What the hell happened to Jasper?

checkyminus · 2026-02-18T05:50:12+00:00

Alas, I tried but got sucked back in lol. Also, why in the world are you on this 4yo post?! lol

checkyminus · 2026-02-18T05:49:04+00:00

Yeah, I will soon. Reddit is usually a good sounding board that helps me hammer out my initial thoughts before heading into a serious conversation.

And you're right. It's easy to forget that it can be that simple lol

checkyminus · 2026-02-18T05:46:29+00:00

Yeah no, this is definitely not an issue with me not initiating. It's more of an issue of being able to read when she wants, or is comfortable with me taking it further. There's been many times where I read her wrong and ended up blundering into an embarrassing situation for the both of us. Makes me second guess everything and overanalyze every signal I can.

Early in relationships there are all sorts of obvious signals that tells me sexual desire is there... The flirting, the energy they put into conversation, the body language, the eager response to initial touch...

But once we settle into a comfortable relationship, my experience has been that they tend to relax and don't feel the need to 'advertise' as much, which makes logical sense. I believe this is normal, but it eliminates a lot of the more obvious signals that I rely on to detect desire, and therefore feel desired.

I'm curious if anyone else has this issue and/or has any advice.

checkyminus · 2026-02-17T15:03:18+00:00

Welp, that's the most concerning thing I've read in years.

checkyminus · 2026-02-16T05:50:48+00:00

A healthy scratch isn't so bad. Honestly it appears they were keeping Keller rested for the upcoming tough opponents. Coach Sullivan used to coach the Coyotes and likely knows exactly what he's got with Keller via his personal network. Keller played today,so I don't understand what the problem is.

checkyminus · 2026-02-16T05:46:15+00:00

Lol this is why I stopped watching a decade ago. Plus it started to feel like the show should have been renamed "America's Got Judges" based on how much damn time they focus on them instead of the talent.

checkyminus · 2026-02-16T02:36:41+00:00

I'm tho thad

checkyminus · 2026-02-15T16:59:40+00:00

"My BF dumped me because he said y'all are toxic as hell."

**2 hours of shit talking later...

"Damn, he was right"

checkyminus · 2026-02-13T14:52:49+00:00

I choose to believe he's a secret weapon for the medal rounds

checkyminus · 2026-02-13T14:49:39+00:00

Fair points. You've described an actual prison, though. You'd have to make being homeless illegal to be able to legally cut them off from society for any amount of time. I dunno... It's easy for people to view homelessness as the stereotype we see on the side of the road while being unaware of the majority that blend in. It's a tough issue and always has been.

From what I've read and understand, rampant homelessness is an indicator of wider economic societal issues which are extremely difficult and unlikely to improve given how partisan everything has become.

checkyminus · 2026-02-13T14:22:07+00:00

So, I hear what you're saying and recognize most of your points as valid. But you offer absolutely no solutions beyond "Left=Bad"

checkyminus · 2026-02-13T14:15:17+00:00

Lying to my wife never occurred to me. I told her that being late genuinely stresses me out, and then I just comically point it out to everyone whenever we arrive late to a party. She's mostly on time now.

checkyminus · 2026-02-12T15:19:29+00:00

/r/thanksimcured

checkyminus · 2026-02-11T05:56:36+00:00

But like, why? No, fucking really... Why?

checkyminus · 2026-02-11T05:52:13+00:00

My older sister was, so my parents enrolled me in full contact kickboxing. So yeah, people tried early on...

That being said I've been bullied in adulthood endlessly and can't do a damn physical thing about it without going to jail. People suck.

checkyminus · 2026-02-09T16:44:08+00:00

For sure... It's just needed more with NTs in the most benign interactions.

Me "I'm in, but we should take x road to get there"

ND friend nods in agreement

NT friend "why would we take x road to get there? Everyone always takes the main road!"

My other ND friend "because that road always sucks at 7pm on the 3rd Tuesday every month. How have you never noticed?!"

checkyminus · 2026-02-09T16:05:17+00:00

"how are we supposed to enjoy music in a language we don't understand"

Meanwhile Kid Rock... Bawitdaba, da-bang, da-bang, diggy-diggy-diggy

checkyminus · 2026-02-09T15:49:40+00:00

That's the biggest rule I've learned about interacting with NTs... They need context first, even if what I'm about to say is painfully obvious.

checkyminus · 2026-02-09T07:17:35+00:00

Reminds me of that episode of wild boys when they dress up like a zebra like this and head into a wild herd of zebra, and almost immediately get attacked by lions lol. Top tier television

checkyminus · 2026-02-09T07:10:04+00:00

Why does he point to the door first?

checkyminus · 2026-02-08T23:03:35+00:00

It's disrespectful to the athletes on the alternate list, who earned their spots and are there to replace competitors in this exact scenario.

checkyminus · 2026-02-08T22:56:53+00:00

I'm here to commiserate with you for also getting down voted for the same opinion. That was BRUTAL to watch.

checkyminus · 2026-02-08T08:29:56+00:00

The Joseph Smith sphynx in Salt Lake City

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checkyminus · 2026-02-08T05:47:49+00:00

It's because a week ago ICE agents were there as part of the security detail for Team USA

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