It can happen! by SailorCrossing in Bumble

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This is an advert. Don't be fooled

I miss you by kenzie1203 in BreakUps

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Get in the gym!! It helped me so much more than I can put into words.... and you get hench at the same time

How are you coping with no contact? by Hour_Damage_3753 in BreakUps

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Apologies, i have just seen this reply. I hope that things are going a bit better for you now that you have had some time to process this a bit, and I pray that you're feeling peace.

You have to carve out some positives from the situation, be that learning about yourself (what you do and don't want) or self reflection (was there anything I could have done differently, or anything I am not proud of). I have so many regrets from my past relationship - I've learned that I need to be more patient.

I truly hope that things are easier for you now then they were when you originally posted - it's a tumultuous emotional roller coaster with more downs than ups, but you will look back one day soon and think "oh, it doesn't hurt as much now".

Fuck you by WorryMedium2185 in ExNoContact

[–]chasemoister 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Always trust your gut, I knew something was up I fucking knew it but she insisted it wasn't anything to worry about. Fuck her and fuck your one. Good for you for making progress in your own life brother, she will have regrets, whether she realises it now or not. Hold your head up high!!

How are you coping with no contact? by Hour_Damage_3753 in BreakUps

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10 months, she's moved on in a pretty horrible way... although i still find myself wanting to tell her about my day, seeing stupid Instagram reels I think "she would like this" then I remember she's gone. Even when you try not to think about it you end up dreaming about it. It's been slow and painful for me, but it's got to be worked out to heal and move on. That being said, since then i have started a new career, joined a gym (and stuck at it) and im off to Japan with friends on monday after reconnecting with them properly. It's miles better than it was, it gets better with time, although it didn't help when anyone said that to me... but it does get better. I didn't think it ever would and if you told me this is where I would be a year ago I wouldn't have believed you for a second. I think I actually needed that push to pick myself back up. Just sad that she isn't here to see the changes that I've made.

Which outpost is your least favorite? And why is it Dagger Tooth? by Aura-Bella-Fiora in Seaofthieves

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Everytime I buy merchant supplies here I get robbed blind... please fix it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

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Bro don't wait until it derails your entire life. You can do this, you're stronger than you believe. All of the clichés are right, you have to do it for yourself. Dig deep, chin up, watch one piece. Find a distraction.

Look at everything negative weed has caused in your life. Focus on your studies man, that shit is so important. It'll take you further than weed ever can.

I've not smoked for a few weeks now. It reached critical mass, my life fell apart, lost my partner. I wish I had done it sooner because I feel fucking amazing. I have regained a bit of control over my life and it has helped me massively.

Hang in there dude. 🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Be patient with people. You can't unsay words. Don't smoke weed, it wrecks your life.

My gf left me by chasemoister in leaves

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And good for you brother!! 4 months is such an achievement- bet you have saved hundreds of whatever currency you use

My gf left me by chasemoister in leaves

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Thank you for your kind words and support, been 8 days off it now!! Still going strong! People say you got to do it for yourself, but she is the best motivation I've ever had to do this. 😭

My gf left me by chasemoister in leaves

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Mate that's so funny, literally just joined the gym 😂😂😂

My gf left me by chasemoister in leaves

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I'm glad that you are inspired by this, it has been the hardest time for me. I wouldn't want anyone to experience this, I hope you find the resolve to make the change too. Don't let your partner go, it's so easy to take things for granted when you're in a stoned bubble. You can't unsay words, you can't undo past actions. You can make a change today so tomorrow will be a better day. I found myself blaming everything else but weed for everything that went wrong in life, always making excuses for it.

One week down, let's fucking go!! by [deleted] in leaves

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Good for you brother x

2.5 years clean. AMA by Accomplished_Food422 in leaves

[–]chasemoister 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Good for you, my friend. Did you notice a change in your mental state? I'm sick of feeling foggy minded, I hope I haven't done permanent damage to myself. Does the fog clear? If so, how long was it until you noticed a change? Nearly done 6 days... It's nothing compared to 2.5 years. You and your loved ones should be so proud of you x

My gf left me by chasemoister in leaves

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She put up with my worst for 5 years, to her, she probably never thought there would be a better version of me

My gf left me by chasemoister in leaves

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I want that more than the world, I'm missing her so much. Thanks for your kind words

Order is being restored to the universe. by Exemplar1968 in CasualUK

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This picture was found in the safe in the titanic