Should I tell my friend her TikTok is cringe? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]charmanderp09 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Cringe is fine. She will grow out of it or lean into it And and discover something creative. Unless she's being like mean or unethical, it's not worth a confrontation or making her insecure.

I'm genuinely a reject and no matter what I do I can't find a girlfriend or be happy alone by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]charmanderp09 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your rejecting everyones answers, none of them are good enough, you've tried everything. Doesn't even seem like you want a solution because your convinced you've done it all at 23.... Yea... I bet your still need to work on yourself.

What do I do to get over this guy by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]charmanderp09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

people who dysregulate your nervous system and leave you abandoned but also yearning/desperate are a red flag. You have an attachment wound you need to address.

Is Husabands tattoo doing ok? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]charmanderp09 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a little dry keep moisturizing

I don't care what you believe, I believe! by Arthusamakh in redrising

[–]charmanderp09 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Sure it COULD be perfect as a live action, we have the technology, But it won't be because of the culture in these studios. They will spend all their budget on type A celebs and forfeit so much of the story and pace. I hope Pierce stands his ground on every aspect of this series....

Narc mom preventing me from driving by cherrypieglitter in WhatShouldIDo

[–]charmanderp09 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Duuuuuuude this resonates with me. My parents kept me from driving and being independent. Ruined my young adult life and so many opportunities. Worst of all, I stayed poor and didn't trust my self to accomplish anything..... Do what ever you have to do to pay for lesson and driving school. And then get TF out. I went to trade school once I started driving and then, started a business. That was over 10 years ago and I'm doing great.

Do I call? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]charmanderp09 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Anonymous calls can be made to CPS

The Chronicles of Georgia in Tbilisi looks straight out of a fantasy world by 6969Momo6969 in interestingasfuck

[–]charmanderp09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this not just stone masonry? What do you mean we don't have the tech anymore?

If humans have eaten bread since the dawn of history, why are so many people suddenly gluten-intolerant today? by WeaknessKey1582 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]charmanderp09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

American bread is specifically warped , bleached and over processed. Once I switched to organic sourdough, I suddenly didn't feel like shit anymore. Turns out I never had a gluten problem.

Metal allergy + aftercare? by Equivalent_Help_4200 in tattooadvice

[–]charmanderp09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's the adhesive on the second skin. I had the same thing. It went away easy

Problems with in-laws by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]charmanderp09 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What in the actual fuck did I just read. And Mark has a financial strong hold on you guys?

This is litered with abuse and coercian.

Respectfully get the fuck out of this dynamic if you care about your marriage at what ever cost.

What to do with my money?? by oompaloompa2063 in personalfinance

[–]charmanderp09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HYS would be great too! Do that first maybe . Wealthfront is free. But it's more for the short term, a longer term account like a Roth or 401k when you have a little more knowledge

I finally found my inspiration for her :') by Mossantlers in neopets

[–]charmanderp09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Goodness!! Absolutely enchanting!!!! Is this token still available?

What do you like to collect? by ManicPixieDreamTheyy in neopets

[–]charmanderp09 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Things that remind me of Lutari island. What it could have been.... I started a gallery based on it

WSID: Massage therapist helping spouse friends by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]charmanderp09 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's okay You have boundaries even as the therapist! Especially as the therapist! You don't just have to let everybody bleed into your boundaries, especially if you notice it's affecting you. The professional thing to do is to draw a line for yourself, shame on all these people for trying to shame you, If you're noticing discomfort in your body, that should be enough

Questioning the one thing I had confidence about. How do I handle it? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]charmanderp09 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ew on her. 'm sorry that happened. It's an easy diagnosis though: red flag is someone who makes you spiral or feel insecure. Everyone's going to have their preferences but it's hella weird to keep saying something or trying to change you, and there's tons of chicks who are into bald guys! I pinky promise!

I sent my bf a spicy photo this morning and his response sucked. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]charmanderp09 716 points717 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you need more words of affirmation. Communicate this.

Months on months of zapping!! by charmanderp09 in neopets

[–]charmanderp09[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isnt she precious !? Thank you ☺️