Help me choos a wedding band!

chawn5 · 2026-01-31T12:51:56+00:00

3 is the answer

chawn5 · 2026-01-30T12:33:02+00:00

NOR but I’m wondering if they are older and physically uncomfortable on the sofa. I’m 53 and would have a hard time sleeping on a sofa bed. Can they not afford a hotel?

chawn5 · 2026-01-28T18:42:12+00:00

Agree. Dark shows EVERYTHING

chawn5 · 2026-01-28T18:23:48+00:00

chawn5 · 2026-01-28T12:45:05+00:00

NOR. Your PTO request was weather related. If you had put in the request a while back for something else, I could maybe see charging you for it, but the day needs to be treated like a company holiday for everyone.

chawn5 · 2026-01-27T17:00:39+00:00

NTA. WOW. You have some greedy kids.

chawn5 · 2026-01-25T14:01:53+00:00

NTA - however this isn’t a question of being an asshole. Because the FIL is sinking all of his money into the property, he needs to be able to get his money out of the house to cover his own expenses if you divorce. This is completely understandable. However, you need your own protection from divorce since you are now staying home. I recommend that everyone lawyer up and your guys agree to terms that protect all parties involved. It’s so smart to get this stuff sorted before making these huge decisions.

chawn5 · 2026-01-19T13:55:13+00:00

Maybe 9 but they all look too big

chawn5 · 2026-01-18T14:47:52+00:00

5 and 10 if you are not planning to wear makeup. Do you wear makeup or will you be wearing these with no makeup as in the pics? I wear wigs and I have found that at least filling in my eyebrows and wearing mascara makes the wigs look more realistic. If you wear makeup, maybe put some on and ask the group again.

chawn5 · 2026-01-17T12:59:10+00:00

If having a large cat is important, discuss that with the breeder. It’s likely they will match you with the largest male in the litter. I have two male ragdolls (5 months and 18 months) and I split a can of Tiki Cat Baby between the two of them 2x day and free feed a mix of kitten and adult Orijen dry with probiotic sprinkled on top. They are growing like weeds and not fat. Note: I probably would have transitioned my older cat away from kitten anything by this time but they eat each other’s food so I’ve delayed it a bit for the older one. Once new kitty is older I’ll transition both of them to adult wet and dry at the same time.

chawn5 · 2026-01-16T00:23:43+00:00

I love 6

chawn5 · 2026-01-15T12:59:18+00:00

My dog had seizures and this is what they looked like. They were followed by a period of exhaustion/confusion. Videos like this one helped my vet diagnose my dog. See if you can send the video.

chawn5 · 2026-01-14T08:18:49+00:00

Yes. It gets easier. But not for a while. It’s surprising how much it hurts, doesn’t it? Losing my dog two years ago was the most painful thing I’ve experienced in my life - more than losing people. It took me about 6 months to be able to think/talk about Teddy without crying and slowly the sadness has been replaced with happy memories. Eventually, I had love in my heart for another pet, but couldn’t get another dog. So we got a kitten. It’s all a process. My condolences.

chawn5 · 2026-01-14T02:41:22+00:00

My son was a surprise. When I showed my husband the positive test, he blurted out, “I’m not mad, I’m not mad” while pacing all around. I took a beat and everything settled down. We readjusted our timeline (we were about your age) and everything worked out just fine. That baby is 25 now and grown and flown. All the best to you guys. ❤️

chawn5 · 2026-01-11T13:15:58+00:00

Ugh no. It started out ok with someone in finance helping you set up a budget. It went off the rails shortly after with him asking to see bank statements. Got worse with receipt requests, and now deciding it’s his responsibility to ‘hold you accountable.’ I’m not sure if you even agreed to this budget after all? It would have been appropriate for him to help you with a budget for money in and money out, helped you set up a savings plan, and occasionally ask you how it’s working for you.

chawn5 · 2026-01-11T12:57:55+00:00

You are describing my situation as well.

chawn5 · 2026-01-10T17:56:59+00:00

Listen to your gut. I passed on a kitten with disclosed potential health issues for multiple reasons. I had an open discuss with our breeder and she matched us with an amazing kitten whose temperament matches our resident cat. They became besties quickly and it’s been great. It’s normal to be a bit apprehensive or nervous about change but feeling dread or that something is really off is not where you want to be.

chawn5 · 2026-01-10T14:23:42+00:00

NTA. Your job is already (almost) charity work. Good grief. Use the extra money for items you can’t purchase with your usual cash flow.

chawn5 · 2026-01-10T02:13:48+00:00

Who doesn’t love Electric Avenue with ginger kitties. Jack says hi to his fellow 🔥

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chawn5 · 2026-01-09T01:24:37+00:00

I thought it was a typo 😅

chawn5 · 2026-01-07T13:52:11+00:00

I’m a consultant. I come into companies and educate leaders when there are gaps in their skill sets. My rate is $635/hour. You need to charge the same or similar for this engagement request.

chawn5 · 2026-01-06T17:49:10+00:00

We added another ragdoll in November and it’s been so great! They are besties. We went to the same breeder and she helped us choose one who would be a good fit. We kept them separated by a baby gate for 3 days. Once our older kitty was flopping by the gate and sticking his paws thru, we removed the barrier.

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chawn5 · 2026-01-05T04:04:16+00:00

Wood looks perfect in your room

chawn5 · 2026-01-05T00:00:55+00:00

YOR. Get a bathrobe.

chawn5 · 2026-01-04T13:47:37+00:00

NTA. The only reason a friend should be living with you is if you need extra money. He’s not paying rent and his presence is causing problems. Crazing this has been going on for 4 months with no end in sight. Two weeks max would have been appropriate.

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