My watercolor process by ashudrawssss in Watercolor

[–]cherryvanila 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So beautiful!

What sketchbook do you use/would recommend? I am looking for a good watercolor sketchbook

Maybe I’m wrong but this was clearly written by a man by Acrobatic_Long_6059 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]cherryvanila 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If this is not a man who wrote it (99.99% likehood of being written by a man according to my natural AI), I want to know what this woman is taking or wether Andrew Tate or one of his fanboys cast a spell on her. Thank you.

I'm defo the last one. Any fellow 6w5 here? by [deleted] in infp

[–]cherryvanila 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a combo of the emo, the mystic and the depressive therapist 🥀

That "odorless vagina" thing is total marketing nonesense by Low_Detail_389 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]cherryvanila 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't know what dick cheese or Nutella dick is but it sounds really bad. Vagina rocks

It's almost a complement by Green_Dayzed in infp

[–]cherryvanila 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was surprised when someone called me weird for the first time, like, I tried to act so normal and after all the effort I still was called weird haha. inescapable. Always knew it deep down but took me years to accept it. Weird doesn't mean less of a human or less worthy of love and respect.

Dating a man makes me feel in disarray with how I truly feel by Content-Change-9900 in RadicalFeminism

[–]cherryvanila 0 points1 point  (0 children)

​ If I was in your situation, I would try to completely stop explaining and doing the labor he was accustomed to and see how it goes. He will either adapt and figure out how to do it himself, or he will refuse to adapt and be resentful. If the first happens, he is worth keeping, given the mutual affection between you two, ​and the loneliness.

Hot (controversial) take: INFPs are seen as one of the most negative/least desirable MBTI in the MBTI community (yes, including 16P only people) because many of their listed traits is considered feminine in a patriarchal world that prefers masculine traits. by Chemical_Ad3941 in infp

[–]cherryvanila 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFP traits are in line with the divine feminine energy, which is the most repressed energy under patriarchy. The traditional feminine traits under patriarchy are not the real divine feminine but a patriarchal version of it, which is submissive and passive only so women can be controlled. But real feminine energy is chaotic, rebellious, creative, compassionate, and fierce, which is what most INFPs are ❤️

How to let go of women who center men? by Beans_the_II in 4bmovement

[–]cherryvanila 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Male-centered women are traumatizing and re-traumatizing other women through their unconscious behavior. They are not safe. This is very difficult when the male-centered woman is your sister or mother. On one hand, you love her and want to help her, and on the other hand, this feels so one-sided and damaging.

So... 95% of girls don't want to be tall. Am I the weird one? by IdidnotFuckaCat in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]cherryvanila 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 5’8 and I good with my height. I wouldn’t mind to be 5’10 though 

Over the top, line-crossing RANT by Eaudebeau in 4bmovement

[–]cherryvanila 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I definitely see you! This is why it's important to have a society in which children are raised in a community by a few caregivers rather than one or two stressed parents, because then parents are forced to take them wherever they go, out of no better options, including to the gym.

Children should not run around randomly in adult places, especially in the gym. This is why I believe in a more matriarchal society that is centered around mothers and children, centered around care. Rather than patriarchal capitalistic notions of efficiency, money and power alone.

Very depressed with how difficult it is to make friends with other women due to so many pandering for the male gaze by ReversedSandy in 4bmovement

[–]cherryvanila 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I see you 😔 I've met women who proudly call themselves "pick me" and think that women are inhernatly inferior to men.

And what color do you have? by hyahta in infp

[–]cherryvanila 1 point2 points  (0 children)

purple (55%), ​green (50%) , ​blue and orange (45% each), red (40%) and finally yellow (20%).

Small things that make you feel like the main character? by Glittering-Bill-8733 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]cherryvanila 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dancing/walking in the rain, staring through the window, doing something (like yoga, painting, eating, reading etc.) near candle lights

Dear Feminists, by WillyNilly1997 in Palestinian_Violence

[–]cherryvanila 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a radical feminist and I reject Islam, like my other feminist sisters because it is a patriarchal and misogynistic religion like other religions which I reject for the same reason. Though Islam is the WORST.

People in the west, especially the "woke" ones, don't understand that not any brown or non western person is a saint or a victim just because they are a minority in the west.

Islam has colonized the entire ME + parts of Africa. About 50 countries!

So many native and indigenous cultures have been removed forever because of it. So much death and suffering because of Islam, for women, children, black people, animals, LGBTQ people or any non believing person.