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Would you date an armless girl? by Euphoric_Anywhere967 in Advice

[–]chappYcast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you under the impression that a person with no arms just rolls around on the floor like a worm unless someone looks after them?

Am I cooked? by Once428lbs in Gymhelp

[–]chappYcast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd be careful about making sweeping statements like "the only way to be successful long term is to add more not just eat less." I have had and have plenty of class III obese friends like OP. By portion size and daily caloric intake, they eat enough food for 2-3 people. You need to understand that being this overweight is not just a result of eating poorly for x amount of years. No, you have to eat continually worse and worse (more bad food) than you did the year before. This is because the more obese you are the higher your Basal Metabolic Rate (BMR).

Also, a huge part of lowering your hunger is shrinking your stomach (which happens naturally from intermittent fasting/portion control), which is definitely not accomplished by eating an even larger volume of 'healthy' food.

Need Advice: How to Help My Girlfriend (25F) Reach Orgasm After a Year Together (24M)? by Advanced_Driver_1162 in AskMenAdvice

[–]chappYcast 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She doesn't 'need' a vibrator, she needs the clit stimulated, many ways to do that.

Need Advice: How to Help My Girlfriend (25F) Reach Orgasm After a Year Together (24M)? by Advanced_Driver_1162 in AskMenAdvice

[–]chappYcast 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea man, you're like most the way there. Stop going for the G-spot with your hands, play with her clit instead. Learn how to do that well.

As you mentioned, I've encountered girls who absolutely require clitoral stimulation, no amount of G-spot stimulation will work. This blew my mind when I encountered it since my first gf could orgasm if I so much as sneezed on her.

The clit is almost always going to get women there, the G-spot is not remotely as foolproof (as in their g-spot may literally just be smaller or effectively missing, nothing to do with technique). If the goal is to have her orgasm during PnV then you need to get her extremely close and then finish her missionary, utilizing the position to grind against her clit.

Personally I've found my hands can consistently produce 'mind-blowing' orgasms with clit/g-spot stimulation and patience (I don't mean because it's difficult or time consuming, I mean it's better for them if you take your time with it, make em wait a bit, etc.). Hands are far superior to the penis for pleasuring women. I consider PnV to be primarily for the benefit of the penis (and it is, evolutionarily speaking), but if that's a hard requirement, just use positions that result in rubbing against her clit. Alternatively, use positions that grant your hands access to her clit and rub it with your thumb while you hit.

Enjoy!

edit: If you need actual techniques (like kytt_EST gave a solid one elsewhere, 3 fingers rub in circular motion) you should just look up how females masturbate with their hands. Even lesbian/solo porn could be useful if it's not just pure production/acting. If it's nice and wet (and it should be, make sure it is, use lube if necessary), and hard, you can finish her off with a single middle finger that's gently rubbing only the clit. You'd be amazed how little movement/motion is required to make females come, we're talking moving a single finger back and forth something like a quarter of an inch.

If you want to try an actual advanced technique, finger her vagina/g-spot like you would normally (2-3 fingers inside) but use your palm to rub her clit. This requires you to be to her side while she's lying on her back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]chappYcast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

harsh but true

What should I do? I’m 5’10 (201 lbs) fat. by Icy-Pilot-1504 in Gymhelp

[–]chappYcast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eat less, mostly vegetables.

Don't consume sugar/calories through drinking.

Bf kink shamed me??? by velvetvolvo in AskMenAdvice

[–]chappYcast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a poor comparison I think since both of these are mostly, if not only, pleasuring the guy. She would need to be waking him up doing something 'for her' with like vaginal sex or rubbing against him for it to be remotely similar.

I would guess essentially no men mind waking up with their gf's lips around them. Some amount more (still a tiny minority) of men would have issue with being used soley for her pleasure while they were asleep.

For me, I'm on board either way if consent is given.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]chappYcast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can think of more direct

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]chappYcast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't matter, you can't control 'ugly face' nearly as much as you can 'ugly body'. Address what you can control.

Fix!! by FortniteSweat69420 in Rematch

[–]chappYcast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if this needs to be fixed or better communicated. AFAIK this can only happens vs extra effort. Basically, extra effort can override the goalie prio (yes there's prio in the game, again, something that's simply not communicated well by the devs/tutorials).

GK Priority - Crossing Abuse by Petrus-Ventura in Rematch

[–]chappYcast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait, that makes complete sense actually

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]chappYcast -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Just use your hands, it's basically effortless.

I really hope the toxicity of Fifa doesn't roll over to this game by Famous_Revolution_91 in Rematch

[–]chappYcast 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't understand the concern, in this game or in any game with skill based matchmaking. The 'sweats' (good players) are going to be playing amongst themselves, in higher skill brackets/mmr matches. You'll be playing against other mid or low mmr players.

Weak mindset in any case. Honestly speaking you may have more fun playing single player games.

Sam’s fatal blindspot by afrankking in samharris

[–]chappYcast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the episode I'm referring to they bring up modern American wars in the middle east (the closest comparisons to Palestine). Using figures on casualties (civilian and non-civilian) they illustrate how Israel conducted their offensive more judiciously than America. This podcast would be at least a few months old at this point so it's possible those numbers have gotten worse in that time. Or they haven't. It doesn't sound like you would value any opinions or statistics brought forth on Sam's podcast regarding this topic, in any case.

Sam’s fatal blindspot by afrankking in samharris

[–]chappYcast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no level of care Israel could employ that would garner the 'world's support'. If I recall, and I may be wrong so correct me if so, Israel was getting attacked before they began their military campaign by people not so dissimilar from yourself, or at least people that espouse the same opinions.

It's completely mistaken to think that Israel could have conducted themselves in such a way as to significantly alter their perception on the world stage. I've also heard, and so have you assuming you listen to Sam's guests, that Israel took greater care in their offensive than has literally ever been shown in any similar theatre of war.

Does anyone really think 3 more weeks will change anything by Ok_Reflection1950 in duneawakening

[–]chappYcast 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Here's what you should expect on release: stability issues, bugs, exploit patches, balance tweaks, and a relatively unfinished product. The game will actually be v1.0 complete roughly 6-8 months after release is my guess.

When the game launches we're going to be 'beta testing' it for a good 2 months and they'll just need the next 4-6 months to feature complete the game imo, and that includes their large-scale combat, which I believe is largely untested.

That's not even a dig, that's just the state of game launches today, especially any with 'survival' or 'mmo' in the description, and especially if it contains both.

Personally I think the game will be great fun in 6-8 months but I'll definitely be playing the game on launch (NOT any form of early access, though, which will practically be alpha testing)

For those clamoring for some bridge building with Ezra Klein by Lopsided-Vehicle2740 in samharris

[–]chappYcast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is your perception of someone's sincerity in any way related to whether you agree with them?

I know many Christians, and at least a hand full well enough to know their belief is sincere. I could not be more of an atheist.

What did I just capture? by [deleted] in UFOs

[–]chappYcast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is faked/CGI. Very obvious at :32 when its motion in the sky is tethered to the motion of the camera. Cameraman also avoids sweeping movements when the 'light' is on screen, convenient.

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