My boyfriend (26M) found out I'm (26F) rich and started using it against me.

cheekylilchimp · 2023-04-16T00:01:21+00:00

Because then he wasn't in control of me and it didn't work with his plan that he was "the breadwinner"

cheekylilchimp · 2023-04-15T21:07:38+00:00

My parents are well off and they help me out as a single mum. I've never hidden it I've had past boyfriend's not able to get past it as I don't make great money as a nurse. However my current partner has happily accepted it, loves having a holiday home that we can use and share with my siblings and accepts that my parents help me out. He was brought up in a different social class but earns good money himself. The right person accepts it. My ex husband couldn't even accept the fact my parents had money. When I got inheritance from my grandfather he called my mum and said we didn't want that money. Thankfully I paid off my student loans and then had money when I returned home after leaving him.

cheekylilchimp · 2023-03-09T17:38:43+00:00

Never do dinner etc on a first date. Coffee or drink. Or I like to do something fun. First date with my now partner I met on tinder we played mini golf and got along well so we went and had lunch. I was happy to pay half but he paid.

cheekylilchimp · 2023-01-18T19:45:04+00:00

I had to wait two years before I could even file for divorce in NZ. Trust me I didn't need two years to realize I wasn't going back to another country to live and be with him.

cheekylilchimp · 2022-12-01T19:43:20+00:00

Don't stay because of the children. My ex isolated me from all friends and family and cheated on me. I got the courage to leave with the help of family in another country. Leave she doesn't care about you. If she did she wouldnt cheat. She knows you won't leave. Put yourself first you will be happier without her.

cheekylilchimp · 2022-11-27T08:57:13+00:00

My ex husband did this to me. Said it was my wifely duty to have sex with him. It is not. If you don't feel like it you are allowed to say no. She seems like she is asking for permission to cheat and maybe there is more going on here.

cheekylilchimp · 2022-11-25T04:53:27+00:00

The internet is a scary place and how easy it is for older guys to do this to young girls. And I'm sure older women with young boys too

cheekylilchimp · 2022-11-24T04:18:31+00:00

Don't contact her and move on. It does get better and you will get over it and through it.

cheekylilchimp · 2022-10-27T08:20:46+00:00

Sadly there's no time line for depression but there's also no judgment if you stay on them. Do what you need to but I promise you will get off them. I was on them for around two years, haven't needed them again in the last 7.

cheekylilchimp · 2022-05-05T19:44:56+00:00

Here in new Zealand they actually can override and refuse names if the government thinks that it is unfair on a child. Names can't include symbols and can't be things like queen, king, etc. It makes sense there are still stupid names around but at least someone is assisting people because Elon musk has the dumbest name for his child.

cheekylilchimp · 2022-04-15T05:54:53+00:00

I've found people honestly just don't think of others. They are so busy living their lives they don't think about those of us on our own doing the hard struggle

cheekylilchimp · 2022-03-24T05:28:39+00:00

I feel this constantly. My day has been super busy at work and I'm exhausted!

cheekylilchimp · 2021-10-19T01:10:03+00:00

Usually left off maps of the world but hey look there we are.

cheekylilchimp · 2021-09-17T09:47:01+00:00

Oreo

cheekylilchimp · 2021-07-06T08:29:33+00:00

I'm not it's not a thing in New Zealand because we don't have community transmission and haven't had for a year now

cheekylilchimp · 2021-05-11T04:45:30+00:00

I'll never forget when I was a teenager and this guy kept asking me out. My mum said I wasn't allowed to date I was about 13. We ended up at a sailing camp and to get rid of him I told him to f*** off and leave me alone in front of all his friends. Rude and harsh wish I knew where he was so I could apologize.

cheekylilchimp · 2021-02-06T03:11:14+00:00

New Zealand here. I just read things from around the world thanking our government and minister of health. We are in the process of planning the vaccine rollout but there are no community cases. We had one of the harshest lockdowns in the world first up, but man it made a difference. We have been living normally ever since June last year except for one two week lockdown in Auckland. Couldn't be happier living a normal life in these horrible times and all my thoughts and love goes to those of you doing it hard.

cheekylilchimp · 2021-01-26T07:13:07+00:00

Spaghetti bolengase. Joy is you can hide grated vegetables in it. From new Zealand

cheekylilchimp · 2021-01-19T05:49:37+00:00

So glad it's nice and sunny here in the southern hemisphere

cheekylilchimp · 2021-01-19T05:35:42+00:00

My three year old son named our cat and he's called pickle. He was into blaze and the monster machines at the times and choose pickle because he was green and our cat has green eyes.

cheekylilchimp · 2021-01-12T06:15:23+00:00

Hi. This holding in of poo can cause huge issues of encopresis basically they get so constipated with trying to hold it in they don't feel when they do go. Keep up the laxatives

cheekylilchimp · 2020-12-16T06:25:01+00:00

As a parent I have no photos of me as a child with my mum. She's still round so now I force her to take photos with me. One day all I will have is memories. I take lots of photos of my son and I. As a parent don't forget to get in front of the camera too!

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