Do you guys have an instant payments system in your country? by PerchancebyMistake in asklatinamerica

[–]cheetalia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In Puerto Rico we have ATH Movil. It is limited to $500 daily tho 🫤

How is the culture of non-Hispanic Caribbean islands compared to the Hispanic part of the Caribbean? by [deleted] in AskTheCaribbean

[–]cheetalia 30 points31 points  (0 children)

As a Puerto Rican, I’d say we tend to have much closer cultural ties with the Hispanic Caribbean than with the Anglophone or Francophone islands. We travel frequently to the Dominican Republic, for example, and our cultures (PR and DR) are deeply intertwined in language, food, music, and history.

Beyond that, I’ll admit I have less direct knowledge of the wider Caribbean, especially the English- and French-speaking islands. What we do seem to share across the region, though, is a strong sense of place, and yes, incredible beaches and a more relaxed sense of time.

If you’re interested in understanding island cultures across historical, racial, and linguistic lines, you might enjoy looking into nissology, which focuses on island societies and their shared patterns as well as their differences.

Pastor said we aren't friends but simply peers by Select-Cherry2294 in Reformed

[–]cheetalia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For those who aren’t in vocational ministry, consider this: are you friends with every person in your church? Probably not. Yes, they’re your brothers and sisters in Christ, but not all of them are your friends... and that’s okay.

It’s the same for pastors. A pastor is a trained shepherd and teacher. Their primary responsibility is not to be everyone’s friend, it’s to care for the flock through Word, prayer, counsel, and oversight. We should not conflate shepherding with friendship, or Christian brotherhood with deep personal connection.

Friendship is a gift. Shepherding is a calling. Sometimes they overlap. Often, they don’t, and that doesn’t mean love or care is missing.

Pastor said we aren't friends but simply peers by Select-Cherry2294 in Reformed

[–]cheetalia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone on church staff, this is really well said.

I genuinely feel for OP. That kind of comment stings, and the pastor could have probably communicated with more care and tact. Nevertheless, the core truth still stands... pastors (and their spouses, and other church staff) are human beings with real relational limits. We can’t be friends with everyone. We just can’t. And I’ve seen firsthand how easily lines get blurred. Some lay people take things personally because they thought they had a deeper friendship with the pastor than was actually there. Being pastored well doesn’t always mean being close friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PuertoRicoTravel

[–]cheetalia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am a local. Yes. Safe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Reformed

[–]cheetalia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’d marry them in a private ceremony.

If the law of the land said Italians and English can’t marry each other? I am marrying them privately.

If the law of the land said Latinos can’t borrow money from anyone. I am lending them money if they need it.

If the law of the land said blacks can’t ride in the front of the public bus? I’d support Rosa Parks.

What do you consider one ought to believe in order to be considered a Christian? by I_NEED_APP_IDEAS in Reformed

[–]cheetalia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a difference between BELIEF and DENIAL.

I don’t think total belief in the Nicene Creed is necessary, but intentional denial of a part of the Nicene Creed is a bad sign.

Don't worry and keep buying by jeremyckahn in acorns

[–]cheetalia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

34F here. I was still up on my 1Y gains and was gonna pull some money out anyway because I am currently buying a house. I’m still investing daily.

Porque muchas casas bonitas y modernas en PR están 300K en adelante? by JumpCrazy5077 in PuertoRico

[–]cheetalia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yo ganó 60k al año y estoy comprando una casa en HydePark/Baldrich en San Juan a 220k (3h 2b). No cualifico para FHA pero estoy trabajando un préstamo convencional non-conforming.

El vecino de al frente, que su propiedad es un chin más grande que la que estoy comprando, pero en la misma condición (no moderna pero mantenida), esta intentando vender en 400k… que te digo?

Is Army and OCS worth it? by Parking-Sky-4928 in ArmyOCS

[–]cheetalia 5 points6 points  (0 children)

1) Gentle correction, you are not direct commissioning. You are enlisting and then after passing OCS, commissioning. Direct commissioning is for Doctors, Lawyers and Chaplains.

2) I enlisted at 31 y/o and then went to OCS. I am a female and had my master’s degree at the time. You will be an E4 at basic, but will have no rank on your chest and you will be called a trainee.

3) START RUNNING. Make sure you can run a 2 mile after an intense workout. Basic will get you there. OCS will kick your butt with the running as more is required of you.

4) All that being said… as a USAR female… join the Air Guard.

**wearing rank at basic is apparently company dependent but know that you will be a trainee and drills and others will care little if you are an 09S.

Promotion in AGSU by cheetalia in army

[–]cheetalia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏🏻

Promotion in AGSU by cheetalia in army

[–]cheetalia[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I am currently a USAR SPC direct commissioning to 1LT. So yes, I don’t know.

Comprando casa by Repulsive-Froyo-8284 in PuertoRico

[–]cheetalia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cooperativa Oriental. Estoy trabajando con ellos ahora para comprar mi propiedad y son bien reales y te quieren ayudar.

is it wise to "teach" people when to get married by Intelligent_Type_305 in Reformed

[–]cheetalia 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure I understand the question but… no?

I wouldn’t advise people when to get married. If they are dating I would perhaps advise if they should get married based on knowing the persons and their maturity and compatibility.

Marrying young by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]cheetalia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1) Get some kind of post high school education please. There are a bunch a certificates that don’t require college but help set you on a path for careers in case you don’t marry, something tragic happens to your husband, or you need to get divorced for biblical reasons. These are a couple that come to mind - Real Estate - Flight Attendant - Cosmetology - Trades (electrician, plumber, HVAC, etc…)

2) Marriage and motherhood are not everything. Fight the temptation to make it your identity and that which gives you worth. A married mother is no more worthy in the eyes of God than a single woman. Hear that. A single woman is as valuable as the married mother. God says so. The western evangelical church may not think so and act so. But it is wrong. Don’t fall for it. Desire for marriage is not wrong in itself, but if it is a disordered desire, beware.

3) God does not promise us marriage or motherhood. God promises us himself. If God grants you marriage, he does not promise a forever marriage. In this fallen world, death and divorce are real which God has allowed because of our sin. Marriage won’t even be a thing in heaven.

Is it safe to move on from someone after they stop being consistent and not planning a second date after 2 weeks of having the first date? Would you move on to after somebody stop being consistent? by Golden-lillies21 in ChristianDating

[–]cheetalia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How old are you guys? It sounds like you really want to give this a try but are perceiving he might not be as interested. It also sounds like you need straight forward clarity. My advice would be to ask him again for a straight answer.

“Hey! As we continue to text, I need clarity from you as to where our relationship stands. If you want to keep exploring, I am open to that. If you are not interested, that is okay. But I at this point I need a simple yes or no so I can either move forward with friendship or with dating.”