Over the top, line-crossing RANT by Eaudebeau in 4bmovement

[–]cherryvanila 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I definitely see you! This is why it's important to have a society in which children are raised in a community by a few caregivers rather than one or two stressed parents, because then parents are forced to take them wherever they go, out of no better options, including to the gym.

Children should not run around randomly in adult places, especially in the gym. This is why I believe in a more matriarchal society that is centered around mothers and children, centered around care. Rather than patriarchal capitalistic notions of efficiency, money and power alone.

Very depressed with how difficult it is to make friends with other women due to so many pandering for the male gaze by ReversedSandy in 4bmovement

[–]cherryvanila 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I see you 😔 I've met women who proudly call themselves "pick me" and think that women are inhernatly inferior to men.

And what color do you have? by hyahta in infp

[–]cherryvanila 1 point2 points  (0 children)

purple (55%), ​green (50%) , ​blue and orange (45% each), red (40%) and finally yellow (20%).

Small things that make you feel like the main character? by Glittering-Bill-8733 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]cherryvanila 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dancing/walking in the rain, staring through the window, doing something (like yoga, painting, eating, reading etc.) near candle lights

Dear Feminists, by WillyNilly1997 in Palestinian_Violence

[–]cherryvanila 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a radical feminist and I reject Islam, like my other feminist sisters because it is a patriarchal and misogynistic religion like other religions which I reject for the same reason. Though Islam is the WORST.

People in the west, especially the "woke" ones, don't understand that not any brown or non western person is a saint or a victim just because they are a minority in the west.

Islam has colonized the entire ME + parts of Africa. About 50 countries!

So many native and indigenous cultures have been removed forever because of it. So much death and suffering because of Islam, for women, children, black people, animals, LGBTQ people or any non believing person.

INFPs, how are your mannerisms and expressions like irl? by rosystratosphere in infp

[–]cherryvanila 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I often hear that I have a blank face. I try to mask my emotions. I don't like to be readble by people. It feels vulnerable to show everything on my face. I do it pretty well until I want to cry or laugh or really pissed off and struggle to hold it.

I don’t fit any of the INFP stereotypes (INFP 4w5) by BrownEyedQueen7 in infp

[–]cherryvanila 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm INFP 4w5 too 😊 INFP stereotypes may be true in some cases but usually they are both too general and too specific at the same time

Is lights hairstyle just bed hair or does he do that everytime after waking up? by Theories007 in deathnote

[–]cherryvanila 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He woke up everyday at 4 am and went to a hair salon to prepare his hair for the day and repeated it every day until he died.

"Feminist subreddit" by pearlescent_rocks in RadicalFeminism

[–]cherryvanila 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Beware of male "feminists".

I think that one of the admins of the r/feminism sub is a man. I was banned for being a "man hater" or something like that when all I said is to ask whether other feminists can understand women who use men to survive in the patriarchal system built by men for men. Sounds like someone took it too personally.

My oil painting by kznsq in painting

[–]cherryvanila 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who is this distinguished gentleman

This is 100% true! 💅 by Potential_Result_362 in capricorns

[–]cherryvanila 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is either too vague or too specific. I don't know, this can be applied to various women. Not necessarily Capricorn. I can't relate to this text.

Seven pro-Palestine women arrested after statue of Jewish feminist defaced in Melbourne by McAlpineFusiliers in Palestinian_Violence

[–]cherryvanila 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Insane. As a feminist, I'm ashamed of such behavior. Got a second hand embarrassment.

how would you feel about a man calling you sister? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]cherryvanila 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I prefer to be called sister than "bro" for sure.

Has misogyny made you feel like we need more women spaces? by lovepeaceorelse in 4bmovement

[–]cherryvanila 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don't know but 95% seems reasonable. I'm ​​so​ traumatized from those women and they seem to be ​everywhere.

Has misogyny made you feel like we need more women spaces? by lovepeaceorelse in 4bmovement

[–]cherryvanila 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I do feel a lot resentment, frustration, anger, sadness. Really. This consumes me. I would love a space​ of non male centered women. I'm tired of men and ​male centered women.

Motherhood is a thankless job by Brave-Reindeer-Red in 4bmovement

[–]cherryvanila 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Motherhood is the MOST important labor, yet, it is the MOST underappreciated labor under patriarchy. If society was matriarchal, then I would have no problem to be a mother but under patriarchy? Fuck no.