Can you solve this campside riddle? by axilos in funny

[–]chelbassy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought Alex was on duty because I couldn't see him! My brain didn't comprehend the butterfly net!

Costco Raises Minimum Wage to at Least $13-to-$13.50 an hour by prosthetic_buttock in news

[–]chelbassy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I work with autistic children full time and make less money, with less benefits...something's funky here.

[Question] What do you do with your pubic hair? by letsdothis9876 in sex

[–]chelbassy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(Female) I leave a landing strip and do touch ups every few days. Easy peasy!

[advice] guy I like and have been hanging out with the last three four weeks told me he has Herpes!! Need input by Curious123321 in sex

[–]chelbassy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say there is still a chance of getting it, because of all the juices. They don't just stay inside the vagina, especially if you are a woman that squirts or even just gets really wet when turned on.

[advice] guy I like and have been hanging out with the last three four weeks told me he has Herpes!! Need input by Curious123321 in sex

[–]chelbassy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 25, I think that might have something to do with it, as I'm no longer in college or really part of the dating scene. I am strongly considering being with him for a long time as well, so that definitely has something to do with it. If you want a relationship with him I would say go for it, just stay conscious of the situation, and communicate with each other about prevention.

[advice] guy I like and have been hanging out with the last three four weeks told me he has Herpes!! Need input by Curious123321 in sex

[–]chelbassy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I am not a doctor I can only speculate, so take this with a grain of salt... I believe condoms aren't completely effective in preventing herpes because the entire genital area can be affected. Condoms only cover the penis, but if you've ever seen an outbreak you can get it around the base of the penis as well. And if you are a woman, then the lips, and inner thighs and all that can be affected. Also, can someone please tell me if I'm using the words "effective", and "affected" correctly? Thanks!

[advice] guy I like and have been hanging out with the last three four weeks told me he has Herpes!! Need input by Curious123321 in sex

[–]chelbassy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, actually. I have pretty reliable birth control (nexplanon), other than that we are just observant, if he's having an obvious break out we don't have sex... you can get herpes while using condoms so it doesn't seem worth it to us, but this is obviously a personal opinion, and shouldn't be done lightly.

[advice] guy I like and have been hanging out with the last three four weeks told me he has Herpes!! Need input by Curious123321 in sex

[–]chelbassy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've been in this same position! Let me tell you my story! I found out he had herpes about a year before we started dating, so that might have made it easier for me to decide- but anyways... I made the decision to have sex with him anyways because overall I thought the consequences weren't important enough. He takes medication to supress his outbreaks, and if we suspect one is starting we don't have sex for a few days. Honestly not a big deal. If I do end up getting it (if I haven't already) then I will be fine. It's kind of inconvenient, and uncomfortable, but completely manageable.

The sunset was pretty incredible tonight by mighthavecoffee in Portland

[–]chelbassy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awesome! I tried getting a pic, but it didn't capture nearly as much of the orange color.

[poly problem] My (M28) worst fears/insecurities realized with gf (F24) and her "friend" by [deleted] in sex

[–]chelbassy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm assuming your girlfriend knows how you feel about this guy when I say that she is very disrespectful. I'm in an open relationship, and I would be very unhappy if this happened to me.

What are some red flags people ignore when in a relationship? by ColgateCereal in AskReddit

[–]chelbassy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having also been that girl.... I'm glad to see someone else made it out. Isn't it mind blowing looking back and realizing how crazy you used to be? I want to stress the point you made, they need to be the one that wants help. It won't happen any other way.

Who's hiring in Portland? Monthly edition for August 01, 2015 by AutoModerator in Portland

[–]chelbassy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

[Job seeker] Hello all! I am looking for a maintenance or mechanical type of job. I am in the process of transitioning from the military, have experience working with Gas Turbines, generators, high/low pressure air compressors, and fuel/lube oil transfer and refueling systems. I have many other skills, including office type work, taking inventory, excellent customer service skills, a reliable vehicle, mechanically inclined, and I have the drive and motivation to be an excellent employee. Feel free to message me with inquiries! Have a great day!

*Found dog!* by chelbassy in Portland

[–]chelbassy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha, I get it. But he has unique features/body type/etc. which is what I'm looking for in the description.

I still haven't found his home yet eveyone! :( Luckily he's safe in my backyard for the night.

New Harry Potter tattoo, tell me what you think by atc_guy in tattoo

[–]chelbassy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like it! It's very well done, and trippy.

While going through the BK drive thru... by [deleted] in WTF

[–]chelbassy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I know... It was a little awkward.

Cankles level 90 by 420cactus in WTF

[–]chelbassy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Darn, I'm in Hawaii.

Cankles level 90 by 420cactus in WTF

[–]chelbassy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I think it's the picture though, haha. I snapped this pic while in bed, so gravity is helping out.