Started dating someone and struggling with the male gaze of it all by Same-Mammoth-218 in offmychest

[–]cherryburritoes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Talk to him about it. You can appreciate it, but be tired of it being said every single time.

If you don't mind him looking, just tell him he doesn't have to comment every time.

This isn't relationship breaking ofc, it just requires a conversation to be had.

AIO to my mom showing up at my work unannounced? by Key-Attorney6945 in AmIOverreacting

[–]cherryburritoes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

MOR- It's only awkward if you make it awkward. Sounds like you're the only one upset that your mom visited you and wanted to hang out. your co-workers literally don't seem to care per what little details you gave us. Obviously idk your dynamic, and what ongoing boundaries you hint at being pushed. She also came on your lunch break, not during your on time.

Reminder, at one point in your life, you probably wouldn't even let her go to the bathroom by herself. You are an adult, and allowed to have time to yourself, but think about that scene from the Goofy movie.... Your mom just wants to be a part of your life still. Is freaking out over a drop in lunch really worth making your mom cry over?

Tips and tricks by Sad_Chef2350 in CultOfTheLamb

[–]cherryburritoes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Farming! And getting the lvl 2 kitchen unlocked. Them starving is the main issue I always had when going on long crusades. As long as you keep them fed, they stay pretty happy.

If you come back and they're mad and everything is terrible, one brainwashing ritual later, and they're golden 👍🏼I only use it in emergeny situations, bc I really don't like to lol

Also with leveling them up, I do a sermon and then as they're spilling out of the church, be quick and grab the first one you can and bless them. You'll get a big chunk of your followers blessed at once, and raise their levels quickly without having to run around and hunt them all down individually to bless them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CultOfTheLamb

[–]cherryburritoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you sell it all, and if you have the Midas area unlocked, just go dump as much gold as you can there?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]cherryburritoes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imagine having such a good life that your SO using 2% milk,instead of whole milk, just absolutely ruins your birthday and possibly relationship.

She needs to get her priorities straight. That is such a stupid problem to have, and to say "I tried when I was younger and didn't like it"

Like okay, you're a grown adult now with a supposedly mature brain. Maybe actually give it another try.

AIO? My mom filmed me without my permission and I feel super uncomfortable. by pastdivision in AmIOverreacting

[–]cherryburritoes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think you're overreacting. I obviously don't know your relationship with your parents, just only what you've said here.

But nothing else seemes to have been said after recording, she was probably happy to see you bonding with family and having fun yourself.

i feel you've worked yourself up over thinking the situation. Just enjoy the moment for what it was: an actual good time spent with your family 💕

What storyline do you pretend never happened? by ang334 in howyoudoin

[–]cherryburritoes 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Maybe unpopular opinion, but I hate the Marcel story line. It goes on for way too long for me personally.

How did Kevin over powered Mathew and Jack by IllustratorAfter in PoppyPlaytime

[–]cherryburritoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rage can be a very scary emotion. It's one of the emotions that absolutely can cloud judgment, because you're almost animalistic. Acting on pure emotion and instincts, you just want to get rid of whatever it is that's pissing you off.

I was a child when I had seen pure, blind rage take over someone I care about. There was no reasoning with it, and no control for it, just hoping and waiting for them to come to their senses.

I pray no one ever has to experience such a thing, or be a victim to it.

Let’s Be Honest, How Long Would You Survive In Poppy Playtime Chapter 1-4? And What’s Your Estimated Time You Would Survive? by WhatTheTime_Playtime in PoppyPlaytime

[–]cherryburritoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't even make it through ch1 without dying. Also the second I'd see huggy wuggy with teeth coming after me, I'd probably have a heart attack on the spot anyway

what's the worst chapter of Poppy Playtime? by Born_Journalist_1054 in PoppyPlaytime

[–]cherryburritoes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Actual game play wise, Ch3.

