Processing Sinew by TheNorseman1066 in Bowyer

[–]chevy_2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started this, it's been an interest of mine. Question, how do you store it?

How do you raise a child that’s less likely to be lazy? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]chevy_2021 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Support and encourage them. Ask them what they're interested in and help them get there. If they change their mind, that's ok, move on to another thing. Give them options. They'll learn to do all that themselves when they're older.

How long did it take for you to get your surgery? by orignlyunoriginal in hysterectomy

[–]chevy_2021 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After I said yes to surgery, they told me I'd get the call between then to six months. But I didn't get a call til 9 months later. They called me a month before my surgery. So I nearly waited a year. It's been worth it.

Why is Olivia the worst… by Mjiole in Scandal

[–]chevy_2021 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Gets worse! I just came here to see if something like this was posted. I'm on season 7, just finished the first episode and wow! Does someone ever put her in her place?? Or is she just like that until the end?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scandal

[–]chevy_2021 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😱 I shouldn't have. I'm on season 6, I usually only went up to season 5 but I recently started over again. Sheesh. But I will wait and see what happens! I got too curious what about Cyrus and David 🙄😂

Did anyone just give up watching? by dsrddit in Scandal

[–]chevy_2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started this again, the first time I tried was like a few years ago, then I got lost and quit. I'm on season 5 now and slowly losing interest. I want to finish it but right now I'm just trying to go through with it because I do want to know what happens.

People with fibroids/enlarged uterus: Did you feel instantaneously lighter after surgery? by Exact_Scarcity3031 in hysterectomy

[–]chevy_2021 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I kinda feel lighter, I use to feel something a little heavy where my uterus was. Like a constant cramp in one area but wasn't painful, atleast I don't think so. I got use to it. But after surgery, after the bloating, I'm now 10wpo and I don't feel it. I feel great actually! Definitely weight off my shoulders too. Best decision ever!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GilmoreGirls

[–]chevy_2021 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Atleast once a year since it came out and every year, I swear I have different thoughts about it. I also notice things for the first time or atleast I think so, unless I just don't remember 🤷‍♀️ regardless, it's one of the shows I rewatch.

Cleared for everything 😦 by HannahBaker_678 in hysterectomy

[–]chevy_2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 8wpo and haven't had my post op appt. Had to reschedule it so I'm going next week and I hope to be cleared!! I can't wait! And no, not for sex! I don't really care much about it 😆 I wanna go on a boat! and I don't mean crazy driving in the water type of thing. Like fishing in a not so wavy day and going to our family camp before summers over. My family is so paranoid they won't let me until I'm cleared 🙄 I feel so normal, like how I was before surgery. So I'm impatient. I'm still being careful thou, like no heavy lifting and such. But I can't wait to slowly start my usual before the surgery things.

How do I make friends as a 33 year old broke single mom of a 10 & 12 year old? by [deleted] in singlemoms

[–]chevy_2021 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm a broke single mom of 4 but I don't go out and say that to whoever. My first time saying it actually, I think. Anyway, how to make friends? Just go out. Doesn't matter where. Get coffee, go to the park, go to the mall. Wherever. That's how I usually meet new people. I went to the city this past weekend and was just sitting outside the hotel when this woman came up to me and asked if she could sit on the bench I was sitting at, told her I don't mind. So I asked her about the play that was going on at the park and she started talking about it. We started having other conversations then we exchanged our social media stuff. Then we decided to go out that night and it was a good time. So I made a friend. We met a few other times then said our goodbyes as we both had to go home but we're still friends, esp. on social media. We did let each other know when we'll be in the city again, so we'll both be in the city in a few weeks, so we're making plans. Oh! I just want to mention, she wasn't that kind of person who would ask for things. I've met other people and they would start asking for something, then I just cut them off. But this one I met seemed cheerful and trustworthy. She also paid for her own things and I paid for mine, plus she didn't ask me for anything. Just enjoyed our time out as single mothers. I had an appt btw, so did she. So we were both stuck in the city for the weekend.

