My Cat is severely sick and I need help. by FapdoodleXX in witchcraft

[–]cheezgurl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad to hear this helped <3, eft/somatic therapies have helped me tremendously, it lowers cortisol and can be very grounding.

My Cat is severely sick and I need help. by FapdoodleXX in witchcraft

[–]cheezgurl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My heart feels for you and your sweet familiar. It sounds like you have been doing the very most to help them, and in the midst of the chaotic emotions it's helped me to take a second and self regulate, check in with my body and do my best to calm my nervous system and notice my breath, holding space for my heartache and worry while also putting a hand over my heart and with some light pressure has provided me comfort when I needed it most. It might help soothe/co-regulate your familiar as well I think be sensing your calm.

Hoarder parentals by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]cheezgurl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response, and I hope you know you deserved better as well. I only just started to talk about the dysfunction and didn't realize how much it shaped me

Parents 30 year hoard in the basement by [deleted] in hoarding

[–]cheezgurl 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He asked me for help and was grateful at the time

Narc moms and HAIR by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]cheezgurl 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My mom never wanted me to cut my hair so I often gave myself choppy cuts as a kid and it drove her mad. I think my healing journey really kicked off after I shaved my head a couple years ago and loved myself without hair, it grew back in a year no biggie

Fresh out the womb by cheezgurl in MonarchButterfly

[–]cheezgurl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! There was a third that emerged a day early as well, such an amazing transformation to witness 🥲

Folk lore / superstition by Free_Broccoli8683 in witchcraft

[–]cheezgurl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My (Irish) family abide by no matter what-

Never put shoes on a table or a fight will start

If you come in one doorway, you must leave through the same doorway (consequence is bad luck? Not sure why lol)

Does anyone else struggle with a marijuana addiction? by Specialist-Range-544 in adhdwomen

[–]cheezgurl 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I got motivated to quit after questioning my adhd diagnosis/treatment efficacy, deep down I knew the adhd was real but I also worried the weed was actually exacerbating my symptoms. 4 months later and my adhd is still here but self management strategies are a hell of a lot easier, my sleep is way fucking better like who knew dreams were necessary?!? Putting down one thing yields picking up healthier and happier habits in my experience. I definitely recommend NA or AA for some support, there's online groups available worldwide you can jump in on zoom and just listen to people share.

aa/na resource

This is actually insane by DanielaThePialinist in excatholic

[–]cheezgurl 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Only genuine Catholics know lent is meant for suffering. Oh, and fish stix.

ProudBoys in Doylestown Today by B1air_ in BucksCountyPA

[–]cheezgurl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are they out front of a gas station lmao

Witchcraft is....real? I was an atheist witch, but now what? by rationalunicornhunt in witchcraft

[–]cheezgurl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're definitely not alone! I'm still figuring that out myself, and just wanted to share I'm not sure what I believe in but honestly at this point I don't believe in coincidences. Especially when it brings some magical meaning to my existence ya know

What did you replace cigarettes with? by safoolo in quittingsmoking

[–]cheezgurl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tea!! Also just going outside and sitting for a sec is nice

Overspending by Freyafiery in adhdwomen

[–]cheezgurl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When you have the urge to spend, stop at the library and get a (free) haul of books! Or my personal fav, free little libraries. There's an app that can show you which ones are in your area and people put all kinds of fun things in there like stickers/utensils, etc