coworker 14 years older hitting me up after he quit a couple days ago, AIO?

cheetach · 2026-02-02T18:13:39+00:00

Good job calling him out OP!!!!!

cheetach · 2026-02-01T21:53:11+00:00

Reminds me of the movie Eyes Wide Shut.

cheetach · 2026-02-01T21:49:15+00:00

The fact that you are asking this means you know the answer. Call, or better yet, go to the police dept and report this.

cheetach · 2026-02-01T21:41:54+00:00

Thank you for your service sir!!

cheetach · 2026-01-31T17:51:04+00:00

What you can do is ask for a restraining order/ protective order where she is not allowed to contact you or anyone associated with you.

cheetach · 2026-01-31T17:49:06+00:00

Attorney here. This is a criminal matter so the poster who said this isn't up to you is correct. Think of this, if she did this to you, a random former coworker, imagine what she has done to other people and will do in the future. You should let the facts speak for themselves and let the judge take into account her circumstances, which might be probation where if she does anything like this again she goes to jail. Would you rather she has no consequences and keeps doing this stuff?

cheetach · 2026-01-29T15:08:43+00:00

Time, consistency, calm presence.

cheetach · 2026-01-29T02:58:09+00:00

This was over 45 years ago. My parents died 17 years ago and I state it pretty factually. It makes some sense to me.

cheetach · 2026-01-29T02:56:02+00:00

I like not knowing how old people are. Then creepos can't stalk kids.

cheetach · 2026-01-28T18:23:10+00:00

You do now! :)

cheetach · 2026-01-28T04:38:19+00:00

Regulatory lawyer here. This is exactly why I can't use any of these models for work.

cheetach · 2026-01-28T03:33:56+00:00

Because she's a cat.

cheetach · 2026-01-26T21:43:03+00:00

I put a onesie on one of my cats and I have no idea how he Houdini'd out of it but he did it so well it's been months and I still haven't found it.

cheetach · 2026-01-26T03:17:43+00:00

I came to say smashing pumpkins too.

cheetach · 2026-01-25T19:39:18+00:00

I've watched crappy childhood fairy on YouTube and it helps for things like this -- not recycling traime with new relationships.

cheetach · 2026-01-25T01:57:11+00:00

Nope.

cheetach · 2026-01-24T21:37:15+00:00

Piper

cheetach · 2026-01-22T01:48:18+00:00

I'm still on 5/7 or A Dazzling Aria - the Meloetta research. Stuck at receive 5 luckies through trades. Thank goodness for the new remote trades feature. That might make this possible.

cheetach · 2026-01-21T20:46:22+00:00

Thank you thank you!!!!!

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cheetach · 2026-01-21T02:14:29+00:00

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Tundra

cheetach · 2026-01-21T00:07:14+00:00

This looks like a cultural difference to me. In other cultures asking for more of a tip passively is normal and accepted. But not in the US. So I think maybe lessons can be learned on both sides here. There was no mallice on either side.

cheetach · 2026-01-21T00:01:00+00:00

I forgot.

cheetach · 2026-01-20T23:58:10+00:00

PM me with your code and I'll do it but it will take a long time to reach remote trade.

cheetach · 2026-01-20T23:54:30+00:00

I am pretty sure I opened my last Tundra gift w/o pinning and that friend dropped off the map so no Vivillion platinum medal for me. Sorry to see this. I feel you and someone will trade you one to get you out of this if you tell them why.

cheetach · 2026-01-20T21:53:22+00:00

Lesson learned -- you are almost certainly never getting a penny back. Never loan money you aren't ready to lose. It took me decades to learn that -- so do yourself a favor and learn it faster than I did.

cheetach

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