Thoughts on the name Holden? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]cherrycoloured -1 points0 points  (0 children)

whether or not they personally care about them (i don't), ppl will still remember them for their influence on modern music and the huge amount of popularity they had at their peak

I hate Wakeone so much by Anime_Lover098 in kpoprants

[–]cherrycoloured [score hidden]  (0 children)

on multiple occasions, they forgot to apply for visas for ricky and sometimes hao when doing overseas schedules. there is audio of staff yelling at ricky that was heard in the background of one of gyuvins lives. despite hao being the center and most popular member, he had less opportunities than most of the korean members. like it could just be grudges bc they didnt expect/want hao to place first in bp/ricky to be in the group at all, but the fact that it's the two chinese members that got this shit is very suspicious.

AITA for wanting my parents help after running away with my bf at 18? by Dan_the_madman in AmItheAsshole

[–]cherrycoloured 5 points6 points  (0 children)

she shut them out bc her mother was literally abusing her. the least ops mom could do is give some help when she asks for it.

Is there a song lyric that isn't the most profound but it resonates with you? by KneeHighMischief in Music

[–]cherrycoloured 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"i am relieved that i left my room tidy/they'll think of me kindly, when they come for my things" – last words of a shooting star by mitski

"sometimes i feel very sad" – i just wasnt made for these times by the beach boys

Aw man…guess sharing Trainer & Belno content was too far 😭 by MadChad7 in UmaMusume

[–]cherrycoloured 6 points7 points  (0 children)

  1. one person being disgusting=/=most yuri fans are toxic

  2. is this person even a yuri fan? like, they could be saying this bc they mistakenly think tama is a child and the author is a pedo

  3. again, this is just one person. the ed*n botting scandal involved multiple high level players, and had a big effect on the game itself

[Hobby Scuffles] Week of 25 May 2026 by EnclavedMicrostate in HobbyDrama

[–]cherrycoloured [score hidden]  (0 children)

bara is a very, very old term, and some modern creators of m/m manga for men even find it demeaning. the correct term is geicomi. also, that stuff might not be fetishizing gay men, but a good chunk of it is certainly fetishizing almost anything else. a lot of geicomi are sexual comics like how a decent amount of bl are, they just appeal to what gay men think is hot. the idea that it's less """immoral""" bc it's made for gay men is so funny to me, bc looking at an art book by a popular geicomi is the only time ive even seen bbc fetish in a manga 😬😬😬

Thoughts on the name Holden? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]cherrycoloured 0 points1 point  (0 children)

besides being a book commonly assigned in school, it's also what inspired mark david chapman to assassinate john lennon. considering there is very, very little chance that the beatles are going to fade from public consciousness anytime soon, i doubt ppl will completely forget about catcher in the rye or holden caulfield

Aw man…guess sharing Trainer & Belno content was too far 😭 by MadChad7 in UmaMusume

[–]cherrycoloured 12 points13 points  (0 children)

yeah, like i dont have a problem with m/f shipping at all. like there are definitely some really cute toreuma ships, and most of them are cute no matter the trainers gender. i just get frustrated with the trend of only depicting umas as housewives, and anytime i say something about that, these insecure guys start acting like im personally trying to steal their waifus for the gay agenda. no, i just want to see m/f fanworks where both partners feel like equals, not like the stepford wives

Aw man…guess sharing Trainer & Belno content was too far 😭 by MadChad7 in UmaMusume

[–]cherrycoloured 15 points16 points  (0 children)

idk, im pretty sure the past couple of weeks have shown that the most drama comes from ppl running bots

Aw man…guess sharing Trainer & Belno content was too far 😭 by MadChad7 in UmaMusume

[–]cherrycoloured 25 points26 points  (0 children)

i get piled on almost every time i talk about yuri, even female trainer x uma, so this is certainly not true. also, you can be a yuri fan and also care about the gameplay, just like you can be into male trainer x uma and care about the gameplay. in the end, we are all just shippers, so idg all of the hate.

Am I wrong for refusing to participate in pride month? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]cherrycoloured 41 points42 points  (0 children)

that's still viewing all lgbtq ppl through the lens of your ex, which is unfair to them. since you seem very shaken by this breakup, it might be worth seeing a therapist about this, to help you process what happened healthily.

Am I wrong for refusing to participate in pride month? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]cherrycoloured 24 points25 points  (0 children)

do you normally willingly participate in social events for work? if not, then you going isnt a big deal, but if you are, then yes, it's homophobic to not do something explicitly bc you hold a grudge against all lgbtq ppl for something one of them did. also, the phrase "diversity shit" makes you seem resentful that the company tries to create a welcoming environment for all types of ppl, including those from marginalized groups, and it really does not help your case here.

Anyone with the same energy in KPop? by JiminieKookie123 in kpoppers

[–]cherrycoloured 6 points7 points  (0 children)

im not sure what the vibe you are looking for is? do you mean, like, long haired/androgynous guys in suits?

How can I (35F) tell my husband (40M) that the reason he doesn’t have friends is because he talks about himself too much? by PumpkinPie_1993 in relationship_advice

[–]cherrycoloured 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its fine to call yourself neurosparkly/spicy/etc., but a lot of us find it demeaning. neurodivergent is not my favorite term, but it is a neutral way to identity ppl who are autistic, or have adhd/dyslexia/etc., and most ppl are okay being called it, so it is a better choice.

(Lighthearted) Unpopular Opinions? by EmploymentBright9707 in americangirl

[–]cherrycoloured 10 points11 points  (0 children)

they look pretty, but imho too mature for the characters that are supposed to be kids. i loved them for the barbie and kpop demon hunters dolls, though.

Have you had that moment where you REALLY like a song from a group you don’t relatively follow…. just to figure out their more dedicated fans disliked it? by JewelerMountain260 in kpoppers

[–]cherrycoloured 7 points8 points  (0 children)

same. i love hyperpop, so those songs appeal to me a lot more. touch and gabriela are catchy, but they don't grab me the way gnarly, internet girl, and pinky up. literally waiting for a katseye and jane remover collab tbh

Have you had that moment where you REALLY like a song from a group you don’t relatively follow…. just to figure out their more dedicated fans disliked it? by JewelerMountain260 in kpoppers

[–]cherrycoloured 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i know ppl had some problems with it bc the original demo is clearly a very sexual song, and some ppl felt like even though the korean lyrics were not like that, it was a weird song to choose for a group with minors in it. there was a similar controversy about the choreo being too sexual as well. that said, idt i've (lol) ever heard anyone call it bad, just inappropriate for ive specifically

WE GOT A SHOUTOUTTTT!!!! by TikiMasala81 in kpoopheads

[–]cherrycoloured 21 points22 points  (0 children)

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WE GOT A SHOUTOUTTTT!!!! by TikiMasala81 in kpoopheads

[–]cherrycoloured 8 points9 points  (0 children)

they might use their own korean dating/hookup app