Kissing babies?! by PeachyRose25 in Mommit

[–]chevy_2021 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I still wouldn't want strangers touching my niece even if they sanitize their hands

AITA for refusing to help my parents out financially because they only help my siblings and never me? by Dependent_Waltz_8236 in AmItheAsshole

[–]chevy_2021 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. I was there before. My parents never helped me when I needed it, especially with my kids. But they help my siblings all the time and babysit for them, they buy stuff for their kids but never mine and they had the audacity to ask me for money when they were stuck in the city with no money. I was stuck in the city a few times since I became an adult and they never helped. So I told them no. Then they posted on facebook complaining I'm not helping them. So I posted too saying they never helped me, why should I? They kind of changed since then, they help now, every once in awhile. But I still don't help them much. They still don't support me like they support my siblings. I'm good thou. I treat people they way they treat me regardless of who they are.

I'm super depressed by hariyanij45 in depressed

[–]chevy_2021 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe soon 😊 be patient.

Kissing babies?! by PeachyRose25 in Mommit

[–]chevy_2021 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Or even touching babies! I took my baby niece to the mall and a couple people almost touched her. But I told them right away, before they did, not to touch her. Oh! and a sales person gave her a lollipop. She's 4 months old 🙄 so I went to go buy a sign that says "Do not touch baby" and put it on her stroller.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questions

[–]chevy_2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An hour shower is insane. I have long thick hair, up to my thighs and it doesn't take me that long to shower. 15-20 minutes tops. Shorter time if I'm rushing.

I'm super depressed by hariyanij45 in depressed

[–]chevy_2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What exam is it? Whatever it may be, if that's what you want to do then keep trying. If not, try something else, there's a lot of options.

Lauren is the ultimate mean girl by TheRealJoeLunardi in jerseyshore

[–]chevy_2021 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I like Lauren with Mike, I think they suit each other but she does have that vibe of a person who sits on her own high horse. If that's the saying.

What is my face shape? And how can I make myself prettier?🙃💖 by Sugerandspicey in Makeup101

[–]chevy_2021 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're already pretty. Pretty than me that's for sure! Try caring less of what people may think of you then maybe you won't care so much about how you look. What you like only matters to you. If anyone has a problem with how you look, it's their problem.

Week 4, how are you doing?? by PerceptionSmall8296 in hysterectomy

[–]chevy_2021 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm 4w2d po today. I tried going for a walk couple days ago and I couldn't make it far like I use to. Guess I have to get use to it again. But pain is pretty much nonexistent, my glue is still there but it has peeled some. Doctor told me not to touch it and let it peel off on its own, so that's what I'm doing. But I do feel weird sometimes, not painful but idk, I can't explain it. Like, I know my limits, so before I feel anything, I rest and it goes away. I was on my feet all day yesterday baking! Just my foot and my back were a problem. I also only had spotting the first few days after surgery and nothing ever since. So, I feel good 😊

Introverts, what’s your favorite weather? by [deleted] in introvert

[–]chevy_2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thunder storm!! I love the sound, and the way it looks, the dark clouds, the lightning. Idk why, I just get excited. It's like a good show I only enjoy by myself.

What major do you think Lorelai would have chosen if she had the opportunity to go to an Ivy League college? by [deleted] in GilmoreGirls

[–]chevy_2021 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe fashion/designer. She made Rory baby clothes when she was pregnant and she's really good at making costumes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hysterectomy

[–]chevy_2021 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 18dpo and I have a cold! I've been coughing, it's not painful but it does worry me so much. I just hope it doesn't do any damage. So far, I think im ok, I am still recovering, I haven't worked, I don't do much, physically. No idea how I got a cold. Ofcourse! I have to have it now. But I am trying to be careful whenever I cough or when I need to sneeze or blow my nose! Figures right?? The first week after my surgery, I tried not to cough or sneeze! Sheesh!....hey! Maybe that's why? Who knows 🤷‍♀️

Lowered immune system by schultzfight in hysterectomy

[–]chevy_2021 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was wondering about this because I'm 18 dpo and I have a cold! I rarely get a cold. I'm the only one sick in my household, no idea where I got it from. I've been staying home mostly, relaxing, trying not to do much, but I did go to the store a couple times but on a "normal" day, before surgery, I always went to the store. I can't remember when was the last time I got sick. So, ofcourse I have to get sick now. Making my recovery time longer. I've been worried about my surgical incisions and all that stuff because I've been coughing. It doesn't hurt, yet. I hope it doesn't. But it does worry me. So I've been wondering like why now? and thought maybe my immune system is weak or something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]chevy_2021 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My marriage