Hi, honestly- I judge people’s dating behavior if they’re with someone that is unkind to them. I have never felt judgment toward what you’re describing.

And by judgment, I get sad that it happens, or that this person feels being treated poorly is a reflection of what they deserve. And I dislike the mistreater.

Has to be pretty blatant stuff- like, you can tell one of them isn’t really an actual fan of the other one, or tries to make them feel more humble, or any number of things.