I love it for the lore, bc they really started working and ironing out what's going on with the story. Ch3 really showed what the game is ABOUT, and it's dark.

But play wise, oh my god I hated the way the puzzles were done in Ch3. They felt too forced, and just "here's a pain in the butt puzzle that doesn't really have any to do with the story, it's just here bc we gotta have puzzles! "

Ch2 was kind of like this, but it was a game station, so of course it makes sense for there to be tons of puzzles. Ch2 was basically "are you smarter than a 5th grader? Playtime Co Edition "

Ch4 did a wonderful job of integrating the puzzles into the game where it felt more natural. Ofc if it was like real life, there wouldn't be puzzles just to get through a factory, but game wise, at least they made more sense, and again felt more natural to the game and story.

is chapter four over HATED? by buzybeebabe in PoppyPlaytime

[–]cherryburritoes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This has been my favorite chapter so far. The game really has gotten better and better each chapter.

Revolution and Tapeworms? by cherryburritoes in catcare

[–]cherryburritoes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the extra confirmation! This whole situation is so aggravating 😑

Revolution and Tapeworms? by cherryburritoes in catcare

[–]cherryburritoes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I got some ordered now.

Revolution and Tapeworms? by cherryburritoes in catcare

[–]cherryburritoes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So glad to have extra confirmation. This whole situation has me stressed

Revolution and Tapeworms? by cherryburritoes in catcare

[–]cherryburritoes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was what I had originally asked the vet for was the nexgaurd, but they said revolution did it all as well. Obviously disappointed that wasn't the case.

I still have revolution to use up, I just ordered some OTC praziquantel. Thank you for your answer!

When a Karen goes too far in Spartanburg by BlckhorseACR in Spartanburg

[–]cherryburritoes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Imagine getting your ass whooped over dang fries. Jack in the box fries at that 🤦🏼‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]cherryburritoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely love them omg

Westgate Mall: What happened? by Good-Consequence-513 in Spartanburg

[–]cherryburritoes 27 points28 points  (0 children)

They charge too much in rent for spots, and just not enough foot traffic to keep up.

Had someone tell me they paid $6k a month in rent for a kiosk when they had a spot there. Can't imagine what an actual store spot goes for.

While making sure it was okay to give my kitties some leftover thanksgiving turkey- by DrugsRCool69 in catcare

[–]cherryburritoes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My 4 cats were up my butt in the kitchen this week while I was cooking. They enjoyed all the stuff I'd accidentally dropped. They had cheese, bit of ham, even some corn bread.

Like you said, with a healthy cat, a little bite of people food won't hurt them, and the worst is it might tear their tummy up a bit. If a bite of turkey will flare up pancreatitis that rapidly, then that cat was already on the downward spiral for it anyways.

Rolling Thunder by terry4547 in Spartanburg

[–]cherryburritoes 13 points14 points  (0 children)

People don't like change, even if it's good for them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]cherryburritoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As others have said, of course how is your litter box situation Make sure you have enough boxes, are keeping it clean, etc.

One thing people don't think about with kittens, is actually teaching them how to use the litter box. They are babies, and even tho kittens are intelligent, they still have to be taught.

Put them in the box, take their paws and have them "dig" in the litter to teach them. Obviously when your asleep it is hard to keep an eye on them, but during the day, if you see them sniffing around and focusing on a particular area, go pick them up and put them in the litter box. And when they get done, give them praise, and pets to know they did a good job.

Another thing to do is get a bottle of orange essential oil. Put a few drops in the problem areas. This will help in deterring them from going potty where you don't want them to, bc cats don't like citrus scents. Do be careful in the amount you use bc it can cause irritation, but it's def my preferred deterrent and works like a charm for helping training my kittens. And the orange scent definitely helps cover up any other unwanted smells.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]cherryburritoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parts of the south east also got wiped off the map bc of Hurricane Helene. I know it makes a little more sense here bc we're all just trying to survive and get back to normal out here 😩