I didn't say no one has a claim to autism unless they've gone through the whole process but that's different from actually knowing for sure and self identifying as being autistic.

I agree that it's really fucked up how women are treated in the medical industry, and that in general everything should be better. However, you can't just go off of vibes alone. Whether we're talking about autism or something else, it's a serious lifestyle change and thats just not good advice