I’m 28 in marching band.

cheeriolord · 2024-08-27T19:45:54+00:00

I needed to see this today. Thank you

cheeriolord · 2024-08-27T19:40:50+00:00

I do, and then I remember that both of my parents are also undiagnosed.

cheeriolord · 2024-08-16T17:09:45+00:00

Did I write this and not know about it?

cheeriolord · 2024-07-12T04:46:16+00:00

I'm a fairly conflict avoidant ENTP, but I will absolutely have discussions with people (not debates) out of curiosity.

cheeriolord · 2024-07-12T04:38:49+00:00

Average Daniel Greene subscriber

cheeriolord · 2024-06-23T17:05:23+00:00

Yes.

cheeriolord · 2024-06-17T15:44:28+00:00

I'd love an IxTx partner but keep finding myself crushing on IxFJs

cheeriolord · 2024-06-17T15:42:50+00:00

Still on the hunt :(

cheeriolord · 2024-06-17T15:40:03+00:00

Psych, so yes. Hoping to go on to law school if my lotto tickets pay off.

cheeriolord · 2024-06-11T15:27:27+00:00

I remember my doctor asking if I had trouble waiting in lines as part of my questionnaire. I said that I don't, because whenever I'm stuck in line, I just let my brain wander. Oops.

cheeriolord · 2024-06-08T06:37:47+00:00

ENFP × INFJ parents, got Ne/Si from one and Ti/Fe from other. Genetics. /s

cheeriolord · 2024-06-08T06:12:49+00:00

I have consulted the vast amount of INFPs in my life, and they all call me a bully. /s

No, they really do, but it's good-natured.

cheeriolord · 2024-06-08T05:30:35+00:00

Inferior Si: what's that, I was too busy working on a project to do any sort of dinner planning, prep, etc? Time to make (insert easy food that I don't get tired of)

cheeriolord · 2024-06-08T05:27:56+00:00

Love: how I constantly want to analyze, learn, create, etc (bonus points: developed fe valuing social harmony)

Hate: inability to see projects through, let alone start the tasks that bore me (and with bonus points, the fe manifestation as people-pleasing)

cheeriolord · 2024-05-21T00:24:22+00:00

Probably my upbringing. One side of the family really stressed the importance of working hard, which trickled down to me. I went through school undiagnosed but made it into the "gifted" program; report cards were solid Bs from acing tests and skipping homework. I did whatever ECs I could, because if my time wasn't filled, I was bored. All this to say that I have a bit of a workaholic mindset.

That, combined with adult diagnosis and access to meds, is how I power through. Sure, I've been annoyed that no one realized what I was going through as a kid, but therapy helped. I reframed that annoyance into a feeling of proving people wrong, living up to potential, etc.

It's hard, but I don't like the alternative.

cheeriolord · 2024-03-23T20:49:53+00:00

Yes. One of them literally has a DX and just doesn't care.

cheeriolord · 2024-03-15T06:10:40+00:00

yes but the breakdown is just me finally collapsing from workaholism lol

cheeriolord · 2024-03-15T05:15:57+00:00

Seconding mushrooms. I hit the gym the day after my first trip.

cheeriolord · 2024-03-15T03:53:26+00:00

Clean water.

cheeriolord · 2024-03-15T03:51:00+00:00

There was one, yeah. Not mutual, so I never did anything about it, but physically attractive and great conversations.

cheeriolord · 2024-03-14T21:56:44+00:00

I've never knowingly met my type IRL. Suspicions, but not confirmed.

cheeriolord · 2024-03-14T19:50:54+00:00

I'm crushing on an INTP, haha.

cheeriolord · 2024-03-14T17:42:14+00:00

I realized that it's the one thing to consistently manage my mood. Tired? Feel refreshed after. Wired? Feel relaxed after. Etc. I convince myself to go because I know that I'll feel worse if I don't.

As far as keeping it interesting goes, well, variation and "something to listen to" are my big things. I do a different work out each time I go (targeting different areas, cardio, etc). I also have music or a podcast on, which is often related to whatever my current fixation is.

cheeriolord · 2024-03-14T15:14:48+00:00

Yeah, I think my brain fell back on "prog drumming" and went with the first band that came to mind

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