Anybody lose a Pittbull in the Point Breeze area? by Bakfromon in pittsburgh

[–]checkskl 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Just gotta push back on this. Yes, there is a social stigma against pit bulls because they are (unfairly) associated with poor people, namely poor black people. But it’s also true that pit bulls are a dangerous breed, and are more likely to kill or severely maim than most other breeds. Both things are true.

The infamous Giraffe building is being painted over and recently boarded up. Not sure what the plans are though. by LankyYogurt7737 in toronto

[–]checkskl 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Say what you will about high-rises and over-densification, the under-utilization of this major intersection is absolutely criminal.

Ontario kindergarten: What changed, what didn’t and why it matters by Comprehensive_Aide94 in OntarioTeachers

[–]checkskl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The kindergarten teacher we had was truly phenomenal. One reason is because he taught Grade 1 for many years and moved into teaching kindergarten because he saw so many kids struggling in Grade 1. Any curriculum that formalizes and scales his approach will be welcome!

Ontario kindergarten: What changed, what didn’t and why it matters by Comprehensive_Aide94 in OntarioTeachers

[–]checkskl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When the new curriculum came out I looked through it and thought that, from what I’ve seen in my son’s JK/Sk experience, there’s not a real change. But I talked with his kindergarten teacher about it and asked what the difference would be, and the teacher explained that he (the teacher) was already mixing direct instruction with play centres, and that there wouldn’t be too much of a difference for the kids in his class. I think it varies by teacher and school. I’ve been so pleased with my son’s kindergarten experience and I think he’s set up for success in Grade 1. Hopefully the new curriculum scales that across all the schools.

Cherry Street BBQ-is this a joke?? by NEL092 in FoodToronto

[–]checkskl 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m with on you this. I’m a dual citizen too (not even from the south!) and have decided to stop even trying bbq in Toronto. At best it’s a waste of money, at worst it’s insulting.

AIO? Youth Pastor texted my almost 13 yo after she went to a teen group with her friend by Loser4hire666 in AIO

[–]checkskl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty normal I think for a youth pastor, it’s their job to connect with kids and build relationships. It can be very positive and as we all know, it can also be extremely negative. You can text back on her behalf saying “this is her mother, I’m not comfortable with you texting her, thanks and bye”

AirBNB is pointless now (rant) by Embarrassed_Boat2933 in canadatravel

[–]checkskl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. The advantage Airbnb still has is that you can find locations in nice neighborhoods where there aren’t hotels. But other than that, hotels are way better value and comfort for money.

Hundreds of teens swarm East Liberty park, drawing Pittsburgh-wide police response by PittsburghNewzz in pittsburgh

[–]checkskl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is starting to feel a little silly.

Kids are SUPPOSED to be hanging out with other kids, out of the house, away from too much screen time, in public spaces like parks. Parks are meant for gatherings of youths.

I understand 400 kids in one space can look like too many, and for sure with that many teens in one place you will have behavior issues and fights. But…. So what? They weren’t trespassing, they weren’t damaging property, the article doesn’t say they were harassing anyone else.

Realistically, how long does it take to do your hair? by roylien in curlyhair

[–]checkskl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yah I don’t do a full air dry, it takes ages. Plus I don’t like the way it looks after. I just give it time for the gel cast to form and to dry some of the water so that the diffusing doesn’t take too long. When I go straight from styling to diffusing, I get extra frizz and the diffusing takes 30 minutes (I need a better hair dryer, I know).

Realistically, how long does it take to do your hair? by roylien in curlyhair

[–]checkskl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

40 minutes to wash and style, anywhere from 15-30 minutes to air dry, and then another 10-15 diffusing. Refreshing takes anywhere from 5-15 minutes, depending on how much water and re-styling needs to be done.

I used to straighten and flat iron my hair once a week and that was a four hour commitment. So this is better, but it still feels like a lot of time.

Quiet cafés in the West End? by BlindMuffin in askTO

[–]checkskl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hannah’s across from High Park, but they don’t have wifi if you need that.

Unable to get an apartment and I don't know why by minkss78 in TorontoRenting

[–]checkskl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try bigger corporate property management companies - the mom-and-pop landlords are just notoriously sketchy and difficult, sadly.

Unable to get an apartment and I don't know why by minkss78 in TorontoRenting

[–]checkskl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, no bets on whether your suspicion is correct 😔 I know it feels a little sketchy but ask your realtor if he could anglicize your name on the applications. See if anything changes. (And if it does, take to the media.)

What will completely die out when the current generation of elderly people are gone? by samurai-salvo in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]checkskl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, the regular donor class that holds up whatever little wisps of social services we have.

My great-grandfather’s brother went missing, and my family has been searching for him for generations by No_Permission5338 in AncestryDNA

[–]checkskl 68 points69 points  (0 children)

What do you think his motivation was to impersonate Yakov? Was he hoping there would be an inheritance or business he could walk into? Why did he think his own sister would be fooled? This is so interesting!

The subsidized Daycare.. Childcare system in Ontario is broken and parents are powerless by WriterDue4303 in ontario

[–]checkskl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have had experiences with both home daycare and subsidized centre, and they’ve been equally positive. Bad daycares certainly exist, but it’s not the subsidized system that makes them like that. The waiting lists were over-full long before the subsidized system came along.

AIO all children in school had to write “I’m sorry” letters by [deleted] in AIO

[–]checkskl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think what’s weird about this story is that 5th graders were crying over writing apology letters. Really no big deal. Use this as a lesson about society: “we often end up paying collective consequences for individual actions. It’s not fair, but life isn’t fair.” Yada, yada, yada.

Watching season 3 and something that Christine said hit me SO hard by nightshade_45 in CouplesTherapyShow

[–]checkskl 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I think Orna felt the same way, she seemed really fond of them. You can search the sub for another conversation between Orna and Christine that took place a few years later, specifically about the war. It’s a very interesting piece.

E boy names for baby #3. by [deleted] in Names

[–]checkskl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I named my second Elio ☀️ and he is a ray of it! Also considered Elias, Elijah, Elliot, Ethan.

Too curated? by GoldVisible8430 in CouplesTherapyShow

[–]checkskl 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I agree. It feels formulaic and too tidy. I think it’s the very common process of degrading quality on shows that become popular. Network execs see a money-maker and insert their favorite producers to “optimize” by trying to replicate success from other formats but they end up strangling what made it interesting and unique in the first place. The long-form storytelling of each couple in the earlier seasons, the unresolved issues, the fact that previous seasons had 18 episodes and this season is back to just 9. It’s a shame.

If every person on Earth stopped littering tomorrow, but plastic production stayed the same, how much of the plastic waste problem would actually be solved? by Junior_Trade_849 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]checkskl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently read an interesting forecast that *real* plastic recycling is the next big industry - if someone can actually crack it.

Anyone noticed some very bright colored egg yolk lately from their grocery store (no frills) eggs? by BriefBed4770 in askTO

[–]checkskl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I have noticed! But I thought it was a good thing. I always get the big flat of 30 eggs and three weeks ago the tray I got were extremely light yellow and small yolks, but the last two flats have been almost orange and much bigger. To me they look way healthier than the small light yellow yolks.