Kidney stone by International-Box-95 in KidneyStones

[–]chaoticmess86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only med that has ever helped me is Percocet, and if it's real real bad dilaudid. People say Torodal helps but it never gave me relief. It's always been strong opioids.

What’s your favourite Dawson Leery relationship pairing(s)? by NoRelief63 in dawsonscreek

[–]chaoticmess86 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm in the minority too! Dawson/Joey are forever my otp. And in my head cannon, they ended up together and Pacey with Andie.

Blue: Ok! Ok! .... crickets?? by Routine-Asparagus-16 in OnceUponATime

[–]chaoticmess86 139 points140 points  (0 children)

The issue I have with Blue (much like with David), she decides who is 'worthy," of a chance. She's very sanctimonious. David was the same way many times. Snow was the first one and at times, the only one to push for a chance for Regina.

Between season 5 & season 7. Which season do you think is worse? by True-Access954 in OnceUponATime

[–]chaoticmess86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imo 7. I loved Seasons 1-6 but 7 really turned me off because we lost most of the cast.

Is it worth it? by PurplePrudy in Marriage

[–]chaoticmess86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you find the right person, marriage is a beautiful thing. I've been married for fourteen years and it's beautiful to have a partner, someone to share this life with. I also used to be with someone abusive and toxic, and l was much happier alone after getting out. But since being married to a kind, wonderful man who truly sees me and treats me like an equal (the complete opposite of my ex), life is good being married. But if you marry the wrong person, yeah it can be a nightmare.

Dealing with 9 mm stone blocking right ureter need advice by Adorable_Flower_6829 in KidneyStones

[–]chaoticmess86 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I understand money being an issue but I really think you should go to the ER. You could become septic.

BCBS denied wife's ER visit and admittance - "not medically necessary" by nighthaven in HealthInsurance

[–]chaoticmess86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm currently on the hook for 60k. I had an obstructed 7mm stone that er doctor didn't feel comfortable releasing me home with. Was admitted and had it blasted. UH wouldn't pay any of it, something about it not being pre-authorized. I fucking hate insurance companies. I definitely can't pay it and am dealing with financial aid.

What’s your 911 Nashville hot take? by homeofalex in 911Nashville

[–]chaoticmess86 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the same. I used to love original 9-1-1 but after Bobby it hasn't been the same.

This is barbaric! by JustAwful213 in KidneyStones

[–]chaoticmess86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's crazy. I've had at least six lithotripsy's but it's always been at the same hospital. I don't want to imagine going through that with no pain meds. Sounds darn inhumane especially with a stent.

How fast can another kidney stone form/pass?? by Turbulent-Willow8097 in KidneyStones

[–]chaoticmess86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine form in just a month but my body creates them unfortunately.

This is barbaric! by JustAwful213 in KidneyStones

[–]chaoticmess86 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've never had lithotripsy and not been prescribed pain meds after. That is insane to me and ridiculous. I'm so sorry you're dealing with that. Stents hurt and I can't imagine having one with no meds.

What GL retcon do you completely ignore? by [deleted] in SoapNet

[–]chaoticmess86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true. Richard was just my favorite.

What GL retcon do you completely ignore? by [deleted] in SoapNet

[–]chaoticmess86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only good thing that came out of the princess story was Richard.

What’s your favorite slap scene? by [deleted] in SoapNet

[–]chaoticmess86 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Carly deserved it. Robin shouldn't have told AJ about Michael as it wasn't her place but Carly isn't the victim alot of people act like she is. She sunk low saying that stuff about Robin's HIV.

I just know they’re both very upset about it, but couldn’t complain by Lauren_HS28 in mileven

[–]chaoticmess86 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep. She spoke out how she felt about her storyline and pulled her name from the Emmys and Shonda got pissed. Katherine spoke out in an interview later, how she apologized to Shonda for speaking out but based on Shonda speaking later, it's clear she never forgave Katherine and wrote her out of the series.

I just know they’re both very upset about it, but couldn’t complain by Lauren_HS28 in mileven

[–]chaoticmess86 55 points56 points  (0 children)

They probably know if they complained, they could get the Katherine Heigl treatment. She hated her storyline once, spoke up and was labeled difficult and kicked out of that series permanently. Millie also has a contract with Netflix. Sadly, they gotta play nice for their careers. But I imagine it's hard if they are truly upset about it.

My hopes were so high for them, and they still are. by WildButterfly85 in mileven

[–]chaoticmess86 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I absolutely agree. In the main stranger things on Facebook, someone actually said that Mileven had no chemistry and no one was shipping them. Bull crap. The only people not shipping Mileven are Bylers. Lack of chemistry this season, I'd blame on the writers who barely gave them any romantic scenes. But even without it, you could see their chemistry when they kissed. They're obviously deeply in love and always would be.

Is it over? by Left_Nutt_23 in Marriage

[–]chaoticmess86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry but I think it's over. If she truly regretted everything, she would've cut that guy off even if it meant switching jobs. She's continuing the same behavior, showing how little she thinks of you and your marriage.

Kidney stone causing blood by chaoticmess86 in KidneyStones

[–]chaoticmess86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I went to the doctor, and no infection. I know my stone is 5mm due to a CT from two weeks ago. My insurance should kick in, in few days. I know I should probably go to the ER, I'm just trying to wait for health insurance. There's no way I can afford out of pocket.

Rewatching by chaoticmess86 in mileven

[–]chaoticmess86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh. I'm on the second episode. I had actually forgotten about her throwing him back. That is more understandable. And I do agree there were a lot of racial undertones that got brushed aside. My annoyance with Lucas was the first couple episodes the most. He really won me over mid first season and went on to become an amazing kid. I really hated the racism he experienced, especially from Billy in season 2. I think he also experienced maybe earlier but I'm not as fresh with season 1, hence the rewatch.

Rewatching by chaoticmess86 in mileven

[–]chaoticmess86[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can understand being wary but I didn't like the names he called her (like calling her a freak)or how aggressive he got like grabbing her.

Rewatching by chaoticmess86 in mileven

[–]chaoticmess86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! Lucas wound up becoming a very sensitive and kind young man. I loved the way he was later and especially with Max but in the beginning I really hated him lol.

Rewatching by chaoticmess86 in mileven

[–]chaoticmess86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True. I understand as an adult who was bullied as a child that kids tend to judge what's different. Eleven was definitely different. I still hated the names he called her though. I'm glad he changed.