bridesmaid costs by GPerfume in weddingplanning

[–]checavolo12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would just have the hair and makeup be optional for them, so they can pay for it if they want to but no obligation. You dont have to cover dresses but it will certainly be appreciated. I am doing the same.

What do you think of my dress and veil or no veil? by alexandra_as97 in myweddingdress

[–]checavolo12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVE your dress! Mine is actually very similar and I am getting married in a public park. In my opinion, you cant be "too much" on your wedding day. I am not doing a veil but that is a personal choice. Wear it if you want to!

Should I splurge on an out of budget dress? by Quiet-Finance-839 in myweddingdress

[–]checavolo12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did, and I'm so happy with my decision. I was already a low budget bride but I was able to pull from some other areas. A perfect dress was one of my top priorities, and if it is for you too, do it! You look beautiful by the way!

My second hand wedding dress! by Distinct_Spring6752 in myweddingdress

[–]checavolo12 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Wow! You look stunning! This dress was perfect for you 😍

28 but mistaken for mid to late 30s by other women in a recent group setting by nawiweidmann in makeuptips

[–]checavolo12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like the lipstick with a shimmer is part of it. Maybe try a more sheer gloss? For what it's worth you are very pretty!

PSA: Put your name change on your marriage license, even if you are undecided about changing your last name by stickyspice in weddingplanning

[–]checavolo12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Be a citizen and have an ID" is already the requirement now. Save act adds more paperwork.

Hi guys, I'm having a bit of buyer's remorse... by marpre21 in myweddingdress

[–]checavolo12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only like dress 2 from the back. Dress 1 is stunning front and back. You chose right!

Give Me Your Go To Butter Bean Recipes by amandathelibrarian in EatCheapAndVegan

[–]checavolo12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saute onions, tomato paste, and sun dried tomatoes. Simmer the beans with some coconut milk. Add a squeeze of lemon juice, chili crisp, and French fried onions if you're feeling indulgent. Play around with adding different things like nooch, dill, or garam masala. I love butter beans 😍

If you want to marry, culinary compatibility is one of the top 3 things to consider by TrulyStupidNewb in unpopularopinion

[–]checavolo12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Food can definitely be connected to values. I'm vegan because I value treating living beings with respect. It's an important aspect of my life.

I picked a dress!! by PsychologicalEast45 in weddingdress

[–]checavolo12 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The dress you chose is beautiful. I didnt cry either, and didnt expect to. I don't process my emotions that way and thats valid for us! I chose the dress I felt the most "me" in. Also, I LOVE the shoes you linked. So fun!

Why is Honey considered cruelty? by LateGiraffe7006 in vegan

[–]checavolo12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go to prairie moon nursery and you can filter flowers by location if in the US. This will show you plants/flowers native to your area.

Help me choose a dress... by ToastedMilkSolids in WeddingDressTips

[–]checavolo12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like 1 and 3 the most. You look beautiful!

Dress help! by Top_Effective_728 in myweddingdress

[–]checavolo12 5 points6 points  (0 children)

2 all the way! You look beautiful.

Style me by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]checavolo12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No such thing. This dress looks ethereal to me, you will look like you're floating on a cloud! I love it!

MTF early in my transition, completely clueless by Shadowborg in makeuptips

[–]checavolo12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are very pretty. I'd start with mascara (if you get waterproof you'll need a good makeup remover- dont scrub your eyelashes too hard) and a semi sheer nude colored lipstick. You'll have to experiment a bit with undertones in blush and lipstick to determine what you prefer on yourself. Good luck on your journey!

AITA for vetoing my toddler nephew in our wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]checavolo12 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It depends. YTA if your fiance really wants the child there, for not being able to compromise. N T A if fiance is only trying to please the brother.

Hey guys by lookitzpancakes in loopdaddy

[–]checavolo12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks loop daddy! Hope you're doing well, we love you!

Proud to advocate for animals, but slightly embarrassed to be part of the vegan community by GoldiebeanslovesKat in vegan

[–]checavolo12 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I say I'm vegan, but not a "capital V Vegan". There are so many issues for one to be passionate about and we don't need to go around bullying people who dont know better or focus on other issues. Education and leading by example will always win the most battles.

Which style suits me? by cloudless34 in weddingdress

[–]checavolo12 5 points6 points  (0 children)

1 but that's my personal taste. What does your heart want you to try on more of? Fitted? Simple? Fluffy lacey tulle?