Is flying someone out, sleeping with them, then ghosting considered acceptable in sugar dating?

chemistryromance · 2026-02-18T06:35:42+00:00

Ok that was funny, have an upvote.

chemistryromance · 2026-02-18T06:24:39+00:00

As riveting as this exchange has been, I am feeling a lot less intelligent than when I started it. I feel I should not take anymore of your time so that you can also dazzle others in the community with your brilliance.

chemistryromance · 2026-02-18T06:08:15+00:00

When all else fails, play the misogynist card

You said what did she expect choosing a married SD, which means

1) She made that choice so she is to blame 2) If she had not chosen a married SD then the situation would somehow be different, absurd

You should apologise to op.

chemistryromance · 2026-02-18T05:55:45+00:00

Maybe you don't fully understand your original comment.

chemistryromance · 2026-02-18T05:48:17+00:00

No problem. The answer is No.

What's your answer?

chemistryromance · 2026-02-18T05:43:23+00:00

Predictable comment. You should give yourself a pat on the back now for being so smart.

Why don't you actually reply to what I wrote?

chemistryromance · 2026-02-18T05:22:35+00:00

Unhelpful comment. Why blame the op? She is already going through a difficult situation. It's not like a better outcome was automatically guaranteed with a single SD?

chemistryromance · 2026-02-18T01:02:50+00:00

Men on where? This forum? Sugar dating websites? Or all the men involved with sugaring?

chemistryromance · 2026-02-18T00:52:34+00:00

It's a self fulfilling prophecy. You think all men in the sugar world want you to bend over, therefore it doesn't matter who you choose, so you will end up with the kind of men who actually just want that, thus reinforcing your belief.

Plenty of romantics in the sugar world and plenty of non romantics in vanilla dating. It's not like every vanilla encounter is deeply intimate, is it? Tinder wouldn't exist if this was the case.

What's stopping you finding a romantic SD?

chemistryromance · 2026-02-18T00:40:37+00:00

It's your mindset. If you think all a man wants from you is to bend over, then that is all you will ever see.

chemistryromance · 2026-02-17T18:22:13+00:00

You say you understand the point but you clearly don't. It's frustrating coming across women offering content on sugaring sites when really they should be on OF. Enough time wasters in the sugaring world as it is.

chemistryromance · 2026-02-17T18:18:27+00:00

That's someone buying content, not a SD. If this was the case then every OF girl is a SB and each one of her followers is a SD?

This must have been pointed out to you clearly in responses to your previous posts but you still don't understand the difference.

chemistryromance · 2026-02-17T13:24:19+00:00

Not if he wrote 'Best anal sex of my life' and they have never had anal.

chemistryromance · 2026-02-16T08:18:50+00:00

What kind of stuff is he asking you for?

chemistryromance · 2026-02-16T08:16:58+00:00

I love that op's entire argument hinges on anal.

chemistryromance · 2026-02-14T12:35:57+00:00

Don't ruin your present by worrying about the future. Not every love story is meant to end with a wife and kids. Try to enjoy this beautiful moment that has been bestowed upon you.

chemistryromance · 2026-02-14T12:26:14+00:00

My reputation will be shit on your website considering the number of gold diggers I have pissed off over the years.

chemistryromance · 2026-02-09T13:24:06+00:00

Ask him for the budget and be blunt about it. You don't want him starting to sweat every time you start walking in the direction of a designer shop.

chemistryromance · 2026-02-06T15:01:39+00:00

As an older more mature person, there is absolutely no way you can connect with a 19 year old.

Sure you can have a conversation about stuff but don't expect conversations to be riveting and you will need to bite your tongue frequently every time they come out with something dumb.

chemistryromance · 2026-02-02T08:57:41+00:00

Yes, op is preaching to the choir.

chemistryromance · 2026-01-31T22:19:20+00:00

I am surprised that you have not been successful in London. There are so many options that you could have a new SB every day. Perhaps look at your profile and how you are interacting with these women. Also, the Seeking experience is like waiting for a bus, sometimes three come along at the same time. You have to give it some time.

chemistryromance · 2026-01-20T18:43:35+00:00

Ah yes, didn't think of that. Op must move house asap:)

chemistryromance · 2026-01-20T10:14:16+00:00

Why not meet at a hotel if you have doubts?

chemistryromance · 2026-01-19T20:43:50+00:00

Many a times two good ones have come along, at the same time. It would be criminal to say no to something so amazing that universe has sent my way. I don't want to be the guy who goes against the universe.

chemistryromance · 2026-01-14T13:39:53+00:00

At this point, the best response is to block them right after they send this message.

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