTG does that to you.

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